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After the Affair

The ‘After the affair’ podcast with Luke Shillings is here to help you process, decide, and move forward on purpose following infidelity. Let’s explore what’s required to rebuild trust not only in yourself, but also with others. Whether you stay or leave, I can help! and no matter what your story, there will be something here for you.

85. Instructions Not Included: Why You Suck at Relationships

26 mins; May 08, 2024

84. Breaking the Ranks: Navigating Infidelity in Military Marriages with Caz Grant

51 mins; May 01, 2024

83. Contemplating Infidelity: The Weight of Unseen Thoughts in Relationships

21 mins; April 24, 2024

82. Growth After Betrayal: Universal Truths

13 mins; April 17, 2024

81. Your Wife is Having an Affair. I Know Because it's with My Husband

31 mins; April 10, 2024

80. Should I Contact the Affair Partner?

19 mins; April 03, 2024

79. Betrayal Unpacked: Two Ways to Heal

20 mins; March 27, 2024

78. A Story of Betrayal: No Place Like Home

17 mins; March 20, 2024

77. The Intricate Dance Between People Pleasing and Infidelity

11 mins; March 13, 2024

76. Addicted to an Affair with David Essel

53 mins; March 06, 2024

75. 8 Steps to Healing part 2: Rebuilding and Renewal

20 mins; February 28, 2024

74. 8 Steps to Healing part 1: Laying the Foundations

18 mins; February 21, 2024

73. The Empathy Challenge: Conflict After Infidelity

13 mins; February 14, 2024

72. How to Get Over Your Ex: With Breakup Coach Dorothy

50 mins; February 07, 2024

71. Is Forgiveness Necessary? Can You Reconcile Without It?

25 mins; January 31, 2024

70. The 3rd Law of Conflict: Can Isaac Newton Help us Heal?

17 mins; January 24, 2024

69. Intimacy After Infidelity: Under the Sheets with Sex Expert, Lee-ann Cordingley

55 mins; January 17, 2024

68. Reward or Punishment: Rewriting Our Reward System After an Affair

16 mins; January 10, 2024

67. Facing Failure after Infidelity: Shifting the Narrative

12 mins; January 03, 2024

66. Farewell 2023: A Year of Recovery, Resilience, and Reflection

4 mins; December 27, 2023

65. Choice or Obligation: Should I stay or leave after the affair?

29 mins; December 20, 2023

64. Benefits of Healing from Infidelity

24 mins; December 13, 2023

63. What if it was me? Self-Reflection in the Wake of Betrayal

21 mins; December 06, 2023

62. Overcoming Thought Addiction after Betrayal

22 mins; November 29, 2023

61. Once a Cheater: Possibly a Keeper?

18 mins; November 22, 2023

60. Gaslighting an Affair? Take a look in the Mirror

19 mins; November 15, 2023

59. Trust After Betrayal: Is There Hope?

26 mins; November 08, 2023

58. Why We Stray: Does Attachment Theory Explain the Unthinkable

25 mins; November 01, 2023

After the Affair Podcast - What to expect.

2 mins; November 01, 2023

57. Between Culture & Infidelity - A Journey of Identity, Love and Self Discovery with Yasmin Majid

60 hours 51 mins; October 25, 2023

56. ’Humping’ After the Affair - Navigating the Emotional Terrain of Recovery

23 mins; October 18, 2023

55. The Invisible Weight - Societal Pressures after Betrayal

17 mins; October 11, 2023

54. Divorce after Betrayal - Expert Perspectives with Charlotte Tweed

48 mins; October 04, 2023

53. Betrayed and Doomed - Spot the Signs and Know When to Walk

25 mins; September 27, 2023

52. Ignoring Red Flags - The Guilt of Not Acting Sooner

17 mins; September 20, 2023

51. Parenting Through Infidelity with Ben Pugh

52 mins; September 13, 2023

50. Dating After the Affair

32 mins; September 06, 2023

49. A Choice No One Talks About: Are you Volunteering to be a Victim?

18 mins; August 30, 2023

48. Motivating Change: Faust Ruggiero’s Guide for Professional Self-Help

47 mins; August 23, 2023

47. Understanding Cheaters

11 mins; August 16, 2023

46. From Struggle to Triumph - Heather O’Connor’s Tale of Reinvention after Divorce

47 mins; August 09, 2023

45. Affair Partners - The bad smell that just won’t leave

20 mins; August 02, 2023

44. Redefining Masculinity with Jennifer Jehl

41 mins; July 26, 2023

43. Solitude - Working alone, Healing together

13 mins; July 19, 2023

42. Pivot after Infidelity with Furkhan Dandia

46 mins; July 12, 2023

41. The Aftermath - How to deal with Sudden Change

12 mins; July 05, 2023

40. Looking Inside with Jen Frey

47 mins; June 28, 2023

39. Unveiling EmpathMe - The Dark Side of Self-Empathy

13 mins; June 21, 2023

38. Breakthrough Conversations with Diana Maria Indries

56 mins; June 14, 2023

37. Identity - Who Am I Now?

19 mins; June 07, 2023

36. Couples Retreat - With Tamika Carlton

45 mins; May 31, 2023

35. Reject Compromise - Rethinking Resolution in Relationships

19 mins; May 23, 2023

34. Resentment Reboot - Trust yourself after Betrayal

13 mins; May 17, 2023

33. Forgiveness with Nicole Harvick - The Quantum Energy Healer

43 mins; May 10, 2023

32. Through the Lens of Negativity

19 mins; May 03, 2023

31. The Role of Self-Awareness after Infidelity

19 mins; April 26, 2023

30. The Tech Trap - How Infidelity is being facilitated by Technology

37 mins; April 19, 2023

29. The Truth behind Unconditional Love

16 mins; April 12, 2023

28. Breaking the Cycle

16 mins; April 06, 2023

27. Redefining Self Worth - A candid conversation with David Redbord

47 mins; March 29, 2023

26. Secrets of an Infidelity Coach

20 mins; March 22, 2023

25. The Power of Limerence

14 mins; March 15, 2023

24. Jealousy Unmasked

17 mins; March 08, 2023

23. The Danger of People Pleasing

11 mins; March 01, 2023

22. The Blame Shame Game

13 mins; February 22, 2023

21. Why People Cheat

14 mins; February 15, 2023

20. How to handle any problem.

17 mins; February 08, 2023

19. Confidence After Infidelity

14 mins; February 01, 2023

18. Road to Forgiveness

15 mins; January 25, 2023

17. It’s all Lies

14 mins; January 18, 2023

16. Best way to Heal

15 mins; January 11, 2023

15.The Motivational Triad

14 mins; January 04, 2023

14. Put it to Work

9 mins; December 21, 2022

13. Know Your Boundaries

15 mins; December 14, 2022

12. The Rulebook

21 mins; December 07, 2022

11. Rose Tinted Glassed or Not

12 mins; December 02, 2022

10. When Things Seemed Fine

42 mins; November 23, 2022

9. Rebuild Trust

21 mins; November 16, 2022

8. Choosing to Stay

20 mins; November 09, 2022

7. Don’t Mention the ’F’ Word

16 mins; November 02, 2022

6. Unexpected Guilt

16 mins; October 26, 2022

5. When Words Ignite

17 mins; October 19, 2022

4. The Truth

14 mins; October 12, 2022

3. Misjudging Others

20 mins; October 07, 2022

2. Letting Go

18 mins; October 03, 2022

1. Consider This

16 mins; October 02, 2022

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