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Dr. Marie Murphy talks about infidelity and other challenging relationship situations from a non-judgmental perspective. She shares practical tools and advice from her own coaching practice to help you make changes in your love life, and interviews professionals with complementary expertise, such as family law attorneys, mediators, non-violent communication specialists, and more. In addition, Marie discusses the social and historical context of romantic relationships to provide perspective on our taken-for-granted assumptions about how relationships are supposed to be. To learn more, visit mariemurphyphd.com.

130. Implicit Permission to Cheat

25 mins; March 02, 2023

129. Cultivating Clarity and Certainty (Part 2)

30 mins; February 23, 2023

128. Cultivating Clarity and Certainty

40 mins; February 16, 2023

127. The Limits of Other People's Advice

28 mins; February 09, 2023

126. Regret is Optional

33 mins; February 02, 2023

125: Privately Grieving the End of an Affair

38 mins; January 26, 2023

124: Dealing with Other People's Discomfort (Part 2)

36 mins; January 19, 2023

123: Abundance vs. Scarcity of Love

27 mins; January 12, 2023

122: Yes, People Can Be Total Jerks Sometimes

30 mins; January 05, 2023

121: How Good Can You Stand It?

37 mins; December 29, 2022

120: Managing Your Worries

29 mins; December 22, 2022

119: Explaining How a Relationship Began

24 mins; December 15, 2022

118: The Intimacy of a Breakup

22 mins; December 08, 2022

117: Jealousy

35 mins; December 01, 2022

116: Uniquely Difficult Situations in Life

30 mins; November 24, 2022

115: From an Affair to a Non-Affair Relationship

39 mins; November 17, 2022

114: Questioning Common Beliefs About Marriage

30 mins; November 10, 2022

113. Wanting Something and Not Having It Yet

27 mins; November 03, 2022

112. Being a Human Feels Terrible Sometimes

32 mins; October 27, 2022

111. The Price of Convenience

35 mins; October 20, 2022

110. What Do You Owe Someone You've Cheated On?

28 mins; October 13, 2022

109. You Don't HAVE to Make a Decision

36 mins; October 06, 2022

108. Why Do People Cheat?

34 mins; September 29, 2022

107. Is Monogamy (Un)Natural?

35 mins; September 22, 2022

106. Ask Yourself the Right Questions

28 mins; September 15, 2022

105. It May Be Time to Chuck Your Checklist

26 mins; September 08, 2022

104. The Courage to Make Changes and Choices

28 mins; September 01, 2022

103. Dealing with a Vindictive Affair Partner

42 mins; August 25, 2022

102. You Got Caught Cheating

35 mins; August 18, 2022

101. What Physical Pain Teaches Us About Emotional Pain

34 mins; August 11, 2022

100. The Point of Resolving Your Infidelity Situation

24 mins; August 04, 2022

99. What Do You Expect Out of a Romantic Relationship?

24 mins; July 28, 2022

98. Stop Telling Yourself These Three Things Right Now

35 mins; July 21, 2022

97. Re-Engaging in a Relationship After an Affair, Part 2

34 mins; July 14, 2022

96. When You Leave Your Marriage but Your Affair Partner Doesn't

37 mins; July 07, 2022

95. Dealing With a Needy Affair Partner

43 mins; June 30, 2022

94. Is It Cheating if Your Spouse Has Alzheimer's?

53 mins; June 23, 2022

93. Allowing Yourself To Want What You Want

41 mins; June 16, 2022

92. Holding Our Desires Lightly With Katy Dion

69 hours 37 mins; June 09, 2022

91. The Intensity of a New Affair

36 mins; June 02, 2022

90. Should I Go to Couple's Therapy?

33 mins; May 26, 2022

89. Does Having an Affair Doom Your Marriage to Failure?

27 mins; May 19, 2022

88. When Bad Sh*t Happens

33 mins; May 12, 2022

87. Relationships, Divorce, and Money With Jessie Susannah Karnatz

42 mins; May 05, 2022

86. When your Affair Partner Ghosts You

33 mins; April 28, 2022

85. Past vs. Future Focus

37 mins; April 21, 2022

84. Making Plans for the Future With Your Affair Partner

33 mins; April 14, 2022

83. Boundaries with Melissa Hite

57 mins; April 07, 2022

82. How to Cheat and Keep Your Sanity Intact

35 mins; March 31, 2022

81. Conflict and Compatibility

43 mins; March 24, 2022

80. It's Not Your Partner's Job To Make You Happy

29 mins; March 17, 2022

79. Being Honest With Yourself

26 mins; March 10, 2022

78. Lying About Infidelity

31 mins; March 03, 2022

77. Infidelity, Shame, and Perfectionism

33 mins; February 24, 2022

76. Regret

32 mins; February 17, 2022

75. Perfectionism and Relationships

25 mins; February 10, 2022

74. Dealing With Guilt and Shame

29 mins; February 03, 2022

73. What To Say When You Break Up With Someone

36 mins; January 27, 2022

72. Preparing for a Breakup

35 mins; January 20, 2022

71. When You Love Your Partner And You Still Want To Cheat

27 mins; January 13, 2022

70. What Does It Mean To Be Selfish?

27 mins; January 06, 2022

69. Making Changes In 2022

24 mins; December 30, 2021

68. Infidelity and Death

27 mins; December 23, 2021

67. Choosing To Leave A Good-Enough Marriage for Your Affair Partner

43 mins; December 16, 2021

66. Infidelity and the Holidays, Part Four: Dealing with Nostalgia and Confusion

30 mins; December 09, 2021

65. Infidelity and the Holidays, Part Three: Putting off Decisions

31 mins; December 02, 2021

64. Infidelity and the Holidays, Part Two: Being the Other Person

24 mins; November 25, 2021

63. Infidelity and the Holidays, Part One

28 mins; November 18, 2021

62. Making Difficult Decisions

25 mins; November 11, 2021

61. Sex, Unhappiness, and Compromises in Marriage

25 mins; November 04, 2021

60. Dealing with Other People's Feelings

20 mins; October 28, 2021

59. Is the Grass Always Greener?

25 mins; October 21, 2021

58. Financial Fears, Divorce, and Infidelity

27 mins; October 14, 2021

57. Re-Engaging in a Relationship After an Affair

39 mins; October 07, 2021

56. Cutting off Contact With Your Affair Partner

24 mins; September 30, 2021

55. Contemplating Leaving Your Marriage

21 mins; September 23, 2021

54. Embracing Your Contradictions

27 mins; September 16, 2021

53. Divorce and Your Relationship with Your Kids with Abigail Wald

55 mins; September 09, 2021

52. Dealing with Other People's Opinions, Part Three

25 mins; September 02, 2021

51. Dealing with Other People's Opinions, Part Two

30 mins; August 26, 2021

50. The Joys and Sorrows of Adultery with Mona Lisa

50 mins; August 19, 2021

49. In Defense of "New Relationship Energy"

22 mins; August 12, 2021

48. Forgiving Yourself

19 mins; August 05, 2021

47. Being the "Other Person," Part Three

22 mins; July 29, 2021

46. Dealing With Other People's Opinions, Part One

47 mins; July 22, 2021

45. Being the "Other Person," Part Two

23 mins; July 15, 2021

44. Moving Beyond Blame with Karilyn Ivers

42 mins; July 08, 2021

43. Being the "Other Person," Part One

29 mins; July 01, 2021

42. The Mindset of Pleasure with Danielle Savory

50 mins; June 24, 2021

41. Clarifying What You Want in a Relationship

37 mins; June 17, 2021

40. Blow Your House Down with Gina Frangello

49 mins; June 10, 2021

39. Healing from Heartbreak with Dorothy Johnson

44 mins; June 03, 2021

38. Sexuality, Religion, and Shame with Melissa Hite

41 mins; May 27, 2021

37. Discomfort, Drama, and Infidelity

22 mins; May 20, 2021

36. Good Enough Sex with Dr. Barry McCarthy

42 mins; May 13, 2021

35. Changes and Choices in Relationships with Yael Haklai-Neagu

32 mins; May 06, 2021

34. Mindfulness, Music, and Relationships with Dr. Richard Gold

48 mins; April 29, 2021

33. How to Deal with Missing Your Affair Partner

27 mins; April 22, 2021

32. Money and Your Relationships with Christine Luken

40 mins; April 15, 2021

31. A Happy Life in an Open Relationship with Susan Wenzel

39 mins; April 08, 2021

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