Becoming Me
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Why Deconstruction is an Essential Part of Complex Trauma Recovery (with New Introduction)
51 mins; March 23, 2026
Deconstruction as Differentiation and Individuation
55 mins; March 09, 2026
Tasting the Fruit of Healing from Emotionally Immature Parents
9 mins; March 04, 2026
Deconstructing: 'God' vs 'Christianity / Catholicism'
47 mins; February 23, 2026
How Moral Injury Can Lead to Deconstruction
55 mins; February 09, 2026
Why It's So Hard to Explain Deconstruction
64 hours 42 mins; January 26, 2026
Deconstruction: A Trauma-Informed, Integrative and First-Hand Perspective
64 hours 24 mins; January 12, 2026
Grappling with Spiritual Abuse and Trauma in the “DNA” of the Catholic Church
57 mins; November 17, 2025
Reconsidering Holiness: Saints, Trauma, and Spiritual Abuse
47 mins; November 03, 2025
When Enmeshment Trauma Becomes Spiritually Abusive
36 mins; October 20, 2025
Healing and Repenting from Abuse of Conscience
55 mins; October 06, 2025
Using Power and Influence in Non-Spiritually Abusive Ways
37 mins; September 22, 2025
How Culture, Disembodied Faith and Trauma Facilitate Spiritual Abuse
56 mins; September 08, 2025
Spiritual Abuse in Evangelisation and Discipleship (with Paul Fahey)
96 hours 15 mins; August 25, 2025
Season 10 Wrap-up: Insights & Updates
23 mins; May 30, 2025
Embraced by the Heart of God the Father (with Isaac Wicker)
93 hours 32 mins; May 19, 2025
How Pope Francis Kept My Heart Open to the Catholic Church (When I Was Deconstructing)
81 hours 41 mins; May 05, 2025
Navigating Holy Week Through Spiritual Trauma and Healing
37 mins; April 16, 2025
Reclaiming Our Dignity: Healing from Spiritual Abuse (with Paul Fahey)
105 hours 18 mins; April 12, 2025
Five Reasons Why Catholic / Christian Trauma Survivors Struggle with Healing
38 mins; March 31, 2025
What Do We Do When the Healing Journey Overwhelms Us?
35 mins; March 17, 2025
"They Did Their Best" Can Harm More Than Help
30 mins; March 03, 2025
Why Deconstruction is an Essential Part of Complex Trauma Recovery
46 mins; February 17, 2025
Experiencing Setbacks in our Healing from Complex Trauma
24 mins; February 03, 2025
When You Harm Others In Spite of Your Best Intentions
33 mins; January 20, 2025
Learn About Spiritual Abuse in a Catholic Setting (Resource Sharing)
9 mins; January 06, 2025
How Does God Heal Complex Trauma?
46 mins; November 11, 2024
How Healing Complex Trauma Transforms Our Image of God
53 mins; October 28, 2024
How Complex Trauma Impacts Spiritual Discernment
27 mins; October 14, 2024
How can I experience the unconditional love of God?
37 mins; September 30, 2024
How Interior Integration helps us with our Fear of Criticism
33 mins; September 16, 2024
Personal Vocation Discernment through the Stages of Faith
37 mins; September 09, 2024
Podcast Update and Welcome to New Listeners
18 mins; August 30, 2024
What's the Difference between Spiritual Fervour and Spiritual Maturity?
39 mins; August 26, 2024
A Trauma-Informed Perspective to Spiritual Growth (with Edwina Yeow)
93 hours 46 mins; August 19, 2024
Journeying Through Spiritual Midlife Crisis
41 mins; August 12, 2024
Stages of Maturing Faith: Insights From "The Critical Journey"
50 mins; August 05, 2024
Journeying Towards A More Embodied and Authentic Faith
40 mins; July 29, 2024
Distinguishing Between Self-Abandonment and Authentic Self-Gift
33 mins; July 22, 2024
Why Not Going To Church Can Be A Trauma Response (with Brya Hanan LMFT)
60 hours 36 mins; July 15, 2024
Embracing Complexity: Rediscovering Faithfulness In The Healing Journey
49 mins; June 03, 2024
Finding Self-Love Amidst Compulsions & Addictions
38 mins; May 27, 2024
Embracing Your True Self & Making Authentic Connections
34 mins; May 20, 2024
How Important Is It To Choose A Catholic/Christian Therapist?
58 mins; May 13, 2024
4 Considerations When Choosing A Therapist
38 mins; May 06, 2024
5 Considerations When Choosing A Spiritual Director
62 hours 37 mins; April 29, 2024
Is It Time to Change Your Spiritual Director or Therapist?
37 mins; April 22, 2024
The Contemplative Heart of Interior Integration
41 mins; April 15, 2024
3 Spiritual Blocks That Stem From Attachment Trauma
51 mins; April 08, 2024
Are You Spiritualising Forgiveness?
56 mins; April 01, 2024
The Essential Role of Self-Care In The Interior Journey
33 mins; March 25, 2024
Navigating Healing of Relationships In Dysfunctional Families: A Christian Perspective
46 mins; March 18, 2024
Primed For Conflict: The Link Between Our Present & Our Past
39 mins; March 04, 2024
Understanding Enmeshment's Impact On Our Faith & Relationships
56 mins; February 26, 2024
Recovering From People-Pleasing and Insecure Attachment With God
22 mins; February 19, 2024
Why Exercising Boundaries Feel "Wrong" When You're Healing
54 mins; February 12, 2024
How Ignatian Examen Helps Heal Abandonment Wounds
46 mins; February 05, 2024
3 Grounding Tips For When You Are Overwhelmed
30 mins; January 29, 2024
Why Conviction Without Integration Doesn't Help Us
44 mins; January 22, 2024
What Does Interior Integration FEEL Like?
23 mins; January 15, 2024
How Learning About Trauma Helped My Spiritual Life
31 mins; January 08, 2024
Coping with Advent Overwhelm: Trauma Recovery and Faith
35 mins; December 07, 2023
How Dissonance Invites You Home to Your True Self
37 mins; November 13, 2023
What An Interior Integration Coach Is And Why I Am One
72 hours 6 mins; November 09, 2023
Why You Can't Flourish Without Attunement
29 mins; November 06, 2023
Authenticity In The Struggle With Childlessness
49 mins; November 02, 2023
How Healing Changed Me And My Interior Journey
46 mins; October 30, 2023
Burnout, Imposter Syndrome, Sin and Boundaries
46 mins; October 26, 2023
Why You Can't Discern Mission Without Healing
32 mins; October 23, 2023
From People Pleasing to Unapologetic Confidence
27 mins; October 19, 2023
Developing Trust & Secure Attachment In Adulthood
37 mins; October 16, 2023
What To Do When Other People Project Their Insecurities Onto Us
34 mins; October 12, 2023
3 Steps To Take When The Interior Journey Overwhelms You
13 mins; October 09, 2023
Healing Through Delight, Beauty, Rest & Play
46 mins; October 05, 2023
When Your Interior Journey Feels Disconnected With The Outside World
39 mins; October 02, 2023
Loneliness In Singlehood and Marriage
55 mins; September 28, 2023
Why Becoming Our Own Person Is Required to Mature in Love
43 mins; September 25, 2023
"Doing The Right Thing" vs Being Authentically Loving
56 mins; September 21, 2023
How God Led Me To Trust Him Through My Body
37 mins; September 18, 2023
Attuning to vs Controlling Our Emotions
30 mins; September 14, 2023
Life’s Interruption Is the Invitation To Your Real Work
31 mins; September 11, 2023
Slowing Down Is About Freedom
28 mins; September 07, 2023
Why Your Self-Knowledge Needs To Be More Specific
44 mins; September 04, 2023
Why Striving Harder Doesn't Work In Our Interior Journey
39 mins; August 31, 2023
How Do I Balance Compassion and Zeal?
28 mins; August 28, 2023
How Do I Respond From Interior Freedom?
37 mins; August 24, 2023
Timing, Grace and Readiness in the Interior Journey
29 mins; August 21, 2023
3 Ways Spiritualising Blinds Us From Truth
42 mins; August 17, 2023
Becoming Free(er) from Parental Wounds
53 mins; August 14, 2023
Rebuilding Trust With Our Emotions
47 mins; August 10, 2023
Coming Home to Yourself
48 mins; August 07, 2023
Noticing the Patterns of Our Brokenness
39 mins; August 03, 2023
Why I Began my Interior Journey (Loneliness)
24 mins; July 31, 2023
Overcoming "Perfectionist Paralysis" In The Interior Journey
31 mins; June 06, 2023
Exploring Safety, Trust, and Healing in Faith (with Brya Hanan LMFT)
69 hours 56 mins; May 30, 2023
How Our Desire For Self-Fulfilment Can Lead Us Into Fruitful Service
38 mins; May 16, 2023
3 Ways Our Scripts Keep Us From Becoming Who We Are
46 mins; May 02, 2023
Why Can't I Trust The Design God Gave Me?
47 mins; April 18, 2023
The Burden of Expectations In Different Seasons of Life
52 mins; April 04, 2023
The Pace of Soul Work (with Edwina Yeow)
76 hours 39 mins; March 28, 2023