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Podcast: After the Affair
Episode: 171. The 3 Ingredients Behind Most Betrayals
Description: As the year comes to a close, many betrayed partners find themselves reviewing everything that happened, and quietly turning that review into self-attack.
What did I miss?
What should I have done differently?
How did this happen to me?
In this episode, Luke offers a clear, grounding framework for understanding how most betrayals actually occur, without excusing the behaviour and without placing responsibility where it doesn’t belong.
You’ll learn the three ingredients that show up again and again behind infidelity: unmet needs, unhealthy coping, and weak or unde...