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Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties

Sam & Sierra may not be therapists, but they will tell it to you straight (even if they aren’t). Each episode, they answer listeners’ questions with compassion, radical honesty, and all the relationship advice you don’t want—but definitely need. And no, it’s not always “just break up.” (Unless you really should!)

Miss Mcfeels-A-Lot

42 mins; July 31, 2023

Letting Go Of A Difficult Love

28 mins; July 28, 2023

The Difference Between A Boundary and A Rule

33 mins; July 26, 2023

Advice for Dating Our Exes

27 mins; July 24, 2023

All Of Our Brains Are Broken

35 mins; July 21, 2023

You Can't Stop Bad Things From Happening

27 mins; July 19, 2023

What We've Learned Over The Past 5 Years

36 mins; July 17, 2023

Right Person + Wrong Time = Wrong Person

30 mins; July 14, 2023

Libido? More Like Libidon't

32 mins; July 12, 2023

Your Efforts Don't Guarantee An Outcome

46 mins; July 10, 2023

When Their Growth Is Too Little Too Late

29 mins; July 07, 2023

Tale of the Broke Bridesmaid

33 mins; July 05, 2023

Spiraling Into The Anxiously Attached Abyss

52 mins; July 03, 2023

Life Is Full Of Imperfect Choices

30 mins; June 30, 2023

Discomfort Doesn't Mean We Are On The Wrong Path

24 mins; June 28, 2023

Is It a Boundary or an Ultimatum?

32 mins; June 26, 2023

Thanks For The Trauma, Mom!

30 mins; June 23, 2023

Self Awareness Is Attractive

27 mins; June 21, 2023

I Don't Want To Have Kids...With You

31 mins; June 19, 2023

Not Awkward Is Not Real

27 mins; June 16, 2023

Love Lost In Translation

28 mins; June 14, 2023

Reversing the Relationship Escalator

40 mins; June 12, 2023

People Need Other People

34 mins; June 09, 2023

Addicted To Their Ex's Instagram

25 mins; June 07, 2023

Is It Your Intuition or Your Anxiety?

44 mins; June 05, 2023

You Don't Have To Act On Those Feelings

30 mins; June 02, 2023

Does He Cosmically Owe You?

25 mins; May 31, 2023

Let FedEx Return That Engagement Ring

38 mins; May 29, 2023

You Can Let Go of That Pressure

34 mins; May 26, 2023

Grief Has No Timeline

25 mins; May 24, 2023

When is Ghosting Not Ghosting

44 mins; May 22, 2023

Love Is Scary!

30 mins; May 19, 2023

When To Let Go Of Hope

25 mins; May 17, 2023

Everyone Knows You're Making Out in the Break Room

48 mins; May 15, 2023

What To Wear When You Run Into Your Ex

29 mins; May 12, 2023

Choosing The Harder Path

31 mins; May 10, 2023

Am I A Homewrecker?

56 mins; May 08, 2023

You're Confused Because It's Confusing

32 mins; May 05, 2023

Their Sadness is Not Yours to Fix

31 mins; May 03, 2023

Hot People Suck

37 mins; May 01, 2023

It's Safe To Believe Your Own Experience

30 mins; April 28, 2023

When Guilt Leads To Self-Sabotage

26 mins; April 26, 2023

Holding Boundaries With Humanity

44 mins; April 24, 2023

It's Okay To Miss Someone Who Hurt You

26 mins; April 21, 2023

Internally Spiraling But Totally Fine

28 mins; April 19, 2023

Stay Off Your Ex's Spotify

36 mins; April 17, 2023

Relationships Are Not Transactional

34 mins; April 14, 2023

How Long Are Our Exes A Part of Us?

24 mins; April 12, 2023

Stability vs. Settling

41 mins; April 10, 2023

Sometimes You Just Have To End It

32 mins; April 07, 2023

Unfortunately the Answer is "Talk About It"

33 mins; April 05, 2023

To Love Something So Impermanent

56 mins; April 03, 2023

Punishment Doesn’t Work in Adulthood Either

39 mins; March 31, 2023

You Can Only Say Your Truth So Many Times

26 mins; March 29, 2023

The Emotional Block-Block-Block

42 mins; March 27, 2023

Good News! You Get to Make Better Choices

32 mins; March 24, 2023

It’s Literally Just… Not That Deep

29 mins; March 22, 2023

Grab a Bucket & Get to Work

42 mins; March 20, 2023

The Plot of Every “L Word” Episode Ever

31 mins; March 17, 2023

Hormonal Hell? I Own A Timeshare There

44 mins; March 15, 2023

Big City Woman Changes Her Mind

37 mins; March 13, 2023

You’re Not Bridezilla, You’re Very Very Human

29 mins; March 10, 2023

Tropes Are Easy, But They Aren’t Our Truths

30 mins; March 08, 2023

Seasons of Figuring It Out

33 mins; March 06, 2023

Swimming Against the Undercurrent of Gender

33 mins; March 03, 2023

Stop the Resentment Snowball In Its Tracks

24 mins; March 01, 2023

Closure Isn’t Real (But I Still Want Some)

39 mins; February 27, 2023

Now’s a Great Time to Take Care of Yourself

25 mins; February 24, 2023

The Best Revenge is Forgetting

27 mins; February 22, 2023

You're a Catch, a Babe, a Great Time!

31 mins; February 20, 2023

Their Struggles Don’t Outweigh Your Safety

26 mins; February 17, 2023

Their New Relationship is Not Your Failure

28 mins; February 15, 2023

Go To Costco and Get That Candy

8 mins; February 14, 2023

Where’s the Healthy Model for Friendships?!

41 mins; February 13, 2023

The Universe Is Cruel & Chaotic, As Is Dating

27 mins; February 10, 2023

Love vs. Attraction is Apples vs. Oranges

28 mins; February 08, 2023

Their “I’m Fine” Is Not Your “I’m Fine”

28 mins; February 06, 2023

Sex Could Be This Good THIS WHOLE TIME?!

26 mins; February 03, 2023

Thankfully, Your Other Wells Have Water

28 mins; February 01, 2023

Being Alone > Feeling Alone in a Relationship

30 mins; January 30, 2023

Welcome to Just Break Up

1 min; January 27, 2023

If You’re Not Going To Stay, Make Room For Someone Who Will – An Interview with Yesika Salgado

57 mins; January 25, 2023

Don’t Get Confused by the False Romance of Longing

77 hours 1 min; January 23, 2023

What Ifs and The Relationship Multiverse

53 mins; January 16, 2023

When You're Healed You Tell the Story Differently – An Interview with Camonghne Felix

56 mins; January 12, 2023

Give Yourself Permission to Leave

71 hours 59 mins; January 09, 2023

Relationship Wants vs. Relationship Needs

76 hours 13 mins; January 02, 2023

Widowhood, Sexuality, and Complicated Grief – An Interview with Rebecca Woolf

60 hours 56 mins; December 29, 2022

Queer Heaven Has No Gates

65 hours 56 mins; December 26, 2022

It's More Nuanced Than Good Guy vs. Bad Guy

77 hours 20 mins; December 19, 2022

Acknowledging the Breakup: An Interview with JP Saxe

59 mins; December 15, 2022

Announcing - There They Are: Breaking the Binary of Pageants

2 mins; December 14, 2022

The Hurt Doesn’t Mean You’re Doing Something Wrong

59 mins; December 12, 2022

Just Because It Looks Easy Doesn’t Mean It Is

77 hours 26 mins; December 05, 2022

Reframing Consent: An Interview with Leah Juliett

57 mins; December 01, 2022

Episode 221: A Tall Order from an Imperfect Person

83 hours 50 mins; November 28, 2022

Episode 220: The Ever-Present Confusion of Our Early 20s

78 hours 21 mins; November 21, 2022

The Meaning of Sex: An Interview with Angela Chen

39 mins; November 17, 2022

Too Much Self-Awareness Can Make Our Tummies Hurt

84 hours 6 mins; November 14, 2022

This is Not the Horrible Corpse You Think It Is

80 hours 54 mins; November 07, 2022

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