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The Hook Up is about love, sex and relationships. We answer your questions, learn things together, cry over heartbreak and normalise shit. Every Tuesday Dee and Pip debate your dating dilemmas and hear your cooked stories. Every Thursday it's the sex ed you never had — we call on an expert to go deep and find answers with Dee.

When Family Messes With Your Love Life

33 mins; April 08, 2025

Dylin Hardcastle On Queer Storytelling and Trans Joy

26 mins; April 02, 2025

Unpacking Adolescence, The Manosphere and The 80/20 Rule

48 mins; March 31, 2025

How To Ask For What You Actually Want In Bed

27 mins; March 26, 2025

What Makes Someone Good In Bed?

35 mins; March 24, 2025

BV (Bacterial Vaginosis) Is Actually An STI!!!

30 mins; March 19, 2025

Is Surgery, Filler And Botox Changing The Way We Date?

28 mins; March 17, 2025

How To Deal If You Feel Shame After Sex And Masturbation

23 mins; March 12, 2025

What Is Post Nut Clarity?

34 mins; March 10, 2025

An Expert Weighs In On Game Playing In Dating

30 mins; March 05, 2025

Are We Are Playing Games In Dating?

34 mins; March 03, 2025

What You Need To Know For Your First Mardi Gras

30 mins; February 26, 2025

Does Setting Up Friends Actually Work?

29 mins; February 24, 2025

Why Are Guys Becoming More Conservative?

39 mins; February 19, 2025

Is The Gender Divide Causing A Dating Recession?

44 mins; February 17, 2025

Is The Gender Divide Causing A Dating Recession?

44 mins; February 17, 2025

How To Have A ‘Healthy’ Fight

31 mins; February 12, 2025

What Is Micro Cheating & Is It Break Up Worthy?

27 mins; February 10, 2025

What Is Micro Cheating & Is It Break Up Worthy?

27 mins; February 10, 2025

How To Find Safe Love w/ Lucille Shackleton

30 mins; February 05, 2025

Are You Missing Out On Dirty Talk?

33 mins; February 03, 2025

Are You Missing Out On Dirty Talk?

33 mins; February 03, 2025

Are You Missing Out On Dirty Talk?

33 mins; February 03, 2025

Hot Wet Summer Debrief

19 mins; January 27, 2025

ICYMI: Can You Create Sexual Chemistry If It’s Not There?

22 mins; January 22, 2025

ICYMI: Morgan Jay On Dirty Talk, Open Relationships And His DMs

28 mins; January 20, 2025

ICYMI: What It's Like Having Two Vaginas

29 mins; January 15, 2025

ICYMI: What Is A 'Tradwife'?

33 mins; January 13, 2025

HACK: What It’s Like To Date FIFO

12 mins; January 08, 2025

ICYMI: Angela White On Deep Throating, Crying After Sex And Feminism In Porn

39 mins; January 06, 2025

ICYMI: How To Have Better Sex With Dr Tara

31 mins; January 01, 2025

Here’s Your Hook Up 2024 Wrapped

29 mins; December 30, 2024

ICYMI: How To Know When You Should Break Up

27 mins; December 25, 2024

Your Best Secrets Of 2024

17 mins; December 23, 2024

An Expert's Opinion On Age Gap Relationships

20 mins; December 18, 2024

Punk, Queer Joy And Believing In Soulmates w/ Drag Queen Bimini

37 mins; December 16, 2024

Punk, Queer Joy And Believing In Soulmates w/ Drag Queen Bimini

35 mins; December 16, 2024

How To Become Securely Attached w/ Thais Gibson

38 mins; December 11, 2024

OnlyFans Trolling w/ Comedian Chloe Maddren

36 mins; December 09, 2024

OnlyFans Trolling w/ Comedian Chloe Maddren

33 mins; December 09, 2024

TherapyJeff Answers Your Questions On Self Identity, How To Listen Not React And ‘The Spark’

34 mins; December 04, 2024

Is It Bad To Fantasise About Other People While In A Relationship?

28 mins; December 02, 2024

Is It Bad To Fantasise About Other People While In A Relationship?

28 mins; December 02, 2024

Meet Ellie Sedgwick The Vulva Photographer

31 mins; November 27, 2024

Can Age Gap Relationships Work?

33 mins; November 25, 2024

Can Age Gap Relationships Work?

35 mins; November 25, 2024

The Science Behind Dicks n Nutting (aka Sperm, Balls, Erections etc)

37 mins; November 20, 2024

Gifts, Nudes, Sentimental Stuff: What Can You Keep From An Ex?

29 mins; November 18, 2024

Gifts, Nudes, Sentimental Stuff: What Can You Keep From An Ex?

28 mins; November 18, 2024

How To Do A Relationship Check In

33 mins; November 13, 2024

Are You Doing Relationship Check Ins?

25 mins; November 11, 2024

What To Expect At A Sex Party

39 mins; November 06, 2024

How Long Should Sex Last?

23 mins; November 04, 2024

How To Get Intimacy Back In Your Relationship

25 mins; October 30, 2024

What Does Intimacy Mean To You?

27 mins; October 28, 2024

How To Deal With Anxiety And Panic In Sex

38 mins; October 23, 2024

How To Be Single

29 mins; October 21, 2024

We Asked An Expert If Relationships Should Be Hard Or Easy

22 mins; October 16, 2024

"Relationships Should Be Easy": y/n??

26 mins; October 14, 2024

How To Tell Someone You Have Herpes

30 mins; October 09, 2024

Did We Just Become Best Friends w/ Toni & Ryan?

37 mins; October 08, 2024

An Expert’s Advice For Neurodivergent Dating

37 mins; October 02, 2024

“Neurotypical People Please Just Say What You Mean!!!”

20 mins; October 01, 2024

ICYMI: The Imperfects On Learning How To Be Vulnerable

44 mins; September 25, 2024

Millie Ford on Dating With ADHD And OCD

35 mins; September 23, 2024

How To Nail 69

17 mins; September 18, 2024

"I Pissed All Over His Bed": Your One Night Stand Stories

31 mins; September 17, 2024

How To Break Up With Someone After Realising You’re Queer

0 secs; September 11, 2024

Should You Care About 'Body Count'?

25 mins; September 09, 2024

What Will Happen If I Stop Taking The Pill?

18 mins; September 04, 2024

Dating Diaries, Faking O’s & U-Haul Lesbians w/ Maddy MacRae

32 mins; September 03, 2024

How To Nut Again And Again And Again

25 mins; August 28, 2024

Your Tips On How To Have An Amazing Orgasm

25 mins; August 27, 2024

What It's Like Having Two Vaginas

30 mins; August 21, 2024

Your Piercing And Tattoo Hook Up Stories

21 mins; August 20, 2024

Your Science Of Sex Questions w/ Dr Karl & Dr Eva

27 mins; August 14, 2024

Is Romance Dead?

26 mins; August 13, 2024

What Actually Works For Pussy Taste And Smell

25 mins; August 07, 2024

Morgan Jay On Dirty Talk, Open Relationships And His DMs

30 mins; August 05, 2024

Why People Cheat

31 mins; August 01, 2024

What It’s Like To Be The Side Piece

27 mins; July 30, 2024

How To Support Your Partner With Depression

24 mins; July 24, 2024

Should Your Partner Be Your Best Friend?

21 mins; July 23, 2024

Can You Create Sexual Chemistry If It’s Not There?

21 mins; July 17, 2024

What Actually Makes Sexual Chemistry?

24 mins; July 16, 2024

Are We Breaking Up With Dating Apps?

20 mins; July 11, 2024

The Ultimate Guide To Dating Apps

30 mins; July 09, 2024

What It Means To Be A Top/Bottom/Verse/Side

22 mins; July 03, 2024

Making Friends As An Adult w/ Two Broke Chicks

35 mins; July 01, 2024

ICYMI: How To Talk Dirty (Without Giving Yourself The Ick)

29 mins; June 26, 2024

How To Deal With Bisexual Erasure

28 mins; June 20, 2024

Has Your Bisexuality Been Invalidated?

20 mins; June 18, 2024

How Porn Affects Us And Our Sex Lives

36 mins; June 13, 2024

What Is A 'Tradwife'?

37 mins; June 11, 2024

How To Date In The Current Gender Violence Crisis

30 mins; June 05, 2024

What To Ask On A First Date

23 mins; June 04, 2024

Could Your PMS Actually Be PMDD?

21 mins; May 29, 2024

What Is The 'Boy/Girl Sober' Movement?

28 mins; May 28, 2024

What To Do If You Can't Orgasm Without A Vibrator

15 mins; May 22, 2024

All The Creative Ways You First Learnt To Masturbate

21 mins; May 21, 2024

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