Want to create an interactive transcript for this episode?
Podcast: After the Affair
Episode: 164. They Chose Someone Else: What Does That Say About Me?
Description: One of the most painful parts of betrayal is believing someone else was chosen instead of you.
It can feel like a verdict, proof that you weren’t enough, that your worth has been measured and found wanting.
But what if being chosen was never the measure of your value in the first place?
In this episode, Luke explores the deeply human craving to be chosen and how it becomes distorted after betrayal. He explains why comparing yourself to an affair partner keeps you trapped in a story that was never about you, an...