After the Affair
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184. It Didn’t Work Out Like I Thought It Would - Pt 1 of 4
12 mins; April 01, 2026
183. “It Meant Nothing” Why That Doesn’t Make Betrayal Easier
9 mins; March 25, 2026
182. It Just Happened. The Myth of the Sudden Affair
10 mins; March 18, 2026
181. I Was Drunk… It Would Never Have Happened Sober. The Truth About Alcohol and Betrayal
11 mins; March 11, 2026
180. If You Feel Stuck After Betrayal… This Is For You
10 mins; March 04, 2026
179. Breaking the Reaction Cycle: How to Handle Powerful Emotions After Betrayal
8 mins; February 25, 2026
178. The First 30 Days After Betrayal: Don’t Make These Mistakes
21 mins; February 18, 2026
177. Intrusive Thoughts During Sex After Betrayal
11 mins; February 11, 2026
176. Pacing: Why Rushing Your Healing Slows It Down
13 mins; February 04, 2026
175. What’s Actually Essential After Betrayal
13 mins; January 28, 2026
174. Are You Being Driven by Fear?
13 mins; January 21, 2026
173. When Your Partner Still Has Feelings for Their Affair Partner
9 mins; January 14, 2026
172. Are You Healing… or Just Protecting Yourself?
12 mins; January 07, 2026
171. The 3 Ingredients Behind Most Betrayals
11 mins; December 31, 2025
170.5 You Didn’t Fail Because They Had Unmet Needs
3 mins; December 25, 2025
170. Why “Why Did They Cheat?” Is the Wrong Question
8 mins; December 24, 2025
169. Why You Can’t Decide After Betrayal: And How Decisions Really Work
9 mins; December 17, 2025
168. Life After Betrayal: What Nobody Told You Is Possible.
14 mins; December 10, 2025
167. Is Non-Monogamy Just an Excuse for Betrayal?
12 mins; December 03, 2025
166. Why You’re Still Suffering After Betrayal
12 mins; November 26, 2025
165. I'm Doing Therapy… So Why Am I Still Stuck?
11 mins; November 19, 2025
164. They Chose Someone Else: What Does That Say About Me?
12 mins; November 11, 2025
163. The Lag: When You’re Out of Sync After Betrayal
17 mins; November 05, 2025
162. When You Don’t Know What to Do After Betrayal
8 mins; October 29, 2025
161. Workplace Affairs: Why They Happen and How to Heal When They Do
28 mins; October 22, 2025
160. The Problem with Using Ai to Heal Your Heart After Betrayal
12 mins; October 15, 2025
159. The Truth About Safety After Betrayal
13 mins; October 08, 2025
158. Fight, Apologise, Repeat: Breaking the Cycle of False Hope
10 mins; October 01, 2025
157. When the Marriage Doesn’t Survive Infidelity
14 mins; September 24, 2025
156. Beyond Good and Bad: Rethinking Your Feelings After Infidelity
22 mins; September 17, 2025
155. Back to Basics After the Affair
13 mins; September 10, 2025
154. Contempt After Betrayal: The Silent Killer of Connection
15 mins; September 03, 2025
153. Cheating Isn’t the End: But Lack of Accountability Might Be
20 mins; August 27, 2025
152. Serial Cheaters - Can They Ever Really Change?
19 mins; August 20, 2025
151. The Questions You’re Afraid to Ask: But Desperately Need Answered (Q&A Part 2)
17 mins; August 13, 2025
150. Trigger Warning: What To Do When Everything Sets You Off After Infidelity
17 mins; August 06, 2025
149. When the Woman Cheats: and the Man Is Left Holding the Pieces
10 mins; July 30, 2025
148. He Chose You… in Secret: What It Really Means When a Married Man Pursues You
19 mins; July 23, 2025
147. When Things Feel Off: Trusting Your Gut After Betrayal
15 mins; July 16, 2025
146. Infidelity Recovery Expert Q&A: The Questions You’re Too Tired to Keep Asking
17 mins; July 09, 2025
145. Hoping They’ll Change? Here’s the Truth About One-Sided Love.
17 mins; July 02, 2025
144. You Crossed the Line, Now Here’s Mine: Boundaries After Betrayal
13 mins; June 25, 2025
143. From Rock Bottom to Rising Strong: Hope on the Infidelity Recovery Journey
7 mins; June 18, 2025
142. Disgust, Shame, and Survival: The Psychology Behind Post-Affair Revulsion
13 mins; June 11, 2025
141. I Know Why They Cheated - It Still Hurts Though
13 mins; June 04, 2025
140. Am I Going Crazy? Real Words from the Betrayed
25 mins; May 28, 2025
139. Too Emotional After the Affair? Or Just Too Afraid to Feel?
14 mins; May 21, 2025
138. Seeking Reassurance after Betrayal: It’s Never Enough Though
23 mins; May 14, 2025
137. When You Suspect an Affair
13 mins; May 07, 2025
136. The ABCs of Infidelity Recovery – Acceptance, Boundaries, Compassion
10 mins; April 30, 2025
135. You Were Betrayed: But Somehow You’re the One Afraid to Talk
14 mins; April 23, 2025
134. Betrayed and Ready to Give Up? Listen to this First
15 mins; April 16, 2025
133. Letting Go of the Outcome in Infidelity Recovery
10 mins; April 09, 2025
132. I’ve Been Cheated On and Everyone Is Judging Me... I Think
15 mins; April 02, 2025
131. Healing Requires Uncertainty – Learning to Trust What You Can’t See
12 mins; March 26, 2025
130. It’s TIME To Do Something Different After Betrayal
15 mins; March 19, 2025
129. You Don’t Have to Stay, Leave, or Forgive: You Only Have to Choose
13 mins; March 12, 2025
128. Was the Affair Partner Better? The Truth About Comparison
16 mins; March 05, 2025
127. Desire vs. Choice: Understanding the Power You Have in an Affair
14 mins; February 26, 2025
126. Betrayal and The Male Ego: Rebuilding After the Ultimate Blow
14 mins; February 19, 2025
125. Stuck Between Two Choices: Here’s What You’re Missing With Binary Thinking
11 mins; February 12, 2025
124. Advanced Guide to Thinking After Betrayal: The Bookshop and Publisher
16 mins; February 05, 2025
123. Confirmation Bias: Are You Seeking What You Fear After Infidelity?
11 mins; January 29, 2025
122. You Have Built A Glass Wall: And It Is Keeping You Stuck
22 mins; January 22, 2025
121. Healing in the Aftermath: A Couple’s Journey Through Infidelity
59 mins; January 15, 2025
120. Does Secrecy Breed Passion In An Affair?
16 mins; January 08, 2025
119. Looking Back to Move Forward After the Affair: The Best of 2024
16 mins; January 01, 2025
118. Christmas After Betrayal: Create Something New
9 mins; December 25, 2024
117. Dealing With The Online Comments Section After Infidelity
13 mins; December 18, 2024
116. Religion and Betrayal: A Match made in Hell
14 mins; December 11, 2024
115. Staying for the Kids: Parenting After Betrayal
11 mins; December 04, 2024
114. Is Porn Even Cheating? with Porn Addiction Coach, Matt Smith
50 mins; November 27, 2024
113. Emotional Affairs: The Betrayal You Can’t See
20 mins; November 20, 2024
112. Redefining Manhood: Purpose, Identity, and the Role of Infidelity
14 mins; November 13, 2024
111. It’s Over, But I’m Still Stuck: The Ghosts of Infidelity That Won’t Go Away (3/3)
14 mins; November 06, 2024
110. Why Can’t We Heal? When the Unfaithful Partner's Best Efforts Still Fall Short (2/3)
11 mins; October 30, 2024
109. You Cheated, So Why Am I the One Fixing Things? (1/3)
12 mins; October 23, 2024
108. Is Your Relationship Due for an Update?
15 mins; October 16, 2024
107. Why Relationship Statistics Are Wrong About You
10 mins; October 09, 2024
106. Why Men Can’t Win: And Why Women Need to Hear This
22 mins; October 02, 2024
105. The Shock of a Same-Sex Affair: Healing After an Unexpected Betrayal
15 mins; September 25, 2024
104. Don't Heal - The Inverse Approach After Infidelity
26 mins; September 18, 2024
103. Why I Love Breaking the Rules of Infidelity: Societal Expectations Debunked
28 mins; September 11, 2024
102. Doing the Work After the Affair
17 mins; September 04, 2024
101. Afraid to Be Seen? The Hard Truth About Validation and Betrayal
24 mins; August 28, 2024
100. The Anniversaries We Hate: Redefining Time and Memory
17 mins; August 21, 2024
99. The Want Match: Aligning Desires After Betrayal
15 mins; August 14, 2024
98. Trickle Truth: The Pain of Gradual Disclosure in Infidelity
14 mins; August 07, 2024
97. Time to Choose: Infidelity and the Truth We Face
15 mins; July 31, 2024
96. Why Being Right Is Destroying Your Relationship
15 mins; July 24, 2024
95. Healing from Betrayal Using Internal Family Systems (IFS)
22 mins; July 17, 2024
94. Lover vs. Provider: Exploring the Complexities of Infidelity
22 mins; July 10, 2024
93. The Stories We Tell Ourselves: The Symbolism of Betrayal
21 mins; July 03, 2024
92. When Apologies Don't Cut It After Infidelity: Moving Beyond Dependency
16 mins; June 26, 2024
91. What Are Your Beliefs Costing You?
21 mins; June 19, 2024
90. The Neuroscience of Trust and Betrayal
21 mins; June 12, 2024
89. I Bet You Have Unhealthy Coping Mechanisms: How to Spot them After Infidelity
24 mins; June 05, 2024
88. Hysterical Bonding: Navigating Intense Emotions After Infidelity
16 mins; May 29, 2024
87. The Power of Compersion: What Polyamory can teach us about Healing from Infidelity
14 mins; May 22, 2024
86. Why Affairs Don't Last
21 mins; May 15, 2024