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Dr. Marie Murphy talks about infidelity and other challenging relationship situations from a non-judgmental perspective. She shares practical tools and advice from her own coaching practice to help you make changes in your love life, and interviews professionals with complementary expertise, such as family law attorneys, mediators, non-violent communication specialists, and more. In addition, Marie discusses the social and historical context of romantic relationships to provide perspective on our taken-for-granted assumptions about how relationships are supposed to be. To learn more, visit mariemurphyphd.com.

230: When Your Infidelity Situation Takes Over Your Life

35 mins; March 26, 2026

229: Radical Un-Shaming with David Bedrick

54 mins; March 12, 2026

228: Podcast Greatest Hits: When You Love Your Partner and You Still Want to Cheat

27 mins; February 26, 2026

227: Love, Sex, and Romance: What Do You Really Want?

27 mins; February 12, 2026

226: Recovering From a "Bad Decision"

35 mins; January 29, 2026

225: Drunken One-Night Stands

29 mins; January 15, 2026

224: Going All-In On Your Desires

39 mins; January 01, 2026

223: Whose Job Is It to Change the Conversation About Infidelity?

38 mins; December 18, 2025

222: Dating for the First Time in a Long Time

35 mins; December 04, 2025

221: Why I Work with Affair Couples as Individuals

35 mins; November 20, 2025

220: Vacillating Between Two Relationships

32 mins; November 06, 2025

219: Thriving After Infidelity: Michael's Story

63 hours 14 mins; October 23, 2025

218: Creating the Future vs. Predicting the Future

31 mins; October 09, 2025

217: The Perils of Telling the Truth

31 mins; September 25, 2025

216: When Your Affair Partner Breaks Your Heart

33 mins; September 11, 2025

215: Secretly Dating While You're Married

29 mins; August 28, 2025

214: What If You Make the "Wrong Decision" About Your Relationship(s)?

31 mins; August 14, 2025

213: Beginnings and Endings

23 mins; April 10, 2025

212: Choosing Between Two Good Things

46 mins; March 27, 2025

211. Dealing With Your Personal Problems When the World Is on Fire

33 mins; March 13, 2025

210. Sex Work and Infidelity Part 2

33 mins; February 27, 2025

209. Astrology and Infidelity with Karen Hawkwood (Part 2)

73 hours 49 mins; February 13, 2025

208. Sex Work and Infidelity Part 1

34 mins; January 30, 2025

207. Astrology and Infidelity with Karen Hawkwood

72 hours 4 mins; January 16, 2025

206. Where Do You Want to Be a Year from Now?

14 mins; January 02, 2025

205. What Can You Give Yourself More Credit For?

17 mins; December 19, 2024

204. The Challenges of Infidelity During the Holidays

36 mins; December 05, 2024

203. Your Money or Your Freedom

38 mins; November 21, 2024

202. Breaking Up with Your Affair Partner

45 mins; November 07, 2024

201. High-Conflict Breakups

32 mins; October 24, 2024

200. Nostalgia

42 mins; October 10, 2024

199. You Are Worthy of Acceptance

34 mins; September 26, 2024

198. What Do You Owe Your Ex-Affair Partner's Spouse?

30 mins; September 12, 2024

197. Affairs with Old Lovers

38 mins; August 29, 2024

196. What Are You Tolerating?

41 mins; August 15, 2024

195. Affair Relationships Can Last a Lifetime

56 mins; August 01, 2024

194. Dealing With Doubt

48 mins; July 18, 2024

193. What Do You Owe a Relationship Before You Can Decide to Leave It?

44 mins; July 04, 2024

192. When Will I Stop Fantasizing About My Ex-Affair Partner?

39 mins; June 20, 2024

191. Are You Just Having a Midlife Crisis?

44 mins; June 06, 2024

190. The Magic Button

49 mins; May 23, 2024

189. Scandal, Disgrace, and Redemption

56 mins; May 09, 2024

188. When Your Affair Partner Leaves You for the Wrong Reasons

41 mins; April 25, 2024

187. It's Okay to Change Your Mind

45 mins; April 11, 2024

186. Why I Do the Work I Do (Part 2)

52 mins; March 28, 2024

185. Why I Do the Work I Do (Part 1)

62 hours 14 mins; March 21, 2024

184. The Point of Resolving Your Infidelity Situation (Part 2)

25 mins; March 14, 2024

183. When Your Affair is Over, You May be Bored

40 mins; March 07, 2024

182. Why Considering Non-Monogamy Might Not be Helpful

31 mins; February 29, 2024

181. How to Tell Someone You've Cheated on Them

42 mins; February 22, 2024

180. When Your Affair Partner Has an Agenda for You

31 mins; February 15, 2024

179. How Long Should You Wait for Your Affair Partner to Leave Their Marriage?

36 mins; February 08, 2024

178. When You Have an Agenda for Your Affair Partner

34 mins; February 01, 2024

177. What It's Like to Work with Me

34 mins; January 25, 2024

176. Fear

37 mins; January 18, 2024

175. The Right Tools for the Job

28 mins; January 11, 2024

174. Believing in Your Capacity to Change

23 mins; January 04, 2024

173. The Easy Hard Paradox

30 mins; December 28, 2023

172. Missing Your Affair Partner

29 mins; December 21, 2023

171. The Extreme Highs and Lows of Infidelity

25 mins; December 14, 2023

170. Planning to Break up with Someone After the Holidays

31 mins; December 07, 2023

169. Integrating Your Affair Partner Into Your Family

34 mins; November 30, 2023

168. The Gifts of Your Infidelity Situation

17 mins; November 23, 2023

167. Starting Over After a Breakup

37 mins; November 16, 2023

166. The Hell of Being Broken up With

34 mins; November 09, 2023

165. Ultimatums

42 mins; November 02, 2023

164. Cheating On Your Affair Partner

45 mins; October 26, 2023

163. Approaches to a Breakup: Breadcrumbs vs Bombshells

31 mins; October 19, 2023

162. Becoming More Decisive

35 mins; October 12, 2023

161. How Do I Know if I'm Being Reckless?

30 mins; October 05, 2023

160. Cheating On Your Fiancé

28 mins; September 28, 2023

159. You Can't Eat the Whole Elephant at Once

33 mins; September 21, 2023

158. Forgiving Yourself & Forgiving Others

38 mins; September 14, 2023

157. You Might Be an Asshole

31 mins; September 07, 2023

156. Nurturing a Long-Term Affair (Part 2)

37 mins; August 31, 2023

155. Nurturing a Long-Term Affair (Part 1)

44 mins; August 24, 2023

154. Being Your Own Steward

31 mins; August 17, 2023

153. Your Questions Answered (Part 5)

56 mins; August 10, 2023

152. Seeing Your Ex-Affair Partner in Social Settings

37 mins; August 03, 2023

151. Your Questions Answered (Part 4)

41 mins; July 27, 2023

150. Your Questions Answered (Part 3)

40 mins; July 20, 2023

149. Your Questions Answered (Part 2)

29 mins; July 13, 2023

148. Your Questions Answered (Part 1)

34 mins; July 06, 2023

147. You Can't Shame Yourself into Changing

30 mins; June 29, 2023

146. Loving Your Decisions

36 mins; June 22, 2023

145. Don't Wait to Get Caught

32 mins; June 15, 2023

144. Your One Wild and Precious Life

32 mins; June 08, 2023

143. Treating Your Infidelity Situation as a Life Project

29 mins; June 01, 2023

142. Trying to Get Back to the Way a Relationship Used to Be

31 mins; May 25, 2023

141. Contentment That Isn't Dependent Upon a Relationship

39 mins; May 18, 2023

140. Loneliness

30 mins; May 11, 2023

139. Comparing Your Spouse to Your Affair Partner

23 mins; May 04, 2023

138. Telling a New Partner About Your History with Infidelity

44 mins; April 27, 2023

137. If You Don't Feel Guilty About Cheating

34 mins; April 20, 2023

136. If You've Been Stuck in Your Infidelity Situation for a While

32 mins; April 13, 2023

135. When Your Infidelity Situation is Brand New

40 mins; April 06, 2023

134. Cheating in Open Relationships

27 mins; March 30, 2023

133. Don't Make Your Partner Break Up with You

25 mins; March 23, 2023

132. Stop Minimizing the Importance of Sex

31 mins; March 16, 2023

131. Breaking Up with Someone You've Been Cheating On

34 mins; March 09, 2023

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