Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher
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How Do I Communicate with My Wife When Everything I Say Seems to Make Things Worse Part 3 – Understanding Real Vulnerability and Engineering Emotional Safety
12 mins; June 01, 2025
How Do I Communicate with My Wife When Everything I Say Seems to Make Things Worse Part 2 – Redefining Vulnerability and Emotional Safety
12 mins; May 31, 2025
How Do I Communicate with My Wife When Everything I Say Seems to Make Things Worse Part 1 – Understanding Her Language and Rebuilding Connection
12 mins; May 30, 2025
Why Do My Wife and I Keep Having the Same Arguments Part 5 – When Logic Fails and She Just Needs to Feel Safe
12 mins; May 29, 2025
Why Do My Wife and I Keep Having the Same Arguments Part 4 – When She Thinks I’m Lying, and I Honestly Don’t Remember
11 mins; May 28, 2025
Why Do My Wife and I Keep Having the Same Arguments Part 3 – The Hidden Ways I Sabotage Our Connection Without Realizing It
12 mins; May 27, 2025
Why Do My Wife and I Keep Having the Same Arguments Part 2 – What We Both Get Wrong About Sex, Connection, and Intimacy
11 mins; May 26, 2025
Why Do My Wife and I Keep Having the Same Arguments Part 1 – When “Love” and “Support” Mean Different Things
11 mins; May 25, 2025
How Can I Rebuild Emotional and Verbal Intimacy With My Wife Part 4 – What She’s Really Asking When She Says “Do You Even Care?”
16 mins; May 24, 2025
How Can I Rebuild Emotional and Verbal Intimacy With My Wife? Part 3 – Why She Keeps Asking “How Do You Feel About That?”
16 mins; May 23, 2025
How Can I Rebuild Emotional and Verbal Intimacy With My Wife? Part 2 – Why “Talking” Isn’t Working (And What Actually Builds Connection)
12 mins; May 22, 2025
How Can I Rebuild Emotional and Verbal Intimacy With My Wife? Part 1 – When “Fix Yourself” Feels Like a Moving Target
11 mins; May 21, 2025
How Can I Apply Spiritual and Personal Development Principles to Real Life? Part 5 – What If the Passion Project Is Your Messy, Overwhelming Life?
15 mins; May 20, 2025
How Can I Apply Spiritual and Personal Development Principles to Real Life? Part 4 – Why Your Wife Doesn’t Trust Your “Growth” (And What You’re Still Missing)
14 mins; May 19, 2025
How Can I Apply Spiritual and Personal Development Principles to Real Life? Part 3 – Why My Wife’s Disappointments Keep Growing (And What I’m Missing About Real Change)
12 mins; May 18, 2025
How Can I Apply Spiritual and Personal Development Principles to Real Life? Part 2 – Why Fixing Myself Feels Hopeless (Until This Shift)
12 mins; May 17, 2025
How Can I Apply Spiritual and Personal Development Principles to Real Life? Part 1 – What’s Blocking My Progress (and How Do I Actually Change?)
12 mins; May 16, 2025
How Do I Rebuild Emotional Intimacy with My Wife? Part 5 – Why She Keeps Bringing Up the Past (and What to Do About It)
12 mins; May 15, 2025
How Do I Rebuild Emotional Intimacy with My Wife? Part 4 – Why She Still Doesn’t Feel Safe, Even When You’ve Changed
12 mins; May 14, 2025
How Do I Rebuild Emotional Intimacy with My Wife? Part 3 – Why She Still Feels Unloved Even When You’re Doing Everything “Right”
12 mins; May 13, 2025
How Do I Rebuild Emotional Intimacy with My Wife? Part 2 – Why “Saying the Right Things” Still Isn’t Enough
11 mins; May 12, 2025
How Do I Rebuild Emotional Intimacy with My Wife? Part 1 – Why Season Four Is the Hardest Step Most Men Skip
11 mins; May 11, 2025
Why Does My Forward Progress Sometimes Cause Emotional Whiplash in My Wife? Part 4 – The Myth of “It’s Just My Story”
11 mins; May 10, 2025
Why Does My Forward Progress Sometimes Cause Emotional Whiplash in My Wife? Part 3 – The Art of Inviting Her Into the Process
10 mins; May 09, 2025
Why Does My Forward Progress Sometimes Cause Emotional Whiplash in My Wife? Part 2 – Inviting Her into the Journey
11 mins; May 08, 2025
Why Does My Forward Progress Sometimes Cause Emotional Whiplash in My Wife? Part 1 – Understanding the Disconnect
11 mins; May 07, 2025
How Can I Talk to My Spouse About My Growth and Triggers in a Way That Builds Trust? Part 5 – Why She’s Pushing Before I’m Ready
8 mins; May 06, 2025
How Can I Talk to My Spouse About My Growth and Triggers in a Way That Builds Trust? Part 4 – Why She Doesn’t Believe Me (Yet)
8 mins; May 05, 2025
How Can I Talk to My Spouse About My Growth and Triggers in a Way That Builds Trust? Part 3 – What If She Still Thinks I Haven’t Changed?
8 mins; May 04, 2025
How Can I Talk to My Spouse About My Growth and Triggers in a Way That Builds Trust? Part 2 – When She Thinks It’s All Your Fault, but You’re the One Doing the Work
10 mins; May 03, 2025
How Can I Talk to My Spouse About My Growth and Triggers? Part 1 – When Owning Your Side Changes Everything
10 mins; May 02, 2025
Why Do I Feel Weak or Broken for Needing Support? Part 5 – When My Efforts Still Don’t Feel “Enough”
13 mins; May 01, 2025
Why Do I Feel Weak or Broken for Needing Support? Part 4 – Why Her Pain Doesn’t Mean You’re Failing
12 mins; April 30, 2025
Why Do I Feel Weak or Broken for Needing Support? Part 3 – Creating Safe Teams Without Shame
11 mins; April 29, 2025
Why Do I Feel Weak or Broken for Needing Support? Part 2 – Reclaiming Teamwork Without Shame
12 mins; April 28, 2025
Why Do I Feel Weak or Broken for Needing Support? Part 1 – Breaking the Myth of Lone-Wolf Strength
12 mins; April 27, 2025
Why Does Everything Seem to Go Well at First… But Then Spiral Out of Control? Part 4 – How to Stay Steady When She Thinks You’re Running Away
13 mins; April 26, 2025
Why Does Everything Seem to Go Well at First… But Then Spiral Out of Control? Part 3 – What If the Real Problem Isn’t You or Her?
12 mins; April 25, 2025
Why Does Everything Seem to Go Well at First… But Then Spiral Out of Control? Part 1 – The Battle, the Misunderstanding, and the Breakdowns We Never Saw Coming
13 mins; April 23, 2025
Why Do I Feel Like I’m Doing Everything She Asks For, It's Never Enough? Part 5 – Rations, Resentment, and the Power of Consecration in Marriage
14 mins; April 22, 2025
Why Do I Feel Like I’m Doing Everything She Asks For, It's Never Enough? Part 4 – When Her Panic Feels Like Pressure and You Still Come Up Short
13 mins; April 21, 2025
Why Do I Feel Like I’m Doing Everything She Asks For, and It’s Never Enough? Part 3 – When “Meeting Her Needs” Still Leaves You Both Empty
11 mins; April 20, 2025
Why Do I Feel Like I’m Doing Everything She Asks For, and It’s Never Enough? Part 2 – When Progress Doesn’t Look Like Repair
13 mins; April 19, 2025
Why Do I Feel Like I’m Doing Everything She Asks For, and It’s Never Enough? Part 1 – When Growth Still Feels Like Failure
13 mins; April 18, 2025
Why Does It Feel Like My Wife Still Doesn’t Feel Connected or Satisfied? Part 5 – I’m Trying to Help, So Why Does It Still Hurt Her?
14 mins; April 17, 2025
Why Does It Feel Like My Wife Still Doesn’t Feel Connected or Satisfied? Part 4 – Why Does It Hurt Her When I’m Just Trying to Help?
14 mins; April 16, 2025
Why Does It Feel Like My Wife Still Doesn’t Feel Connected or Satisfied? Part 3 – She Doesn’t Know How Hard I’m Trying to Get It Right
13 mins; April 15, 2025
Why Does It Feel Like My Wife Still Doesn’t Feel Connected or Satisfied? Part 2 – She Doesn’t Know I’m Trying
13 mins; April 14, 2025
Why Does It Feel Like My Wife Still Doesn’t Feel Connected or Satisfied? Part 1 – Climbing the Intimacy Pyramid Without Falling Off
13 mins; April 13, 2025
How Men Can Take Responsibility for Repairing and Strengthening Their Marriages – Part 4: What to Do When She’s Still Upset… Even When You’re Doing It Right
19 mins; April 12, 2025
How Men Can Take Responsibility for Repairing and Strengthening Their Marriages – Part 3: Why She Thinks It's Over… and What to Do When It All Falls Apart Again
18 mins; April 11, 2025
How Men Can Take Responsibility for Repairing and Strengthening Their Marriages – Part 2: When She Thinks You’re Lying Just Because You’re Tired
15 mins; April 10, 2025
Why Does Everything Seem to Go Well at First… But Then Spiral Out of Control? Part 2 – From Connection to Accusation in One Afternoon
12 mins; April 09, 2025
How Men Can Take Responsibility for Repairing and Strengthening Their Marriages – Part 1: Stop Waiting for Her to Change
15 mins; April 09, 2025
How to Stop Reacting and Take Responsibility for Your Personal Growth – Part 6: Reclaiming Your Power and Fighting the Real Enemy
9 mins; April 08, 2025
How to Stop Reacting and Take Responsibility for Your Personal Growth – Part 5: Practicing a Dignified Retreat and Leading with Clarity
9 mins; April 07, 2025
How to Stop Reacting and Take Responsibility for Your Personal Growth – Part 4: When Your Wife Doesn’t Trust You (Yet)
13 mins; April 06, 2025
How to Stop Reacting and Take Responsibility for Your Personal Growth – Part 3: When Her Emotions Explode and You Want to Give Up
13 mins; April 05, 2025
How to Stop Reacting and Take Responsibility for Your Personal Growth – Part 2: When Her Pain Makes You Want to Give Up
13 mins; April 04, 2025
How to Stop Reacting and Take Responsibility for Your Personal Growth – Part 1: Why Her Help Feels Like Pressure
13 mins; April 03, 2025
How to Better Understand Your Wife – Part 4: Why She Challenges Your Ideas
14 mins; April 02, 2025
How to Better Understand Your Wife – Part 3: Why She Doesn’t Trust Your Plans
13 mins; April 01, 2025
How to Better Understand Your Wife – Part 2: Why She Feels Alone
11 mins; March 31, 2025
How to Better Understand Your Wife – Part 1: Why She Seems So Frustrated
11 mins; March 30, 2025
Letting Go of the Past and Establishing a New Identity Part 4: She Has Too Many Complaints—And He Won't Fix Himself
15 mins; March 29, 2025
Letting Go of the Past and Establishing a New Identity Part 3: Why Does My Wife Have So Many Complaints—And Why Does My Husband Think I Expect Too Much?
14 mins; March 28, 2025
Letting Go of the Past and Establishing a New Identity Part 2: Why Does My Wife Have So Many Complaints—And Why Does My Husband Keep Telling Me to Fix Myself?
14 mins; March 27, 2025
Letting Go of the Past and Establishing a New Identity Part 1: Why Does My Wife Keep Changing—And Why Does My Husband Want Me to Stay the Same?
16 mins; March 26, 2025
Personal Development Before Relationship Repair Part 5: Why Does My Wife Expect Me to Read Her Mind—And Why Does My Husband Think I Need to Be Miserable to Change?
11 mins; March 25, 2025
Personal Development Before Relationship Repair Part 4: Why Does My Wife Keep Working on Herself—And Why Does My Husband Expect Me to Fix Us?
11 mins; March 24, 2025
Personal Development Before Relationship Repair Part 4: Why Does My Wife Have So Many Rules—And Why Does My Husband Ignore Them Until It’s Too Late?
12 mins; March 23, 2025
Personal Development Before Relationship Repair Part 3: Why Does My Wife Keep Changing the Boundaries—And Why Does My Husband Struggle to Respect Them?
12 mins; March 22, 2025
Personal Development Before Relationship Repair Part 2: Why Does My Wife Have So Many Rules—And Why Can’t My Husband Just Get It Right?
12 mins; March 21, 2025
Personal Development Before Relationship Repair Part 1: Why Does My Wife Keep Changing the Rules—And Why Can’t My Husband Just Step Up Already?
11 mins; March 20, 2025
Why Does My Wife Keep Pulling Away—And Why Doesn’t My Husband Seem to Notice?
9 mins; March 19, 2025
Why Does My Wife Keep Pulling Away—And Why Does She Expect Me to Read Her Mind?
13 mins; March 18, 2025
Why Does My Wife Keep Setting Boundaries—And Why Do They Feel Like Walls Between Us?
12 mins; March 17, 2025
Why Does My Wife Have So Many Complaints About Me—And Why Can’t She Just Let It Go?
13 mins; March 16, 2025
Why Does My Wife Always Have Problems With Me? Why Does She Want Me to ‘Fix Myself’?
12 mins; March 15, 2025
Why Does My Wife Keep Finding Problems With Me? Why Do I Feel Like I’m Never Enough?
12 mins; March 14, 2025
Why Does She Feel Unsafe? Why Does He Feel Attacked? The Real Conflict in Marriage
13 mins; March 12, 2025
Why Doesn’t He Get It? Why Does She Keep Pushing? The Battle of Understanding in Marriage
13 mins; March 11, 2025
Why Does She Feel Unsafe? Why Does He Feel Like He’s Failing? Understanding Marriage Triggers and Trust
13 mins; March 10, 2025
Why Can’t She Feel Safe? Why Can’t He Understand? Navigating Marriage Fears and Frustrations
12 mins; March 09, 2025
The Christ Cycle: Recommitment and Resilience – Returning to Purpose After Trials
12 mins; March 08, 2025
The Christ Cycle: Reluctance and Return – Overcoming Hesitation and Recommitting to Purpose
10 mins; March 07, 2025
The Christ Cycle: Decompression and Rejuvenation – Finding Renewal in Christ’s Example
11 mins; March 06, 2025
The Christ Cycle: Finding Strength Through Rejection and Renewal
10 mins; March 05, 2025
The Christ Cycle: Embracing Christ's Blueprint for Purpose-Driven Living
11 mins; March 04, 2025
Do You Know a Man Who Feels Constantly Criticized? Understanding the Cycle of Criticism and Defensiveness in Marriage
13 mins; March 03, 2025
Do You Know a Man Who Feels Undermined by His Wife's Concerns?
13 mins; March 02, 2025
Do You Know a Man Who Feels Inadequate, While His Wife's Concerns Multiply?
13 mins; March 01, 2025
Do You Know a Man Who Feels Overwhelmed by His Wife's Concerns and Wonders Why She Wants Him to Change?
13 mins; February 28, 2025
Do You Know a Man Who Feels Overwhelmed by His Wife's Concerns?
13 mins; February 27, 2025
Do You Know a Man Who Feels Undermined by His Wife's Boundaries? Understanding the Dynamics of Marital Expectations
17 mins; February 26, 2025
Do You Know a Man Who Misinterprets Your Boundaries as Rejection?
12 mins; February 25, 2025
Do You Know a Man Who Misinterprets Your Boundaries as Rejection? Understanding Confirmation Bias in Marital Relationships
13 mins; February 24, 2025
Do You Know a Man Who Misinterprets Your Boundaries as Rejection? Understanding Confirmation Bias in Marital Dynamics
13 mins; February 23, 2025
Do You Know a Man Who Misinterprets Your Boundaries as Rejection? Understanding Confirmation Bias in Marital Relationships
13 mins; February 22, 2025
Do You Know a Man Who Struggles with Spiritual Leadership? Insights for Husbands and Wives Seeking Connection
13 mins; February 21, 2025