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Sharleen Joynt and Andy Levine—aka "Shandy"—combine dating advice and reality show recaps for a fun analysis of modern romance.Sharleen and Andy are two former commitment-phobes who have now been married for over a decade. They don’t believe in fate, soulmates, or The One. So how did they wind up so happily married? They learned the tough dating lessons by living them. Get no-holds-barred, non-judgmental & honest advice from two people who actually have what you want: a fun, blissful partnership.As an iconic former Bachelor contestant, Sharleen brings her insider knowledge (combined with Andy's hilarious commentary) to delive...

Q&A! Making the First Move & Rekindling Romance From the Friendzone

79 hours 3 mins; May 13, 2021

LOVE FEST! Sydney Lotuaco Reveals How Nick Wehby Slid Into Her DMs & Won Her Heart

72 hours 26 mins; May 06, 2021

Did I Miss My Proposal?!

58 mins; April 29, 2021

Confessions of a Reality TV Dating Show Host ft. Mark L. Walberg (Temptation Island)

69 hours 43 mins; April 22, 2021

Q&A! Relationship Disillusionment

74 hours 3 mins; April 15, 2021

LOVE FEST! Desiree & Chris Siegfried On How Kids Have Impacted Their Relationship

71 hours 25 mins; April 08, 2021

I'm Secretly In Love With My Best Friend And Roommate—Help!

55 mins; April 01, 2021

Confessions of a Family and Marriage Therapist ft. LizListens

70 hours 21 mins; March 25, 2021

Q&A! He's Everything I Want, But We Don't Share the Same Sense of Humor—Help!

64 hours 42 mins; March 18, 2021

LOVE FEST! Kaitlyn Bristowe & Jason Tartick Discuss Starting in the Friendzone

77 hours 52 mins; March 11, 2021

I Don't Yearn For My Partner When We're Apart—Is This A Bad Sign?!

61 hours 16 mins; March 04, 2021

Confessions of a Sex Therapist ft. Dr. Lauren Fogel Mersy

76 hours 5 mins; February 25, 2021

Q&A! Staying Connected with Exes on Social Media & Second Chances

79 hours 14 mins; February 18, 2021

LOVE FEST! Ashley Iaconetti & Jared Haibon Reveal How Their Love Story Is the Exception to the Rule

75 hours 14 mins; February 11, 2021

My Boyfriend and I View COVID Differently—Is This A Deal Breaker?!

79 hours 4 mins; February 04, 2021

Navigating Jealousy in Relationships & Exploring Non-Monogamy ft. Janet W. Hardy

64 hours 58 mins; January 28, 2021

Q&A! Keeping the Chemistry Alive & Navigating Unhappy Marriages

72 hours 29 mins; January 21, 2021

Q&A! Keeping the Chemistry Alive & Navigating Unhappy Marriages

72 hours 30 mins; January 21, 2021

LOVE FEST! Derek Peth & Saffron Vadher Talk Love At First Sight

76 hours 22 mins; January 14, 2021

Did My Date Fake Sickness to Abruptly Leave Our Date?!

61 hours 42 mins; January 07, 2021

Our Proposal Story

64 hours 20 mins; December 31, 2020

Q&A! Compromising for Relationships & Leaving Lost Causes

73 hours 19 mins; December 24, 2020

LOVE FEST! Rachel Lindsay & Bryan Abasolo Address Marriage Rumors and Cat Plates

76 hours 33 mins; December 17, 2020

We're at an Emotional Stalemate—Should We Break Up?

65 hours 47 mins; December 10, 2020

The Do's and Don'ts of Managing Finances As A Couple

54 mins; December 03, 2020

Q&A! Dating Leagues & Yellow Flags

66 hours 13 mins; November 26, 2020

LOVE FEST! Lesley Anne Murphy & Alex Kavanagh Talk Moving, Pregnancy, and Their Drone Love Story

60 hours 29 mins; November 19, 2020

Should I Tell My Ex Lover's Girlfriend About Our Secret Affair?

59 mins; November 12, 2020

Confessions of a Divorced Man in His 40's ft. Comedian Dov Davidoff

59 mins; November 05, 2020

Q&A! My Boyfriend Is Following His Ex's OnlyFans—Is This Borderline Cheating?!

78 hours 56 mins; October 29, 2020

LOVE FEST! Astrid Loch & Kevin Wendt Talk Meeting on Bachelor in Paradise & Dominos Love

68 hours 0 mins; October 22, 2020

I've Never Been in a Meaningful Relationship—Help!

73 hours 53 mins; October 15, 2020

Enneagram Types in Relationships ft. Certified Enneagram Coach Steph Barron Hall

65 hours 33 mins; October 08, 2020

Q&A! Dating Younger Men, Navigating Breakups, & Zombie Apocalypse Sex

57 mins; October 01, 2020

LOVE FEST! Vanessa Grimaldi & Joshua Wolfe Chat Poop & Poutine

59 mins; September 24, 2020

My Date Doesn't Ask Questions — Is it Him Or Me?

58 mins; September 17, 2020

Can You Remain Friends With an Ex? ft. Andy's Ex-Fiancée

76 hours 2 mins; September 10, 2020

Q&A! Prenups, Defining the Relationship, & Playing It Cool

55 mins; September 03, 2020

LOVE FEST! Caila Quinn & Nick Burrello Talk Relationship Hurdles & Hobbit Feet

63 hours 18 mins; August 27, 2020

My Real-Life "The Bachelor" Dating Scenario

64 hours 28 mins; August 20, 2020

Welcome to Dear Shandy & How We Met

60 hours 32 mins; August 13, 2020

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