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The Hook Up is about love, sex and relationships. We answer your questions, learn things together, cry over heartbreak and normalise shit. Every Tuesday Dee and Pip debate your dating dilemmas and hear your cooked stories. Every Thursday it's the sex ed you never had — we call on an expert to go deep and find answers with Dee.

Being Single, Hook Up Culture & The Male Gaze w/ Elouise Eftos

28 mins; April 01, 2026

Friends With Exes: Green Flag Or Red Flag?

41 mins; March 30, 2026

We Need To Talk About Arousal Non-Concordance

29 mins; March 25, 2026

Are Humans Naturally Monogamous?

34 mins; March 23, 2026

Unpacking The Manosphere w/ Tarang Chawla

44 mins; March 18, 2026

Are Friendship Icks The Same As Relationship Icks?

31 mins; March 16, 2026

BONUS: Is It Still Embarrassing To Have A Boyfriend? w/ Chanté Joseph

27 mins; March 13, 2026

An Expert’s Advice On Dealbreakers Like Having Kids

34 mins; March 11, 2026

Should You Ever Change Your Dealbreakers For A Partner?

37 mins; March 09, 2026

How To Heal After A Pregnancy Loss

24 mins; March 04, 2026

Can You Date Someone You’re Not Really Attracted To?

41 mins; March 02, 2026

What Is A Miscarriage And What To Expect

30 mins; February 25, 2026

Should You Have Sex On The First Date?

37 mins; February 23, 2026

What Is Piss Play? And How To Get Into It

22 mins; February 18, 2026

When Your Break Up Goes Public

43 mins; February 16, 2026

What Your Porn Taste Says About You

36 mins; February 11, 2026

What Kind Of Porn Are You Into?

35 mins; February 09, 2026

Why You Should Watch Heated Rivalry w/ Mitch Churi

28 mins; February 04, 2026

Can A ‘Friends With Benefits’ Relationship Actually Work?

42 mins; February 02, 2026

How To Deal If Your Partner Is Addicted To Their Phone

34 mins; January 28, 2026

Are Our Phones Ruining Dating And Relationships?

38 mins; January 26, 2026

Our Heated Rivalry Summers

8 mins; January 19, 2026

ICYMI: Should We Be Worried About The Rise Of AI Relationships?

41 mins; January 12, 2026

ICYMI: I Think I Want To Go To Therapy, What Next?

34 mins; January 05, 2026

ICYMI: How To Actually Have A Good Threesome

44 mins; December 29, 2025

ICYMI: Is Getting Back With Your Ex Worth It?

4 mins; December 22, 2025

ICYMI: When Family Messes With Your Love Life

34 mins; December 15, 2025

The Biggest Moments In Dating, Sex And Relationships This Year

44 mins; December 08, 2025

How To Tell Your Friend You Don’t Like Their Partner

24 mins; December 03, 2025

Should You Tell Your Friend Their Partner Is Shit?

43 mins; December 01, 2025

Why We Should Normalise Sex Toys With Partners

32 mins; November 26, 2025

Should We All Be Using Sex Toys?

46 mins; November 24, 2025

The Convos All Couples Should Have Before Getting Married

27 mins; November 19, 2025

Do We Even Need To Get Married Anymore?

46 mins; November 17, 2025

Do We Even Need To Get Married Anymore?

46 mins; November 17, 2025

Ancient Greek Myths Were Queer, Trans And Horny w/ Zoe Terakes

31 mins; November 12, 2025

Is Your Relationship In A “Roommate Phase”? [Video]

48 mins; November 10, 2025

Is Your Relationship In A “Roommate Phase”?

48 mins; November 10, 2025

Healing From Complex Trauma w/ Stephanie Foo

38 mins; November 05, 2025

Does Height Actually Matter In Dating?

39 mins; November 03, 2025

Does Height Actually Matter In Dating?

39 mins; November 03, 2025

How To Sext And Send Nudes Safer

32 mins; October 29, 2025

Sexting, Nudes & Filming With A Partner

38 mins; October 27, 2025

Sexting, Nudes & Filming With A Partner

38 mins; October 27, 2025

How To Deal With Overthinking In Dating And Relationships

26 mins; October 22, 2025

Is Overthinking Ruining Your Love Life?

43 mins; October 20, 2025

Is Overthinking Ruining Your Love Life?

43 mins; October 20, 2025

Do I Have A Sex/Porn Addiction?

29 mins; October 15, 2025

Is Being A Pick Me Or Performative Male Problematic?

36 mins; October 13, 2025

Is Being A Pick Me Or Performative Male Problematic?

36 mins; October 13, 2025

Everything You Need To Know About Your Pelvic Floor

36 mins; October 08, 2025

Are Soulmates Real And Are They Ruining Our Dating Lives?

44 mins; October 06, 2025

Are Soulmates Real And Are They Ruining Our Dating Lives?

44 mins; October 06, 2025

Male Friendships, Loneliness and AFL Culture w/ Brandon Jack

26 mins; October 01, 2025

Is The 'Male Loneliness Epidemic' Real?

36 mins; September 30, 2025

Is 'The Male Loneliness Epidemic' Real?

36 mins; September 29, 2025

How To Deal With Mismatched Libidos

40 mins; September 24, 2025

How Often Should You Be Having Sex?

40 mins; September 22, 2025

What Is PCOS? And Could I Have It?

33 mins; September 17, 2025

Why Is Queer Female Sexuality Not Taken Seriously?

48 mins; September 15, 2025

Should You Get Back With Your Ex or Move On?

24 mins; September 10, 2025

Is Getting Back With Your Ex Worth It?

40 mins; September 08, 2025

Is Your Relationship Worse Off If You Meet On A Dating App?

25 mins; September 03, 2025

Why We’re Not Having Kids Anymore

42 mins; September 01, 2025

What To Do If You Can't Get (Or Stay) Hard

25 mins; August 27, 2025

Has Social Media Cooked Our Expectations Of Dating?

34 mins; August 25, 2025

Mgen Is The STI You Don’t Know About (And It's Really Hard To Treat)

34 mins; August 20, 2025

What Is A Lurker And Do You Have One?

35 mins; August 18, 2025

The Science of Squirting & How To Do It

23 mins; August 13, 2025

Does Dick Size Actually Matter?

27 mins; August 11, 2025

Period Farts, Cum Headaches & The Science Of Kinks w/ Dr Eva

36 mins; August 06, 2025

Pornstar Angela White’s Advice For Amazing Sex

41 mins; August 04, 2025

Deep Fakes, Cyber Brothels, And AI Misogyny w/ Laura Bates

43 mins; July 30, 2025

Should We Be Worried About The Rise Of AI Relationships?

41 mins; July 28, 2025

Are Professor Student Relationships Ever Ok? w/ Madison Griffiths

47 mins; July 23, 2025

What It’s Like To Be In A ‘Taboo’ Relationship

38 mins; July 21, 2025

When You Cum Too Quickly

28 mins; July 16, 2025

Is Birth Order Theory Actually Real?

37 mins; July 14, 2025

How To Do Non-Monogamy ‘Ethically’

50 mins; July 09, 2025

Is Everyone ENM Now?

33 mins; July 07, 2025

What Does It Mean To Be a Dom Or a Sub?

31 mins; July 02, 2025

Why Are There So Many Fake Doms?

40 mins; June 30, 2025

Groundbreaking Research For Endometriosis Explained

38 mins; June 25, 2025

The Rise Of Femcels

34 mins; June 24, 2025

Jemma Sbeg On Love And Relationships In Your 20s

49 mins; June 18, 2025

We're Taking A Break!

3 mins; June 02, 2025

What Is Financial Abuse And How To Spot The Signs

25 mins; May 28, 2025

Does Money Matter In Dating?

40 mins; May 27, 2025

How To Actually Have A Good Threesome

0 secs; May 21, 2025

How Are You Having Threesomes?

45 mins; May 20, 2025

How To Deal With Floodlighting

26 mins; May 14, 2025

What Is Floodlighting And Am I Guilty Of Doing It?

40 mins; May 13, 2025

Kayla Jade On Her Wildest Clients, Dating & The Danger Of Full Service Sex Work

49 mins; May 07, 2025

What You Need To Know About Getting Pregnant

41 mins; April 30, 2025

Cumfessions LIVE Pt 2

34 mins; April 29, 2025

I Think I Want To Go To Therapy, What Next?

34 mins; April 23, 2025

Cumfessions LIVE Pt 1

32 mins; April 22, 2025

The Science Of Why We Fall In Love

26 mins; April 16, 2025

Circumcisions And Commitment Issues w/ Comedian Will Gibb

34 mins; April 14, 2025

An Expert’s Advice For Dealing With Toxic Families

35 mins; April 09, 2025

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