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The Non-Anxious Leader Podcast

The Non-Anxious Leader Podcast uses a family systems theory approach to increase your spiritual, emotional and physical well-being so you can be the best leader possible. Each episode explores research and practical tips to help you be a personal and professional non-anxious presence.

Episode 276: 10 Steps to Effectively Deal with Resistance (Part 1 of 2)

12 mins; April 29, 2024

Episode 275: A Family Systems Take on Daniel Goleman's 6 Leadership Styles

13 mins; April 22, 2024

Episode 274: 4 Things You Can Do to Be a Non-Anxious Presence this Election Year

12 mins; April 15, 2024

Episode 273: 5 Reasons You Have Trouble Setting Boundaries

10 mins; April 08, 2024

Episode 272: 6 Things You Need to Do to Be a Non-Anxious Leader (Rebroadcast)

11 mins; April 01, 2024

Episode 271: 6 Ways to Avoid Choking in Anxious Situations

11 mins; March 25, 2024

Episode 270: The Problem with Diagnosis (and How to Avoid It)

10 mins; March 18, 2024

Episode 269: 5 Ways to Stop People Pleasing

10 mins; March 11, 2024

Episode 268: How Self-Differentiation Breeds Self-Confidence (rebroadcast)

13 mins; March 04, 2024

Episode 267: Non-Anxious Leaders Don't Complain (and 5 ways to stop)

7 mins; February 26, 2024

Episode 266: 4 Ways to Be a Better Parent (and Leader)

13 mins; February 19, 2024

Episode 265: A Family Systems Take on The Five Dysfunctions of a Team

15 mins; February 12, 2024

Episode 264: 3 Ways Avoidance Increases Anxiety and 3 Things You Can Do About It

12 mins; February 05, 2024

Episode 263: The Spotlight Effect and Taking Responsibility for Self

13 mins; January 29, 2024

Episode 262: How Can Someone Who Is Trying to Help Be So Annoying?

13 mins; January 22, 2024

Episode 261: What Exactly IS a Failure of Nerve - Part 2 of 2

14 mins; January 15, 2024

Episode 260: What Exactly IS a Failure of Nerve - Part 1 of 2

14 mins; January 08, 2024

Episode 259: 5 Tips to Start Your New Year Well

11 mins; January 01, 2024

Episode 258: Overfunctioning, Underfunctioning and Healthy Emotional Space

12 mins; December 18, 2023

Episode 257: 5 Ways Non-Anxious Leaders Facilitate Healthy Organizational Culture

18 mins; December 11, 2023

Episode 256: Good Guilt, Bad Guilt and Self-Differentiation

9 mins; December 04, 2023

Episode 255: The Long-Term Cost of Surrounding Togetherness Pressure (and What You Can Do about It) - (Rebroadcast)

13 mins; November 27, 2023

Episode 254: How to Stand Up for Yourself during the Holidays (or Anytime) - (Rebroadcast)

13 mins; November 20, 2023

Episode 253: Unpacking the Responsibility Triangle

15 mins; November 13, 2023

Episode 252: How Understanding Symmetry Helps You Manage System Anxiety

14 mins; November 06, 2023

Episode 251: Non-Anxious Leaders Encourage Healthy Disagreement

10 mins; October 30, 2023

Episode 250: 3 Simple Steps to Repair a Reactive (or Adaptive) Response

11 mins; October 23, 2023

Episode 249: Non-Anxious Leaders Manage Their Own Anxiety without Involving Others

11 mins; October 16, 2023

Episode 248: How to Use Surrounding Togetherness Pressure in Healthy Ways (Rebroadcast)

15 mins; October 09, 2023

Episode 247: Five Science Insights that Show Why Leadership through Self-Differentiation Works (Rebroadcast)

13 mins; October 02, 2023

Episode 246: Non-Anxious Leaders Understand They Are Not in Control

9 mins; September 25, 2023

Episode 245: 5 Ways to Assess the Health of Any Relationship System - Part 2 of 2

13 mins; September 18, 2023

Episode 244: 5 Ways to Assess the Health of Any Relationship System - Part 1 of 2

12 mins; September 11, 2023

Episode 243: 5 Phrases that Hold You Back as a Non-Anxious Leader (and How to Change Them)

10 mins; September 04, 2023

Episode 242: Self-Differentiation Is NOT Independence

13 mins; August 28, 2023

Episode 241: The Give and Take of Self-Differentiation

15 mins; August 21, 2023

Episode 240: Non-Anxious Leaders Encourage Challenge Not Comfort

12 mins; August 14, 2023

Episode 239: 5 Ways that Mindfulness Helps You to Be a Non-Anxious Presence

13 mins; August 07, 2023

Episode 238: Five Steps to Deeper Emotional Connection (Rebroadcast)

13 mins; July 31, 2023

Episode 237: A Family Systems Take on Procrastination

11 mins; July 24, 2023

Episode 236: What Is a Boundary and Why Does It Matter?

12 mins; July 17, 2023

Episode 235: 3 Steps to Taking Responsibility for Self When Others Refuse to Do the Same

10 mins; July 10, 2023

Episode 234: Non-Anxious Leaders Embrace Discomfort

11 mins; July 03, 2023

Episode 233: Self-Differentiation Is Defining Self, Not Others

11 mins; June 26, 2023

Episode 232: Self-Differentiation Builds Self-Trust and Confidence

13 mins; June 19, 2023

Episode 231: A COVID Family Reunion Redux - A Case Study

14 mins; June 12, 2023

Episode 230: How to Say "No" as a Non-Anxious Presence

12 mins; June 05, 2023

Episode 229: How to Create and Maintain Healthy Emotional Space

16 mins; May 29, 2023

Episode 228: 4 Steps to Creating a Non-Anxious Culture

13 mins; May 22, 2023

Episode 227: A Family Systems Model of Burnout – Part 2 of 2 (Rebroadcast)

10 mins; May 15, 2023

Episode 226: A Family Systems Model of Burnout – Part 1 of 2 (Rebroadcast)

15 mins; May 08, 2023

Episode 225: Non-Anxious Leaders Aren't Afraid to Say No

12 mins; May 01, 2023

Episode 224: How to Rework a Difficult Relationship

13 mins; April 24, 2023

Episode 223: 5 Things That Help You to Be a Non-Anxious Presence

12 mins; April 17, 2023

Episode 222: How to Focus on Emotional Process (and Not Content)

12 mins; April 10, 2023

Episode 221: This Is How Self-Differentiation Makes You a Trustworthy Leader

11 mins; April 03, 2023

Episode 220: Taking Responsibility for Self Can Increase Resilience

11 mins; March 27, 2023

Episode 219: 3 Things You Need to Know to Lead in a Hostile Environment

14 mins; March 20, 2023

Episode 218: Self-Differentiated Leaders Set Healthy Boundaries

11 mins; March 13, 2023

Episode 217: What’s Going on in The United Methodist Church? – Part 3 of 3

12 mins; March 06, 2023

Podcast Episode 216: What’s Going on in The United Methodist Church? – Part 2 of 3

12 mins; February 27, 2023

Episode 215: What's Going on in The United Methodist Church? - Part 1 of 3

26 mins; February 20, 2023

Episode 214: Toxic Positivity Is NOT Self-Differentiation

11 mins; February 13, 2023

Episode 213: Why a Quick Fix Is No Answer

13 mins; February 06, 2023

Episode 212: What to Do When You Can't Be Yourself

13 mins; January 30, 2023

Episode 211: Level 5 Leaders and Self-Differentiation

14 mins; January 23, 2023

Episode 210: A Family Systems Take on Emotional Labor

12 mins; January 16, 2023

Episode 209: How to Remain Cool Under Pressure

16 mins; January 09, 2023

Episode 208: 4 Steps to Manage Reactive People

13 mins; January 02, 2023

Episode 207: How to Make Your Habits Work for You (Rebroadcast)

18 mins; December 26, 2022

Episode 206: How to Be a Non-Anxious Presence

15 mins; December 19, 2022

Episode 205: How Self-Differentiation Breeds Confidence

12 mins; December 12, 2022

Episode 204: How to Manage the Negative Emotions of Others (rebroadcast)

18 mins; December 05, 2022

Episode 203: 8 Signs That You Are Not Self-Differentiating

18 mins; November 28, 2022

Episode 202: Four Types of Triangles and How to Manage Them

13 mins; November 21, 2022

Episode 201: Four Leadership Tips from Edwin Friedman (plus Where to Find Family Systems Training)

13 mins; November 14, 2022

Episode 200: Here's What Too Much Togetherness Looks Like (and What You Can Do about It)

15 mins; November 07, 2022

Episode 199: Three Ways Non-Anxious Leaders Respond to Political Division

11 mins; October 31, 2022

Episode 198: Leadership through Self-Differentiation (Part 4 of 4) - Self-Regulation and Integrity in the Moment of Choice

13 mins; October 24, 2022

Episode 197: Leadership through Self-Differentiation (Part 3 of 4) - The Problem with Seriousness and Reactivity

16 mins; October 17, 2022

Episode 196: Leadership through Self-Differentiation (Part 2 of 4) - Emotional Process

17 mins; October 10, 2022

Episode 195: Leadership through Self-Differentiation (Part 1 of 4) - Triangles

15 mins; October 03, 2022

Episode 194: Self-Differentiation Requires Emotional Courage

12 mins; September 26, 2022

Episode 193: How to Make Your Anxiety Work for You

8 mins; September 19, 2022

Episode 192: 6 Things You Need to Do to Be a Non-Anxious Leader

11 mins; September 12, 2022

Episode 191: 8 Questions to Help You through Challenging Situations

14 mins; September 05, 2022

Episode 190: Two Levels of Self-Differentiation

10 mins; August 29, 2022

Episode 189: Storytime - Put Your Own Oxygen Mask on First

14 mins; August 22, 2022

Episode 188: Five Ways Self-Differentiation Builds Resilience

10 mins; August 15, 2022

Episode 187: Self-Differentiation Is Self-Giving

13 mins; August 08, 2022

Episode 186: Why Saying What You Believe Matters

12 mins; August 01, 2022

Episode 185: One Reason Leaders (Especially Pastors) Burnout

10 mins; July 25, 2022

Episode 184: Three Ways to Take Responsibility for Self

11 mins; July 18, 2022

Episode 183: A COVID Family Reunion - A Case Study

17 mins; July 11, 2022

Episode 182: A Family Systems Take on Non-Violent (or Compassionate) Communication – Part 2

16 mins; July 04, 2022

Episode 181: A Family Systems Take on Non-Violent (or Compassionate) Communication – Part 1 (rebroadcast)

15 mins; June 27, 2022

Episode 180: Self-Differentiation and Integrity in the Workplace

11 mins; June 20, 2022

Episode 179: Three Ways to Create Emotional Space

9 mins; June 13, 2022

Episode 178: Stop Trying to Change Others - Do This Instead

11 mins; June 06, 2022

Episode 177: The Connection between Wisdom and Self-Differentiation

11 mins; May 30, 2022

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