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PsycHacks provides listeners with a brief, thought-provoking episode several days a week on a variety of psychological topics, inspired by my clinical practice. The intention is for the core idea contained within each episode to inspire listeners to see something about themselves or their world in a slightly different light.

Episode 510: Not everyone can be happy (your thoughts create your reality)

11 mins; March 24, 2025

Episode 509: Staying for the kids (responding to the arguments)

12 mins; March 17, 2025

Episode 508: Men need friends (the loneliness problem)

12 mins; March 10, 2025

Episode 507: The Easter egg hunt (how women get men to lose)

12 mins; March 03, 2025

Episode 506: Winning to lose (what do you hope to gain?)

10 mins; February 24, 2025

Episode 505: Creating a monster (how men ruin their relationships)

12 mins; February 17, 2025

Episode 504: Tests are opportunities (the way of Hercules)

10 mins; February 10, 2025

Episode 503: When women hedge (the bet determines the payout)

11 mins; February 03, 2025

Episode 502: The truth about mental illness (how to live with it)

10 mins; January 27, 2025

Episode 501: Your money's no good here (you cannot buy a relationship long-term)

10 mins; January 24, 2025

Episode 500: Men don't want a challenge (his life is hard enough)

11 mins; January 20, 2025

Episode 499: Women don't close (what you want doesn't matter)

11 mins; January 17, 2025

Episode 498: The two paths (how people learn)

11 mins; January 13, 2025

Episode 497: Put her to work (women want to care for you)

12 mins; January 10, 2025

Episode 496: Where the battle is won (the ten second conflict)

10 mins; January 06, 2025

Episode 495: The truth about good relationships (tea over rice)

10 mins; January 03, 2025

Episode 494: You are two men (how to accelerate your development)

10 mins; December 30, 2024

Episode 493: Wrestling with the angel (you have to fight for your life)

11 mins; December 27, 2024

Episode 492: How to be a better person (the unexpected driver of kindness)

10 mins; December 23, 2024

Episode 491: A feast of crumbs (how men get used)

12 mins; December 20, 2024

Episode 490: You never lose someone all at once (why it takes men so long to get over it)

10 mins; December 16, 2024

Episode 489: You can't get there the same way twice (success is a moving castle)

11 mins; December 13, 2024

Episode 488: Mother love vs. father love (understanding their strengths and liabilities)

10 mins; December 09, 2024

Episode 487: Test her (how to screen women)

15 mins; December 06, 2024

Episode 486: The beam in your own (you're not working hard enough)

8 mins; December 02, 2024

Episode 485: The two relationships (marriage does not get you love)

11 mins; November 29, 2024

Episode 484: The most effective marriage intervention (get out of the house)

9 mins; November 25, 2024

Episode 483: Holders and sniffers (which one are you?)

11 mins; November 22, 2024

Episode 482: There is no need to understand (the problem is the problem)

10 mins; November 18, 2024

Episode 481: All women play blackjack (know when to hold 'em)

9 mins; November 15, 2024

Episode 480: How to marry a rich, attractive man (how to capture the king)

14 mins; November 11, 2024

Episode 479: Understanding men (rich, attractive, or loyal)

11 mins; November 08, 2024

Episode 478: Play is the essence of game (how to effectively seduce anyone)

11 mins; November 04, 2024

Episode 477: Men's romantic fantasy (why men get married)

9 mins; November 01, 2024

Episode 476: The three phases of relationships (success's reward is more work)

11 mins; October 28, 2024

Episode 475: Make her work for it (don't just hand it over)

9 mins; October 25, 2024

Episode 474: Some problems are their best solutions (don't make things worse)

9 mins; October 21, 2024

Episode 473: Why beautiful women are nuts (a co-created problem)

10 mins; October 18, 2024

Episode 472: Why successful men are jerks (no one wants to do the laundry)

9 mins; October 14, 2024

Episode 471: The lens of attraction (why you can't do anything right)

9 mins; October 11, 2024

Episode 470: Being right doesn't matter (winning the battle to lose the war)

9 mins; October 07, 2024

Episode 469: Sexless marriage (a breach of contract)

9 mins; October 04, 2024

Episode 468: A PhD in men (how to get what you want from a man)

10 mins; September 30, 2024

Episode 467: The coin of the realm (give people what they want)

13 mins; September 27, 2024

Episode 466: A horse in the rain (how to pass through suffering)

9 mins; September 23, 2024

Episode 465: The cherry on top (women are luxury goods)

10 mins; September 20, 2024

Episode 464: Dating off the beaten path (what to do if you are unconventional)

8 mins; September 16, 2024

Episode 463: The privilege of losing (paying the cost of winning)

9 mins; September 13, 2024

Episode 462: Dating after 50 (challenges and opportunities)

10 mins; September 09, 2024

Episode 461: Write your own invitation (how to make friends as an adult man)

9 mins; September 06, 2024

Episode 460: Don't fight to keep people (you lose when you win)

9 mins; September 02, 2024

Episode 459: Saying the quiet part loud (emperors must wear clothes)

14 mins; August 30, 2024

Episode 458: Why dating advice is terrible (half right is all wrong)

10 mins; August 26, 2024

Episode 457: How to lead your woman (lessons from the front)

10 mins; August 23, 2024

Episode 456: Why people can't find love (understanding what you're searching for)

9 mins; August 19, 2024

Episode 455: How to date without going crazy (walking the razor's edge)

8 mins; August 16, 2024

Episode 454: You always break your own heart (the death of a dream)

10 mins; August 12, 2024

Episode 453: Making women feel right is a business (telling people what they want to hear pays well)

9 mins; August 09, 2024

Episode 452: The old man at the club (how to deal with aging out)

9 mins; August 05, 2024

Episode 451: The secret of a successful relationship (get your needs met elsewhere)

11 mins; August 02, 2024

Episode 450: How men get suckered into fighting with women (why shouldn't you have to deal with it?)

11 mins; July 29, 2024

Episode 449: Why buy the cow? (how to give good milk)

10 mins; July 26, 2024

Episode 448: The problem with self-respect (most hills are not worth dying on)

10 mins; July 22, 2024

Episode 447: Why dating apps are making it harder to date (the perception of supply and demand)

11 mins; July 19, 2024

Episode 446: Choosing between two women (it is not always an either/or)

8 mins; July 15, 2024

Episode 445: You get what you pay for (the higher the prices, the better the service)

15 mins; July 12, 2024

Episode 444: The $50,000 beer (why dating is so expensive for successful men)

17 mins; July 08, 2024

Episode 443: Why successful men use escort (what the rich and the beautiful have in common)

10 mins; July 05, 2024

Episode 442: Women are a roll of the dice (the fundamental rule of gambling)

11 mins; July 01, 2024

Episode 441: The standoff between men and women (how to sell a burning house)

14 mins; June 28, 2024

Episode 440: Never meet halfway (understanding what a date is)

11 mins; June 24, 2024

Episode 439: Women have to allow themselves to be used (be used or be ornamental)

13 mins; June 21, 2024

Episode 438: Mission accomplished (my commitment has been fulfilled)

12 mins; June 17, 2024

Episode 437: In a good relationship, the transaction is invisible (no one notices when it's working)

10 mins; June 14, 2024

Episode 436: Many women are construction workers (it's a young person's job)

10 mins; June 10, 2024

Episode 435: Romance is a game of hide-and-seek (remembering that you're already whole)

10 mins; June 07, 2024

Episode 434: How to deal with perfectionism (exposing its inner workings)

11 mins; June 03, 2024

Episode 433: How women make it difficult to love them (make it easy to get what you want)

10 mins; May 31, 2024

Episode 432: Strike when the iron is cold (the importance of waiting for your moment)

10 mins; May 27, 2024

Episode 431: Never punish people for doing what you want (the power of shaping)

10 mins; May 24, 2024

Episode 430: Every woman is two women (exploring the wild west)

10 mins; May 20, 2024

Episode 429: Being famous is like being a woman (musings on a haircut)

11 mins; May 17, 2024

Episode 428: The court does not deal in trifles (most things aren't worth your time)

11 mins; May 13, 2024

Episode 427: How to drop a handkerchief (women initiate relationships)

10 mins; May 10, 2024

Episode 426: The business of suffering (every solution needs a problem)

15 mins; May 06, 2024

Episode 425: The source of the problem (what people fail to understand about mental illness)

13 mins; May 03, 2024

Episode 424: The gift of nothingness (seeing the everyday miracle)

9 mins; April 29, 2024

Episode 423: Limitations make you better (figure out your batman rules)

12 mins; April 26, 2024

Episode 422: The trap of understanding (considerations are concessions)

10 mins; April 22, 2024

Episode 421: Why men get married (it's not about you)

12 mins; April 19, 2024

Episode 420: Women over 30 (the game isn't over yet)

12 mins; April 15, 2024

Episode 419: The marriage ultimatum (it's not personal, just business)

11 mins; April 12, 2024

Episode 418: How to not be part of the problem (your anger isn't helping)

9 mins; April 08, 2024

Episode 417: You don't need money to get women (the three things that work)

8 mins; April 05, 2024

Episode 416: Responding to my female critics (the importance of intentional sexuality)

11 mins; April 01, 2024

Episode 415: How to be confident without success (be your own prophet)

10 mins; March 29, 2024

Episode 414: Women do the right things with the wrong men (the good times-to-hassle ratio)

10 mins; March 25, 2024

Episode 413: Men do the right things with the wrong women (the importance of a system)

10 mins; March 22, 2024

Episode 412: The price of living your own life (lack of understanding is a test of your character)

9 mins; March 18, 2024

Episode 411: Why some people get so upset with my content (responding to haters)

12 mins; March 15, 2024

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