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PsycHacks provides listeners with a brief, thought-provoking episode several days a week on a variety of psychological topics, inspired by my clinical practice. The intention is for the core idea contained within each episode to inspire listeners to see something about themselves or their world in a slightly different light.

Episode 610: Turning it around (how to start winning in life)

10 mins; April 03, 2026

Episode 609: Performative masculinity (it's not what you think)

11 mins; March 30, 2026

Episode 608: You do not need entertainment (how to get more done)

11 mins; March 27, 2026

Episode 607: Protecting against gold diggers (show them the money)

13 mins; March 23, 2026

Episode 606: The time to live (your second birthday)

10 mins; March 20, 2026

Episode 605: Let men solve problems (he's not your girlfriend)

13 mins; March 16, 2026

Episode 604: Optimization fatigue (why you feel worse as you get better)

12 mins; March 13, 2026

Episode 603: Bad boys (why women want them)

11 mins; March 09, 2026

Episode 602: How to get over an ex (the two best strategies)

12 mins; March 06, 2026

Episode 601: A useful eight (my ideal woman)

10 mins; March 02, 2026

Episode 600: Cheap sex (it's not all bad)

13 mins; February 27, 2026

Episode 599: She who cries wolf (is she seeing clearly?

11 mins; February 23, 2026

Episode 598: Relaxing into her feminine (the soft life)

10 mins; February 20, 2026

Episode 597: Sex isn't special (feelings don't count)

14 mins; February 16, 2026

Episode 596: An ordinary life (it's not for everyone)

12 mins; February 13, 2026

Episode 595: Height (tall men have it easy)

14 mins; February 09, 2026

Episode 594: The democratic lie (we are not created equal)

11 mins; February 06, 2026

Episode 593: His money is my money (modern slavery)

10 mins; February 02, 2026

Episode 592: Why you were lied to (and why it hurts so much)

11 mins; January 30, 2026

Episode 591: You are a killer (dominate your mind)

10 mins; January 26, 2026

Episode 590: Why the world is falling apart (turning down the genie)

10 mins; January 23, 2026

Episode 589: The female idol (the corruption of dating)

11 mins; January 19, 2026

Episode 588: Love and justice (order and chaos)

13 mins; January 16, 2026

Episode 587: The reality of modern family (what's the point?)

13 mins; January 12, 2026

Episode 586: What do you want to have for dinner? (no straight answers)

12 mins; January 09, 2026

Episode 585: Women are dirty (understanding their dark desires)

11 mins; January 05, 2026

Episode 584: Become a monster (owning your darkness)

10 mins; January 02, 2026

Episode 583: Staying at home (no one wants to do it)

10 mins; December 29, 2025

Episode 582: Women walking away (are men to blame?)

10 mins; December 26, 2025

Episode 581: Sex and attention (the most reinforcing good)

14 mins; December 22, 2025

Episode 580: Modern women (you can't have it both ways)

14 mins; December 19, 2025

Episode 579: Death of the lady (where are all the real men?)

13 mins; December 15, 2025

Episode 578: Is having a boyfriend embarrassing? (single is not a flex)

12 mins; December 12, 2025

Episode 577: Get better (advice for men)

10 mins; December 08, 2025

Episode 576: She takes and takes (why he feels used)

10 mins; December 05, 2025

Episode 575: The ring test (love and business)

12 mins; December 01, 2025

Episode 574: How to find yourself (understanding what you really want)

10 mins; November 28, 2025

Episode 573: Body count (beyond the number)

10 mins; November 24, 2025

Episode 572: The love trap (she can't fix you)

10 mins; November 21, 2025

Episode 571: How relationships work (on value)

10 mins; November 17, 2025

Episode 570: You can't cheat yourself (understanding self love)

11 mins; November 14, 2025

Episode 569: Man up (for the benefit of women)

10 mins; November 10, 2025

Episode 568: My new book (why you should read it)

9 mins; November 07, 2025

Episode 567: If he wanted to (maybe he would)

10 mins; November 03, 2025

Episode 566: The primary lie (you can't always get what you want)

11 mins; October 31, 2025

Episode 565: As little as possible (why men need to do the bare minimum)

11 mins; October 27, 2025

Episode 564: Garden tools (how to capture male attention)

10 mins; October 24, 2025

Episode 563: The prison planet (the nature of existence)

10 mins; October 20, 2025

Episode 562: Bait your hook (how will you be used?)

10 mins; October 17, 2025

Episode 561: The spark (dating for feels)

9 mins; October 13, 2025

Episode 560: Dread (understanding evil)

10 mins; October 10, 2025

Episode 559: She can cry (how to deal with an emotional woman)

12 mins; October 06, 2025

Episode 558: You are a parking space (how to suffer less)

11 mins; October 03, 2025

Episode 557: The look (speak with your eyes)

10 mins; September 29, 2025

Episode 556: The art of surrender (how to let go)

8 mins; September 26, 2025

Episode 555: AI relationships (the future of dating)

11 mins; September 22, 2025

Episode 554: Becoming a real woman (the Scarlett effect)

8 mins; September 19, 2025

Episode 553: The price of safety (the man or the bear)

11 mins; September 15, 2025

Episode 552: Don't chase (the power of attractiveness)

10 mins; September 12, 2025

Episode 551: Why women get ghosted (they're not worth it)

12 mins; September 08, 2025

Episode 550: Ask her out (the two bridges)

9 mins; September 05, 2025

Episode 549: No one-night stands (how not to find your husband)

9 mins; September 01, 2025

Episode 548: Don't waste her time (how women set themselves up to fail)

10 mins; August 29, 2025

Episode 547: The core of respect (approaching the O word)

12 mins; August 25, 2025

Episode 546: Getting vs. keeping (emotional labor in dating)

10 mins; August 22, 2025

Episode 545: Don't be her option (why you get left on read)

12 mins; August 18, 2025

Episode 544: Go f**k myself (how to accelerate your growth)

9 mins; August 15, 2025

Episode 543: Why men lose interest in sex: Love (where men love they do not desire)

11 mins; August 11, 2025

Episode 542: The magic ring (marriage isn't the answer)

10 mins; August 08, 2025

Episode 541: Why men lose interest in sex: Habituation (the allure of the new)

14 mins; August 04, 2025

Episode 540: Spilling the tea (why men will walk away)

15 mins; August 01, 2025

Episode 539: Pet or partner? (you can't have it both ways)

12 mins; July 28, 2025

Episode 538: Sex is about power (the fantasy of most men)

8 mins; July 25, 2025

Episode 537: All men are incels (the bitter truth)

11 mins; July 21, 2025

Episode 536: Everything is about sex (the true power of male desire)

8 mins; July 18, 2025

Episode 535: Why men lose interest in sex: Familiarity (why closeness kills attraction)

9 mins; July 14, 2025

Episode 534: Her only competition (why men end up in bad relationships)

9 mins; July 11, 2025

Episode 533: Male cheating and female cheating (what makes them different)

10 mins; July 07, 2025

Episode 532: Estranged fathers (dealing with parental alienation)

10 mins; July 04, 2025

Episode 531: How I know what women want (their feelings don't matter)

12 mins; June 30, 2025

Episode 530: All I want... (the problem with dating today)

10 mins; June 27, 2025

Episode 529: Stop short or go long (the two paths to a relationship)

14 mins; June 23, 2025

Episode 528: No one is coming to save you (you are the one you are waiting for)

11 mins; June 20, 2025

Episode 527: The irresponsible man (the case against unmarried men)

10 mins; June 16, 2025

Episode 526: I did (why women are mean to men who like them)

12 mins; June 13, 2025

Episode 525: Delusional women (understanding female entitlement)

12 mins; June 09, 2025

Episode 524: Some men need marriage (be all that you can be)

13 mins; June 06, 2025

Episode 523: The plow horse (how marriage uses men)

11 mins; June 02, 2025

Episode 522: The problem of now (the dirty garage)

11 mins; May 30, 2025

Episode 521: The disposable man (all lives are not worth the same)

17 mins; May 26, 2025

Episode 520: An ideal marriage (why certain relationships go the distance)

11 mins; May 23, 2025

Episode 519: Rise of the beta (why men today are so feminine)

17 mins; May 19, 2025

Episode 518: Know when to shut up (learn how to take the money)

14 mins; May 16, 2025

Episode 517: What women want (the answer to the question)

15 mins; May 12, 2025

Episode 516: Her narcissistic ex (why this is a red flag)

14 mins; May 05, 2025

Episode 515: The appreciation gap (how to stop men from cheating)

16 mins; April 28, 2025

Episode 514: How to meet women (the four pathways)

17 mins; April 21, 2025

Episode 513: The beginning of the end (how men lose power in relationships)

15 mins; April 14, 2025

Episode 512: Who speaks for men? (the disappearance of male space)

12 mins; April 07, 2025

Episode 511: Attachment can change (overcoming relational insecurity)

13 mins; March 31, 2025

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