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Podcast: The Nope Coach
Episode: The Identity Hangover Who Are You When You Stop People-Pleasing
Description: There's a moment that doesn't get talked about enough. It comes after you start saying no. After you stop over-explaining. After you stop contorting yourself to keep everyone comfortable. At first, it feels powerful. Liberating. Like finally exhaling. Then it gets weird. You feel untethered. Hollow. Disoriented. You start wondering who you even are without being the reliable one, the fixer, the emotional glue. This is the identity hangover. In this episode, I unpack: Why people-pleasing is an identity, not just a habit.