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The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}

Formerly the Parenting after Trauma podcast, internationally recognized children's mental health expert Robyn Gobbel decodes the most baffling behaviors for parents of kids with vulnerable nervous systems. If you're parenting a child who has experienced trauma or toxic stress or a child with a neuroimmune disorder, sensory processing, or other nervous system vulnerability, this show will let you know you are not alone. You can stop playing behavior whack-a-mole because Robyn offers you tools that actually work. You can become your child's expert, feel more confident as a parent, and bring more connection and clarity into your family.Educators, therapists, c...

Ep. 124: Should My Child be in Individual or Family Therapy? Friday Q&A

20 mins; April 06, 2023

Ep. 123: Healing from Blocked Care with Lisa Qualls and Melissa Corkum

62 hours 2 mins; April 03, 2023

Ep. 122: What does "Vulnerable Nervous System" mean?

28 mins; March 27, 2023

Ep. 121: How Toxic Shame Heals

38 mins; March 20, 2023

Ep. 120: What Does Toxic Shame Look Like?

45 mins; March 13, 2023

Ep. 119: The Neurobiology of Toxic Shame

45 mins; March 06, 2023

{48 Hr Bonus} Focus on the Nervous System to Change Behavior

87 hours 55 mins; March 05, 2023

Ep. 118: How Can The Club Help my Family? Q&A

38 mins; March 02, 2023

Ep. 117: How I've Strengthened my Psychological Boundaries

54 mins; February 27, 2023

Ep. 116: Why does my child demand constant attention? Friday Q&A

16 mins; February 23, 2023

Ep. 115: Boundaries with Verbal Aggression with Juliane Taylor Shore: Boundaries with Connection Part 3 of 3

65 hours 35 mins; February 20, 2023

Ep. 114: Can I teach my child about their brain? Friday Q&A Series

19 mins; February 16, 2023

Ep. 113: Boundaries that Create Success: Boundaries with Connection Part 2 of 3

38 mins; February 13, 2023

Ep. 112: The Problem with a RAD diagnosis- Friday Q&A series

23 mins; February 09, 2023

Ep. 111: Boundaries with Connection Part 1 of 3: Boundaries You can Control

37 mins; February 06, 2023

Ep. 110: Does my child get dysregulated on purpose? Friday Q&A Series

13 mins; February 02, 2023

Ep. 109: Is Understanding Behavior Just Excusing It?

37 mins; January 30, 2023

Ep. 108: It's Me! Hi! My 2022 Reflections

65 hours 43 mins; January 23, 2023

Ep. 107: Helping Kids Discover their Superpowers with Dr. Chaitra Wirta Leiker

40 mins; January 16, 2023

{REPLAY} Lisa Dion on how Regulation Does Not Equal Calm

55 mins; January 12, 2023

{REPLAY} Trauma Behavior? Or Just Regular Kid Acting-Up Behavior?

44 mins; January 09, 2023

{REPLAY} What Does Co-Regulation Really Look Like?

54 mins; January 05, 2023

{REPLAY} Not Flipping Your Lid...When Your Kid Flips Theirs

32 mins; January 02, 2023

{REPLAY} Self-Compassion Keeps You Regulated

29 mins; December 29, 2022

{REPLAY} Why Do I Get So Dysregulated?

36 mins; December 26, 2022

{REPLAY} Why Good Times Can Suddenly Go Bad

21 mins; December 22, 2022

{REPLAY} Child Always Dysregulated? Try this!!!

32 mins; December 19, 2022

Ep. 106: Bringing Regulation to Educators with Emily Daniels

65 hours 38 mins; December 13, 2022

Ep. 105: Caring for our Tender Parts with Ilyse Kennedy

46 mins; December 05, 2022

Ep. 104: Being Adopted with Amy Wilkerson

45 mins; November 28, 2022

Ep. 103: How to be a Cycle Breaker with Mindi Kessler

47 mins; November 21, 2022

Ep. 102: Telling the Truth to Adopted Kids- Even When it's Hard with guest Marcella Moslow

55 mins; November 14, 2022

Ep. 101: How to Influence- Not Control- Behavior

24 mins; November 07, 2022

Ep. 100: What Does it Mean to Be With?

30 mins; October 31, 2022

Ep. 99: Loving Someone with Baffling Behaviors (& a neuroimmune condition)

57 mins; October 24, 2022

Ep. 98: From the Inside Out- My husband's journey with a neuroimmune condition

51 mins; October 17, 2022

Ep. 97: Neuroimmune Disorders and Big, Baffling Behaviors with Dr. Qazi Javed

63 hours 6 mins; October 10, 2022

Ep. 96: What to do about Manipulation

37 mins; October 02, 2022

{BONUS} Helping Kids with Toxic Shame

12 mins; September 29, 2022

Ep. 95: When Parenting is Traumatic

37 mins; September 26, 2022

{BONUS} When Parenting Advice Hurts

9 mins; September 22, 2022

Ep. 94: Stress Response System

43 mins; September 19, 2022

{BONUS} A Kayak Fell on My Head

7 mins; September 16, 2022

Ep. 93: Help for Sensory & Emotional Challenges with Jessica Sinarski

53 mins; September 12, 2022

{BONUS} But- have you grieved?

10 mins; September 08, 2022

Ep. 92: Child Can't Handle No

36 mins; September 05, 2022

Ep. 91: Trauma, Memory, Behavior Part 2- Mental Models and Behavior

49 mins; August 29, 2022

Ep. 90: How Trauma Impacts Memory and Behavior

72 hours 22 mins; August 22, 2022

Ep. 89: Facing Impossible Decisions Big & Small with Guest Laura Strohm

59 mins; August 15, 2022

Ep. 88: How to Parent a Bottomless Pit of Needs

35 mins; August 08, 2022

Ep. 87: Creating Brave Spaces with Selma Bacevac

50 mins; August 01, 2022

{BONUS} Writing My Book: Behind the Scenes

35 mins; July 30, 2022

Ep. 86: When Your Child Doesn’t Participate in Therapy

37 mins; July 25, 2022

Ep. 85: Ableism in Trauma Informed Parenting with Guest- Marshall Lyles

76 hours 52 mins; July 18, 2022

Ep. 84: Focus on the Nervous System to Change Behavior

42 mins; July 11, 2022

Ep. 83: How to Change People Pleasing Behavior

35 mins; July 05, 2022

How to Change People Pleasing Behavior

31 mins; July 04, 2022

{REPLAY} How The Brainstem Heals

32 mins; June 27, 2022

{REPLAY} From Correction to Connection Based Parenting: This Dad's Journey

60 hours 42 mins; June 20, 2022

{REPLAY} Lacy Alana With Hope: Even When Things Seem Hopeless

76 hours 30 mins; June 13, 2022

{REPLAY} Mark Vatsaas Helps Parents Feel Seen and Heard

89 hours 46 mins; June 06, 2022

{REPLAY} How Self-Compassion Changes Things for This Mom (interview with a Club member)

41 mins; June 03, 2022

{REPLAY} When you Kid's Behavior Doesn't Change- This Helps (interview with a Club member)

43 mins; June 01, 2022

Ep. 82: Scaffolding is a Form of Co-Regulation

47 mins; May 31, 2022

Ep. 81: What Does Co-Regulation Really Look Like?

54 mins; May 23, 2022

{BONUS} What Behavior Really Is Masterclass

60 hours 53 mins; May 21, 2022

Ep. 80: What To Do After We Mess Up (Rupture Repair!)

60 hours 50 mins; May 16, 2022

REPLAY: Bonnie Badenoch on Healing Attachment with Safety and Presence

57 mins; May 09, 2022

REPLAY: How Attachment Changes

35 mins; May 02, 2022

REPLAY: The Tragedy of Disorganized Attachment

31 mins; April 25, 2022

REPLAY: A Closer Look at Insecure Avoidant Attachment

24 mins; April 18, 2022

REPLAY: A Closer Look at Insecure Anxious Attachment

28 mins; April 11, 2022

REPLAY: A Closer Look at Secure Attachment

35 mins; April 04, 2022

REPLAY: Back to Basics: Attachment

36 mins; March 28, 2022

REPLAY: Bethany Saltman with A Mother's Journey into the Science of Attachment

57 mins; March 22, 2022

Ep. 79: Brain Body Parenting with Dr. Mona Delahooke

53 mins; March 14, 2022

REPLAY: But...What About A Consequence

43 mins; March 07, 2022

Ep. 78: How Self Compassion Changed Things for This Mom

40 mins; March 05, 2022

Ep. 77: Q&A! After experiencing post-adoption depression, my child and I are struggling. I need help!

21 mins; March 03, 2022

Ep. 76: How To Make Food and Feeding Less Stressful

56 mins; February 28, 2022

Ep. 75: When your Child's Behavior Doesn't Change, This Can Help

44 mins; February 26, 2022

Ep. 74: Q&A! What do I do when my kid gets stuck and ends up flipping her lid?

17 mins; February 24, 2022

Ep. 73: When My Owl Brain Flew Away (Spoiler: The Movers weren't a Ponzi Scheme)

33 mins; February 21, 2022

Ep. 72: Q&A! How do I help adoptive parents feel more empathy toward their child's parents?

21 mins; February 17, 2022

Ep. 71: What To Do When you Don't Like Your Kid

30 mins; February 14, 2022

Ep. 70: Q&A! Why Can't I Do All the Parenting Skills I've Learned? What am I Doing Wrong?

20 mins; February 10, 2022

Ep. 69: How to Talk to Your Teen About Anything- with Katie Malinski, LCSW

59 mins; February 07, 2022

Ep. 68: Q&A! What do I do when my child flops and acts exhausted by the simplest request?

16 mins; February 03, 2022

Ep. 67: You Don't Need More Parenting Experts

35 mins; January 31, 2022

Ep. 66: Becoming Securely Attached with Dr. Sarah Bren

56 mins; January 24, 2022

Ep. 65: How Behavior Changes

33 mins; January 17, 2022

REPLAY: X-Ray Vision Parenting Superpower

33 mins; January 12, 2022

REPLAY: Lisa Dion on how Regulation Does Not Equal Calm

56 mins; January 10, 2022

REPLAY: Trauma Behavior? Or Just Regular Kid Acting-Up Behavior?

45 mins; January 05, 2022

REPLAY: Not Flipping Your Lid...When Your Kid Flips Theirs

33 mins; January 03, 2022

REPLAY: Self-Compassion Keeps You Regulated

30 mins; December 29, 2021

REPLAY: Why Do I Get So Dysregulated?

37 mins; December 27, 2021

REPLAY: Why Good Times Can Suddenly Go Bad

22 mins; December 22, 2021

REPLAY: Child Always Dysregulated? Try this!!!

33 mins; December 20, 2021

Ep. 64: Right Where You Need To Be

11 mins; December 13, 2021

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