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Episode: TPJ 68: Who's to Blame for the Family Fights?
Description: There's a mindset that has permeated our culture and it's causing a lot of damage. It ruins our homes and families, our relationships, and even entire communities. Which mindset? Blaming. Let's discuss. [03:32] The blaming mindset is rampant in our culture. [08:41] How does blaming help? [09:49] How a blaming mindset affects our homes. [10:29] Blame triggers defensiveness. [11:53] Blaming over-simplifies a problem. [14:13] Blame makes people deflect. [16:34] Instead, let's develop a solution mindset. [20:19] Say "We don't blame in this family." [21:17] Empathize When we empathize wi...