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The Hook Up is about love, sex and relationships. We answer your questions, learn things together, cry over heartbreak and normalise shit. Every Tuesday Dee and Pip debate your dating dilemmas and hear your cooked stories. Every Thursday it's the sex ed you never had — we call on an expert to go deep and find answers with Dee.

How To Trust Again After You've Been Cheated On

26 mins; May 16, 2024

Once A Cheater, Always A Cheater?

24 mins; May 14, 2024

How To Know When You Should Break Up

26 mins; May 08, 2024

When Should You Know They’re The One?

24 mins; May 07, 2024

Blake Pavey On Hard Launches, Cystic Fibrosis & Why You Shouldn't Date Comedians

35 mins; May 02, 2024

Should You Check Your Date's Following List?

28 mins; April 30, 2024

Am I In A Codependent Relationship?

27 mins; April 24, 2024

To The Friend That Always Wants To Bring Their Partner…

23 mins; April 23, 2024

Why You Need To Practise Post-Sex Aftercare

22 mins; April 17, 2024

Is Having Break Up Sex A Good Or Bad Idea?

21 mins; April 16, 2024

What Is A Banjo String? And What To Do If It Snaps

22 mins; April 11, 2024

Heartbreak High's Will McDonald & James Majoos On Intimacy, Dating Apps And Furries

12 mins; April 10, 2024

What Are The Rules For Housemates' Partners Staying Over?

19 mins; April 08, 2024

How To Have Better Sex With Dr Tara

30 mins; April 04, 2024

Sharing Passcodes And Going Through Your Partner’s Phone

24 mins; April 01, 2024

How To Heal From A Breakup With Alexis Fernandez-Preiksa

55 mins; March 27, 2024

Do You Have To Love Yourself Before You Love Somebody Else?

26 mins; March 26, 2024

Here’s Why You Might Cry Or Laugh After Sex

23 mins; March 20, 2024

When You Cry, Laugh Or Get The Zoomies After Sex

25 mins; March 18, 2024

Are Dating Apps Designed To Be Addictive?

14 mins; March 13, 2024

Can You Be Friends With Someone You’re Attracted To?

25 mins; March 11, 2024

Angela White On Deep Throating, Crying After Sex And Feminism In Porn

38 mins; March 06, 2024

The Psychology Behind Paypigs And Findom

12 mins; March 05, 2024

The World Of Paypigs And Findom

25 mins; March 04, 2024

Louis Hanson on Mardis Gras, Coming Out & GayTMs

26 mins; February 28, 2024

How To Deal If You're Attracted To Red Flags

24 mins; February 27, 2024

When Dating Green Flags Freak You Out

25 mins; February 26, 2024

Hannah Ferguson On Why You Should Group Date

25 mins; February 21, 2024

The Struggle Of Having Sex When You Live With Your Parents

24 mins; February 19, 2024

How To Navigate Shitty Timing

27 mins; February 14, 2024

Does Timing Matter In Relationships?

26 mins; February 12, 2024

How To Do Anal (If You've Never Done It Before)

28 mins; February 08, 2024

Are We Living In A Low Effort Dating Era?

27 mins; February 06, 2024

The Imperfects On Learning How To Be Vulnerable

45 mins; January 29, 2024

More Kinky History With Esme Louise James

33 mins; January 22, 2024

Unpacking Internet Culture and Dating With Vulga Drawings

48 mins; January 15, 2024

Dylan Buckley On Embracing Your Authentic Self

25 mins; January 08, 2024

Madeleine Stewart: Talking Dating With A Disability

38 mins; January 01, 2024

Your Most Cooked Sunday Secrets

18 mins; December 25, 2023

All The Cooked Things From 2023

37 mins; December 18, 2023

How To Open Up And Embrace Vulnerability

36 mins; December 11, 2023

A Chat With Dr Zac Seidler On Masculinity

35 mins; December 07, 2023

We Need To Talk About Masculinity

33 mins; December 05, 2023

How To Open Up Your Relationship

30 mins; November 27, 2023

Why Do We F*ck People We Hate

23 mins; November 20, 2023

I Love Feet... Do I Have A Foot Fetish?

25 mins; November 13, 2023

What It’s Like To Date With ADHD

29 mins; November 06, 2023

Autosexuality: When You’re Sexually Attracted To Yourself

18 mins; October 30, 2023

TF Is A Coregasm And How Do I Have One?

18 mins; October 24, 2023

When Your Body Image Is Ruining Your Sex Life

33 mins; October 17, 2023

A Chat With Madison Griffiths on Abortion

29 mins; October 11, 2023

How To Deal If You Keep Getting UTIs

45 mins; October 10, 2023

Can Anxious-Avoidant Relationships Ever Work?

37 mins; October 03, 2023

What You Need To Know About Consent With Chanel Contos

35 mins; September 26, 2023

BONUS: Getting To Know Girthmasterr

30 mins; September 20, 2023

How To Find The G-Spot, A-Spot, C-Spot & P-Spot

27 mins; September 19, 2023

Sex And Dating In A Wheelchair

26 mins; September 13, 2023

Why So Many Of Us Fake Orgasms

26 mins; September 05, 2023

BONUS: Spilling Secrets w/ Swag On The Beat

35 mins; August 30, 2023

Struggling To Sleep Next To Your Partner?

24 mins; August 29, 2023

BONUS: Dr Karl and Dr Theresa Answer Your Sex Questions

33 mins; August 24, 2023

How To Dump Someone, Respectfully

27 mins; August 22, 2023

How To Spot Emotional Cheating In Your Relationship

33 mins; August 15, 2023

Ball Play 101

19 mins; August 08, 2023

AMA With Sexologist Lauren French Part Two

29 mins; July 31, 2023

AMA With Sexologist Lauren French Part One

25 mins; July 25, 2023

BONUS: Getting Therapy With Therapy Gecko

29 mins; July 19, 2023

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