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Podcast: Liquid Church
Episode: How To Fight Fair In Your Marriage | Crazy Stupid Love Part 2
Description: To make love last in a marriage, you must fight fair! Dr. John Gottman, a relationship expert, studied couples for years and found four red flags when it comes to conflict. They are: criticizing each other, feeling contempt (that's like disrespect), getting defensive, and shutting down (also known as stonewalling). These are the ingredients that build resentment and often lead to divorce. We have to learn what not to do in order to learn how to fight fair.Â
There are also three green flags, or healthy habits that couples should use in their relationships: be quick to l...