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Podcast: Turn it Up! Marriage Tips and Tools
Episode: Stop Being Defensive in your Marriage
Description: Overcoming Defensiveness in Marriage: 7 Biblical Steps to Build a Healthier RelationshipIn this episode, Kelly DuPee, pastor, police chaplain, Christian marriage coach, and author, addresses the harmful effects of defensiveness in marriage. He explains how defensiveness, whether it manifests as anger or emotional shutdown, damages relationships. Kelly provides biblical principles and practical steps to help couples respond constructively rather than react defensively. Key steps include choosing to respond, focusing on understanding, empathizing, repeating back concerns, clarifying with questions, apologizing, and committing to change. With these insights, couples can foster trust, empathy, and real connection in their marriages.Want to improve...