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When You Don’t Know

When You Don’t Know is the faith-based podcast for Christians navigating dating while having relationship anxiety. Hosted by Joy & Mathieu, a married couple and therapist duo, we get real about the doubts, fears, and questions that often come with love. Through honest conversations, biblical wisdom, and powerful guest interviews, we’ll help you date with confidence, overcome anxiety, and build a marriage that lasts. Whether you’re single, dating, engaged, or married, this podcast is your safe space to discover what it means to love well—even "when you dont know".

137. You May Be Underestimating the Good Traits

23 mins; March 17, 2026

136. Is God really telling you to break up with your partner?

31 mins; March 03, 2026

135. How to Talk to Your Partner About Relationship Anxiety

34 mins; February 17, 2026

134. When the Prophetic Becomes Harmful in Relationships

44 mins; February 03, 2026

133. When Spiritual Authority Replaces Discernment

27 mins; January 20, 2026

132. When You Don’t Know If Your Callings Align

37 mins; January 06, 2026

131. The Cost of Anxiety: What It Steals From You and Your Relationship

37 mins; December 02, 2025

130. Imperfect Love Stories: From Anxiously Dating to Happily Married

95 hours 45 mins; November 18, 2025

129. How to Finally Break the Cycle of Relationship Anxiety

43 mins; November 04, 2025

128. Imperfect Love Stories: Marrying Someone Who’s Divorced and Has Kids

56 mins; October 07, 2025

127. Conrad or Jeremiah? Breaking Down The Summer I Turned Pretty from a Relationship Anxiety Angle

37 mins; September 23, 2025

126. When You Don’t Know if God Has Something Better for You

33 mins; September 09, 2025

125. Did I Make a Mistake? Anxiety After Marriage

33 mins; July 01, 2025

124. Life Update: It’s Been a Difficult Month

22 mins; June 17, 2025

123. Debunking the “Counterfeit Spouse” Myth

38 mins; June 03, 2025

122. How your Expectations are Ruining Your Dating Life

31 mins; May 20, 2025

121. Red Flag or Just a Difference?

34 mins; May 06, 2025

120. Our Real Walk With God as a Married Couple

44 mins; April 22, 2025

119. Imperfect Love Stories: My Anxiety Left After We Got Married

52 mins; April 01, 2025

118. How Relationship Anxiety Is Physically Damaging Your Brain

23 mins; March 17, 2025

117. If You’re Looking for a Sign from God in Your Relationship

31 mins; March 03, 2025

116. What’s Life Like After Overcoming Relationship Anxiety

34 mins; February 18, 2025

115. Is Getting Back with Your Ex a Good Idea if You Have/Had Relationship Anxiety?

32 mins; February 04, 2025

114. Should I Break Up or Seek Help?

36 mins; January 21, 2025

113. Our Story: How We Overcame Relationship Anxiety and Got Married

75 hours 58 mins; January 07, 2025

112. Is My Relationship Anxiety Triggered By My Family?

35 mins; December 17, 2024

111. My Friends Keep Telling Me My Relationship Is Wrong. What Do I Do?

31 mins; December 03, 2024

110. Am I Micro Cheating On My Partner?

29 mins; November 19, 2024

109. Imperfect Love Stories: I Married The Guy I Didn’t Want

62 hours 55 mins; November 05, 2024

108. How To Choose Your Spouse God’s Way

43 mins; September 24, 2024

107. Imperfect Love Stories: I Ended Up Marrying The Unexpected

64 hours 15 mins; September 10, 2024

106. What If My Partner And I Are Unequally Yoked?

33 mins; August 27, 2024

105. Imperfect Love Stories: Does He Like Someone Else?

36 mins; August 13, 2024

104. Q&A: What If I Find My Partner Annoying?

44 mins; July 30, 2024

103. Imperfect Love Stories: Married For 32 Years, This Is What We've Learned

59 mins; July 16, 2024

102. Imperfect Love Stories: We Almost Broke Up Because Of Relationship Anxiety!

76 hours 34 mins; July 02, 2024

101. Four Things Marriage Taught Us

119 hours 33 mins; June 18, 2024

100. Big Update For The Podcast

5 mins; June 04, 2024

99. Stop Chasing Feelings

28 mins; May 28, 2024

98. How To Build Emotional Resilience

20 mins; May 14, 2024

97. Your Relationship Isn’t Wrong, Your Expectations Are

30 mins; May 07, 2024

96. Is My Partner Going To Take God’s Place In My Life?

28 mins; April 30, 2024

95. What If I’m Not Obsessed With My Partner?

30 mins; April 23, 2024

94. When Should You Know You Want To Marry Them?

30 mins; April 16, 2024

93. Are You Settling For Less In Your Relationship?

32 mins; April 09, 2024

92. How Prepared Should You Be To Date?

29 mins; April 01, 2024

91. Should It Be This Hard?

27 mins; March 26, 2024

90. Stepping Into The Unknown In Relationships

38 mins; March 19, 2024

89. Are You Uncomfortable With The Opposite Gender?

33 mins; March 12, 2024

88. How Does Relationship Anxiety Show Up in “Love Is Blind Season 6”

32 mins; March 05, 2024

87. What Can We Learn From Reesa Teesa’s story?

44 mins; February 27, 2024

86. How to Manage Anxiety on Valentine’s Day

19 mins; February 12, 2024

85. Are You Addicted To Anxiety?

32 mins; February 06, 2024

84. Is Your Relationship Too Good to Be True?

30 mins; January 30, 2024

83. Divorce and Relationship Anxiety

34 mins; January 23, 2024

82. Are You Single and Anxious About Relationships?

36 mins; January 16, 2024

81. Guilt And Relationship Anxiety

24 mins; January 09, 2024

80. Three Things To Leave Behind In 2024 If You Have Relationship Anxiety

43 mins; January 02, 2024

79. The Two Different Types of Relationship Anxiety

29 mins; December 19, 2023

78. Dating Advice You Can’t Listen to When You Have Relationship Anxiety

59 mins; December 12, 2023

77. Things We Often Hear That Are Ruining Relationships

44 mins; December 05, 2023

76. We Answer Your Questions About Relationship Anxiety Part 2.

39 mins; November 21, 2023

75. We Answer Your Questions About Relationship Anxiety Part 1.

49 mins; November 14, 2023

74. I Don't Have Peace About My Relationship, What Do I Do?

29 mins; November 07, 2023

73. Mistakes We Made When We Were Experiencing Relationship Anxiety

42 mins; October 31, 2023

72. You're Not Alone

36 mins; October 24, 2023

71. Love Is Blind, Relationship Anxiety and Marriage

39 mins; October 17, 2023

70. How To Date Without Leading Someone On

24 mins; October 10, 2023

69. Is It Okay To Be Attracted To Other People Than Your Partner?

41 mins; October 03, 2023

68. How Hollywood/Disney Influences Our View Of Relationships

39 mins; September 19, 2023

67. Confusion Doesn't Require Action

43 mins; September 12, 2023

66. Healing From Anxiety Requires Action

27 mins; September 05, 2023

65. The Importance Of Community When You Have Relationship Anxiety

31 mins; August 29, 2023

64. Life Updates and Lessons From Past Few Months!!

44 mins; August 22, 2023

63. What To Do If Your Partner Struggles With Porn? Part 2.

37 mins; August 15, 2023

62. What To Do If Your Partner Struggles With Porn? Part 1.

37 mins; August 08, 2023

61. How To Handle Your Partner's Relationship Anxiety?

41 mins; August 01, 2023

60. What To Do When Your Partner Wants To Take a Break?

29 mins; July 18, 2023

59. Why Do You Back Out When Someone Is Interested?

24 mins; July 11, 2023

58. How To Not Feel Ashamed When Experiencing Relationship Anxiety

31 mins; July 04, 2023

57. The Difference Between Appreciating and Being Attracted to Someone

33 mins; June 27, 2023

56. The Difference Between Anxiety and Intuition in Relationships

26 mins; June 20, 2023

55. Relationship Anxiety In The Talking/Dating Phase

32 mins; June 13, 2023

54. Q&A (Relationship Anxiety, Boundaries, Communication, Etc)

59 mins; June 06, 2023

53. What is Relationship Anxiety & Why Does It Show Up?

55 mins; May 16, 2023

52. Are You Anxious Or Simply Uninterested?

38 mins; May 09, 2023

51. How To Live Life To The Fullest

43 mins; May 02, 2023

50. Can You Be a Powerful Woman in a Relationship?

42 mins; April 25, 2023

49. The Power Of Vulnerability In Relationships

40 mins; April 18, 2023

48. Everything Is Permissible But Not Everything Is Beneficial

42 mins; April 11, 2023

47. Building a Business As a Married Couple

43 mins; April 04, 2023

46. How To Keep The Flame Burning in Your Relationship

39 mins; March 28, 2023

45. Is Jealousy Healthy In A Relationship?

34 mins; March 21, 2023

44. What Changed When We Got Married

38 mins; March 14, 2023

43. How a Good Foundation Creates a Healthy Relationship

31 mins; March 07, 2023

42. Stop Saying These Things To Your Partner!

35 mins; February 28, 2023

41. How to Be on the Same Team Within Your Relationship

34 mins; February 21, 2023

40. How to Not Be Desperate in Your Dating Life

45 mins; February 14, 2023

39. Sex and Marriage

51 mins; February 07, 2023

38. Sex, Dating And Boundaries

31 mins; January 31, 2023

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