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Podcast: Turn it Up! Marriage Tips and Tools
Episode: How to show someone you understand
Description: Has anyone ever said to you, "You just don't get it!"? You may have been listening but you failed to show that you understand what they are saying and what you think they might be feeling. In this short video, I explain there are three steps to showing someone you understand.
Here are the points I cover:
1. Listen and empathize - Pay attention, focus and think about what the person is saying to you. As you do that, imagine how you would feel if that happened to you. Would you feel frustrated, angry, happy, sad?
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