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PsycHacks provides listeners with a brief, thought-provoking episode several days a week on a variety of psychological topics, inspired by my clinical practice. The intention is for the core idea contained within each episode to inspire listeners to see something about themselves or their world in a slightly different light.

Episode 410: How to handle relationship jealousy (act like the king that you are)

9 mins; March 11, 2024

Episode 409: What people fail to understand about depression (your life could be better)

9 mins; March 08, 2024

Episode 408: How to keep a woman (the past is prologue)

8 mins; March 04, 2024

Episode 407: How to keep your cool with women (the sandwich strategy)

12 mins; March 01, 2024

Episode 406: Body count and sexual jealousy (moving beyond the number)

13 mins; February 26, 2024

Episode 405: How to save your mind (learn what no one teaches you)

10 mins; February 23, 2024

Episode 404: What to do if you're bored in a relationship (the sure-fire trick that always works)

9 mins; February 19, 2024

Episode 403: Virtue only makes you good (but it is still worth cultivating)

9 mins; February 16, 2024

Deep Dive 008: Dr. Robert Glover (authenticity, attraction, and nice guy syndrome)

75 hours 19 mins; February 14, 2024

Episode 402: Politics and sexual withholding (why it doesn't work)

8 mins; February 12, 2024

Episode 401: Listen to yourself (you likely already know the answer)

8 mins; February 09, 2024

Episode 400: Why men make more than women (understanding the gender pay gap)

10 mins; February 05, 2024

Episode 399: What should I do with my life? (why you can't think it out)

10 mins; February 02, 2024

Episode 398: How women train men to be angry (don’t reward what you don’t want)

9 mins; January 29, 2024

Episode 397: How women disrespect men without realizing it (bursting the bubble)

9 mins; January 26, 2024

Episode 396: How women disrespect men without realizing it (understanding power)

11 mins; January 22, 2024

Episode 395: Hire slow, fire fast (understanding the selection process)

9 mins; January 19, 2024

Deep Dive 007: Shawn T. Smith

94 hours 6 mins; January 17, 2024

Episode 394: The servant takes the money (the double-edge of hypergamy)

9 mins; January 15, 2024

Episode 393: Overpaying is the cost of winning (why getting what you want is disappointing)

10 mins; January 12, 2024

Episode 392: Women’s greatest enemy (overcoming pride)

11 mins; January 08, 2024

Episode 391: How to resist becoming emotionally attached (get a poker face)

10 mins; January 05, 2024

Episode 390: Men’s greatest enemy (moving past the fear)

10 mins; January 01, 2024

Episode 389: Fear is the basis of respect (people must hear you hiss)

8 mins; December 29, 2023

Episode 388: How to never fight with a woman (the greatest victory requires no battle)

12 mins; December 25, 2023

Episode 387: Couples therapy (almost) never works (you are not the client)

9 mins; December 22, 2023

Episode 386: Men’s dating double-bind (how to flip the script)

9 mins; December 18, 2023

Episode 385: The trap of the high-value woman (every restaurant serves water)

10 mins; December 15, 2023

Episode 384: It gets worse before it gets better (understanding why change is so difficult)

11 mins; December 11, 2023

Episode 383: Understanding emotional detachment (the key to resilience)

11 mins; December 08, 2023

Episode 382: How to bring sex back into a relationship (why your woman pulls away)

10 mins; December 04, 2023

Episode 381: The key to understanding people (the carrot and the stick)

8 mins; December 01, 2023

Episode 380: How to get any man you want (The unbreakable rule)

13 mins; November 27, 2023

Episode 379: Why women pick fights (anger is reassuring)

8 mins; November 24, 2023

Episode 378: Why men have midlife crises (you have to practice being selfish)

10 mins; November 20, 2023

Episode 377: You’re only as good as your routines (structure is more important than you think)

7 mins; November 17, 2023

Episode 376: ”I don’t play games” (understanding what this really means)

9 mins; November 13, 2023

Episode 375: Passport bros and international dating (approaching the movement from a fresh perspective)

10 mins; November 10, 2023

Episode 374: How to get any man you want (The hook)

15 mins; November 06, 2023

Episode 373: The best that life can offer (orienting toward your highest purpose)

9 mins; November 03, 2023

Episode 372: How to get any man you want (The master key)

18 mins; October 30, 2023

Episode 371: Women need game too (understanding how women get commitment)

13 mins; October 27, 2023

Episode 370: Frame cannot be shared (a ship can only have one captain)

9 mins; October 23, 2023

Episode 369: Emotions are never irrational (feelings are not always justified)

10 mins; October 20, 2023

Episode 368: Understanding frame (are you living in her world, or is she living in yours?)

11 mins; October 16, 2023

Episode 367: Understanding the symptom pool (how the world goes mad)

12 mins; October 13, 2023

Episode 366: You have to teach people how to feel about you (the vacuum cleaner salesman)

9 mins; October 09, 2023

Episode 365: May all beings be free of suffering (addressing the source of the problem)

8 mins; October 06, 2023

Episode 364: ”I have plenty of time” (understanding female timelines)

10 mins; October 02, 2023

Episode 363: Why I do what I do (if no one else is doing the job, you’re elected)

8 mins; September 29, 2023

Episode 362: Love like the sun (moving beyond the exchange of value)

10 mins; September 25, 2023

Episode 361: Overcoming impostor syndrome (understanding why it doesn’t make sense)

8 mins; September 22, 2023

Episode 360: How to be wise (accepting the gift that nobody wants)

10 mins; September 18, 2023

Episode 359: How to deal with haters

10 mins; September 15, 2023

Episode 358: Women and acceptable loss

8 mins; September 11, 2023

Episode 357: Only founders get equity

9 mins; September 08, 2023

Episode 356: Men and women don’t need each other anymore

9 mins; September 04, 2023

Episode 355: The biological clock doesn’t exist

8 mins; September 01, 2023

Episode 354: The way it all ends (Part 2)

9 mins; August 28, 2023

Episode 354: The way it all ends (Part 1)

10 mins; August 28, 2023

Episode 353: The most dangerous thing for a relationship

11 mins; August 18, 2023

Deep Dive 006: Alex Leon

67 hours 58 mins; August 16, 2023

Episode 352: How men mess up new relationships

9 mins; August 14, 2023

Episode 351: How to make friends as an adult

8 mins; August 11, 2023

Episode 350: Most men are romantics

8 mins; August 07, 2023

Episode 349: How to create more meaning in your life

8 mins; August 04, 2023

Episode 348: Why men end up with train wrecks

10 mins; July 31, 2023

Episode 347: How to overcome approach anxiety

8 mins; July 28, 2023

Deep Dive 005: Ken Curry

77 hours 26 mins; July 26, 2023

Episode 346: Why marriage kills sex

9 mins; July 24, 2023

Episode 345: Why men pay on the first date

8 mins; July 21, 2023

Episode 344: Dating is an extended hiring process

10 mins; July 17, 2023

Episode 343: Can people change?

17 mins; July 14, 2023

Episode 342: Why men are afraid to approach women

10 mins; July 10, 2023

Episode 341: All men pay

9 mins; July 07, 2023

Episode 340: Most people don’t want relationships

9 mins; July 03, 2023

Deep Dive 004: Chris Harrison

73 hours 7 mins; July 02, 2023

Episode 339: Get used to disappointing women

9 mins; June 30, 2023

Episode 338: Most men blow the first date

9 mins; June 26, 2023

Episode 337: Reflections on 100,000 subscribers

12 mins; June 23, 2023

Episode 336: Why most marriages fail

10 mins; June 20, 2023

Episode 335: The limitations of science

9 mins; June 17, 2023

Deep Dive 003: Rob Ager

79 hours 1 min; June 16, 2023

Episode 334: What men don’t understand about female selection

11 mins; June 14, 2023

Episode 333: How to love yourself

10 mins; June 11, 2023

Deep Dive 002: Chazz Ellis

79 hours 12 mins; June 09, 2023

Episode 332: How to be a man

8 mins; June 08, 2023

Episode 331: Why women monkey branch

11 mins; June 05, 2023

Episode 330: Why time seems to move faster as you age

9 mins; June 02, 2023

Episode 329: Where do players come from?

9 mins; May 30, 2023

Episode 328: ”I don’t want to waste my time”

8 mins; May 27, 2023

Episode 327: The game does not run on gratitude

9 mins; May 24, 2023

Episode 326: What men and women have to do in order to love

9 mins; May 21, 2023

Episode 325: Making men angry at women is a business

9 mins; May 18, 2023

Episode 324: Men and women: How did we end up here?

18 mins; May 15, 2023

Episode 323: How to have a fulfilling life

7 mins; May 12, 2023

Episode 322: Most men are wallpaper

10 mins; May 09, 2023

Episode 321: The difference between masculine and feminine communication

8 mins; May 06, 2023

Episode 320: Love has nothing to do with relationships

11 mins; May 03, 2023

Episode 319: What evolutionary psychology gets wrong

9 mins; April 30, 2023

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