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Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher

For over 30 years, Maurice W. Harker, M.ed, has been working to provide practical and powerful interventions based on a synergy Eternal Principles with accurate psychology science. He was a Clinical Mental Health Counselor for over 17 years (2005-2022). Clients and students of psychology thrive on the hope and happiness that come from what he teaches. This podcast is a series of samplings of his live training sessions. You can learn more from the videos wound on the YouTube channel: Life Changing Services.

How to Stay Peaceful Around Difficult People: Compassion, Boundaries, and Emotional Strength

8 mins; April 03, 2026

When Conversations Turn Into Conflict: How to Protect Your Faith, Boundaries, and Peace

9 mins; April 02, 2026

Personal Revelation vs. Outside Opinions: How to Discern Truth and Grow with Confidence

8 mins; April 01, 2026

How to Handle Hurtful Conversations with Your Children: Boundaries, Faith, and Emotional Strength

9 mins; March 31, 2026

Handling Criticism and Imperfection: How to Stay Peaceful When Others Point Out Your Flaws

9 mins; March 30, 2026

Be Patient With Yourself: Overcoming Inadequacy and Embracing Growth Through Gospel Principles

8 mins; March 29, 2026

Train Your Mind to Respond Better: Using Thought Sequences to Improve Marriage and Emotional Control

10 mins; March 28, 2026

How to Stop Yelling and Stay Calm: Rewiring Emotional Reactions Through Thought Planning

12 mins; March 27, 2026

How to Train Your Brain: Replacing Negative Thoughts with Intentional Mental Practice

10 mins; March 26, 2026

How to Change Your Thinking About Your Spouse: Rewiring Negative Thoughts Through Intentional Planning

11 mins; March 25, 2026

3x5 Card System for Self-Mastery: Identity, Mission & Daily Planning for Lasting Change

11 mins; March 24, 2026

The Power of the 3x5 Card: Overcoming Negative Thoughts & Building Self-Mastery Through Simple Daily Habits

11 mins; March 23, 2026

Discouragement Isn’t Repentance: Escaping Shame Spirals & Trusting Christ’s “Begin Again”

15 mins; March 12, 2026

New Beginnings in Christ: Identity, Repentance, and Escaping Shame Spirals

31 mins; March 09, 2026

Forgiveness vs. Safety: Trust, Repentance, and Boundaries in Dating & Marriage

15 mins; March 05, 2026

New Beginnings Are Always Possible: Repentance, Hope, and Healing Old Patterns

15 mins; March 02, 2026

Faith Over Fear: Teamwork, Revelation, and Moving Forward When You Can’t See the Miracle Yet

14 mins; February 26, 2026

Teamwork, Revelation, and Compassion: How to Build Spiritual Unity Without Perfection

13 mins; February 23, 2026

Teamwork, Feedback, and Delegation: How to Stop Comparison & Build Strong Teams

15 mins; February 19, 2026

Eternal Warriors: Teamwork, Delegation, and Beating Comparison After the Mission

28 mins; February 16, 2026

Eternal Warriors: Teamwork, Mercy, and Staying Faithful When People Fail (Without Shame or Contention)

26 mins; January 08, 2026

Eternal Warriors: Discovering Your Purpose, Building Teams, and Beating Comparison Through Gospel-Centered Self-Mastery

27 mins; January 05, 2026

Cheer With Charity: Holding Boundaries, Staying Anchored in Christ, and Healing Marriage Through Gospel Principles

28 mins; January 01, 2026

Cheering Each Other Home: Divine Patience, Family Boundaries, and Staying Connected in a Divided World

28 mins; December 29, 2025

Building a Spiritual Presidential Cabinet: Ending Isolation & Designing Your Mind with Christ

29 mins; December 11, 2025

Small & Simple Spiritual Systems: DPAR, Sticky Notes & Beating ‘Not Enough’ Lies

28 mins; December 08, 2025

Notes to Self, Satan’s Lies & Spiritual Exhaustion: Turning Opposition Into Divine Momentum

35 mins; December 04, 2025

Winning the War Between Remembering & Forgetting: Building Your Personal Iron Rod

22 mins; December 01, 2025

Seeds, Weeds & Teammates: How God Uses Your “Weaknesses” to Work Miracles

30 mins; November 27, 2025

Eternal Warriors 4.0: Beating Boredom, Anxiety & Satan’s Lies with Passion Projects

24 mins; November 24, 2025

"Perfect Love, Broken People: How God Uses Your Mess to Heal a Battlefield" Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher Podcast | Hosted by Maurice Harker

28 mins; November 20, 2025

"God’s Work Cannot Be Frustrated: Finding Miracles in Your Mess" Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher Podcast | Hosted by Maurice Harker

27 mins; November 17, 2025

Feel too messy for miracles? How God works with your mess

27 mins; November 03, 2025

Intrusive thoughts hijack your day? Flip them fast with DPAR

31 mins; October 27, 2025

Stuck second-guessing every move? Use DPAR to act now

27 mins; October 20, 2025

Exhausted by constant conflict at home? Try healthy disentanglement

27 mins; October 02, 2025

Feeling spiritually adrift? Build your personal iron rod today

30 mins; September 29, 2025

Keep Losing Motivation? Try Warrior Chemistry & the DPAR Cycle

29 mins; September 25, 2025

Feeling Unmotivated? Discover Warrior Chemistry & Lasting Drive

27 mins; September 22, 2025

Why Is My Wife Still Triggered—Even When I’m Doing Better?

17 mins; August 02, 2025

Why Does She Feel Threatened by Everyone? Understanding Triggers After Betrayal

9 mins; August 01, 2025

Why Can’t I Understand My Wife? Discovering Her True Value

7 mins; July 31, 2025

Why Doesn’t She Trust Me Anymore? The Deep Cost of Invalidating Her Pain

8 mins; July 30, 2025

Why Can’t She Trust Me—Even Now? The Hidden Impact of Betrayal Trauma

7 mins; July 29, 2025

Why Isn’t She Trusting Me Yet? Recovery Means More Than Just Sobriety

8 mins; July 28, 2025

Why Do I Keep Failing at Emotional Moments? You’re Not Practicing Right

12 mins; July 27, 2025

Why Can’t I Respond Better in the Moment? You Haven’t Practiced Enough

11 mins; July 26, 2025

Why Do I Get Defensive When She Shares Pain? Learn to Protect, Not React

9 mins; July 25, 2025

Why Does Talking About the Past Always Go Wrong? Learn to Do It Right

11 mins; July 24, 2025

Why Am I Still Failing in My Marriage? Because You’re Not Practicing

11 mins; July 23, 2025

Why Do I Keep Messing Up Important Conversations? Learn to Recover Fast

10 mins; July 22, 2025

Why Do I Struggle to Believe in Miracles? Learn to Be Part of One

10 mins; July 21, 2025

Why Do I Struggle to Reach My Dreams? You’re Not Meant to Do It Alone

10 mins; July 20, 2025

Why Do I Feel Stuck Spiritually? Discover Your Personalized Miracle Path

11 mins; July 19, 2025

Why Can’t I Stick to a Schedule? Create a System That Fits You

11 mins; July 18, 2025

Why Do I Keep Forgetting My Goals? Set Alarms That Actually Work

10 mins; July 17, 2025

Why Can’t I Stay Consistent? The Real Secret Is Continuity

11 mins; July 16, 2025

When Anger Isn’t Wrong

13 mins; July 15, 2025

Don’t Dismiss the Alarm

10 mins; July 14, 2025

Train for the Trigger

9 mins; July 13, 2025

When the Enemy Twists the Good

9 mins; July 12, 2025

Is That Voice Really You?

10 mins; July 11, 2025

What Happened to Me?

10 mins; July 10, 2025

Are You Leading or Just Reacting?

13 mins; July 09, 2025

What If I Don’t Remember?

11 mins; July 08, 2025

When Her Questions Don’t Make Sense

10 mins; July 07, 2025

Why Does She Still Want to Know More?

10 mins; July 06, 2025

Why Isn’t Honesty Enough?

11 mins; July 05, 2025

Run First, Think Later

11 mins; July 04, 2025

Don’t Go First

10 mins; July 03, 2025

This Isn’t a Hospital

9 mins; July 02, 2025

Get Out of His Life Raft

11 mins; July 01, 2025

Are We Actually on the Same Page?

9 mins; June 30, 2025

How Do I Plan When Life Is So Unpredictable?

12 mins; June 29, 2025

Why Can’t I Stick to It?

10 mins; June 28, 2025

Why Can’t I Stay Consistent?

10 mins; June 27, 2025

You’re Not Broken—You’re Just Alone

11 mins; June 26, 2025

You’re Not Supposed to Do This Alone

12 mins; June 25, 2025

She Keeps Pointing Out My Flaws

12 mins; June 24, 2025

I’m Trying So Hard to Get Things Right in My Marriage Part 5 – Why Does My Wife Still Panic… Even When I’m Doing Everything Right?

14 mins; June 23, 2025

I’m Trying So Hard to Get Things Right in My Marriage Part 4 – Why Does She Keep Hurting When I’m the One Fixing Myself?

14 mins; June 22, 2025

I’m Trying So Hard to Get Things Right in My Marriage Part 3 – Why Doesn’t She Trust Me, Even When I Finally Open Up?

12 mins; June 21, 2025

Why Does My Wife Still Hurt When I’m Trying So Hard? Part 2 – The Pain of Going Too Fast, Too Soon

12 mins; June 20, 2025

Why Does My Wife Have So Many Pain Points… and Want Me to Fix All of Them? Part 1 – I’m Trying So Hard to Get Things Right in My Marriage

11 mins; June 19, 2025

Why Do I Feel Overwhelmed, Forgetful, and Like I’m Never Doing Enough? Part 5 – When Her Triggers Collide With My Shame

12 mins; June 18, 2025

Why Do I Feel Overwhelmed, Forgetful, and Like I’m Never Doing Enough? Part 4 – Why Does She Still Pull Away When I’m Finally Trying?

11 mins; June 17, 2025

Why Do I Feel Overwhelmed, Forgetful, and Like I’m Never Doing Enough? Part 3 – Why Doesn’t She Appreciate My Effort (When I’m Trying So Hard)?

12 mins; June 16, 2025

Why Do I Feel Overwhelmed, Forgetful, and Like I’m Never Doing Enough? Part 2 – When “You Look Hot” Isn’t What She Needed

11 mins; June 15, 2025

Why Do I Feel Overwhelmed, Forgetful, and Like I’m Never Doing Enough? Part 1 – When My Support Triggers More Pain

11 mins; June 14, 2025

Why Do I Feel Overwhelmed, Constantly Behind, and Like I’ll Never Be Enough? Part 5 – When Support Feels Like Failure and Distance Feels Like Rejection

12 mins; June 13, 2025

Why Do I Feel Overwhelmed, Constantly Behind, and Like I’ll Never Be Enough? Part 4 – Why She Still Pulls Away (Even When I’m Finally Trying)

12 mins; June 12, 2025

Why Do I Feel Overwhelmed, Constantly Behind, and Like I’ll Never Be Enough? Part 3 – Why She’s Still Hurt (Even When I’m Doing the Right Thing)

12 mins; June 11, 2025

Why Do I Feel Overwhelmed, Constantly Behind, and Like I’ll Never Be Enough? Part 2 – Why She Still Doesn’t Feel Safe (Even When I’m Trying)

11 mins; June 10, 2025

Why Do I Feel Overwhelmed, Constantly Behind, and Like I’ll Never Be Enough? Part 1 – The Hidden Cost of Living Without a Map

11 mins; June 09, 2025

How Do I Stop Feeling Overwhelmed, Forgetful, and Like I’m Never Doing Enough Part 4 – Declutter Your Brain, Define Your Mission, and Stay Anchored

14 mins; June 07, 2025

How Do I Stop Feeling Overwhelmed, Forgetful, and Like I’m Never Doing Enough Part 3 – Catching the Thoughts That Derail You

12 mins; June 06, 2025

How Do I Stop Feeling Overwhelmed, Forgetful, and Like I’m Never Doing Enough Part 2 – Rebuilding Focus with the Battle Planner

11 mins; June 05, 2025

How Do I Stop Feeling Overwhelmed, Forgetful, and Like I’m Never Doing Enough Part 1 – The Surprising Power of a 3x5 Card

12 mins; June 04, 2025

How Do I Communicate with My Wife When Everything I Say Seems to Make Things Worse Part 5 – Why the "Needs List" Is Killing Your Marriage

13 mins; June 03, 2025

How Do I Communicate with My Wife When Everything I Say Seems to Make Things Worse Part 4 – The Real Power of Transparency, Planning, and Psychological Intimacy

12 mins; June 02, 2025

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