The Non-Anxious Leader Podcast
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Episode 176: These Phrases Will Help You Avoid a Conflict of Wills
8 mins; May 23, 2022
Episode 175: How to Use Surrounding Togetherness Pressure in Healthy Ways
14 mins; May 16, 2022
Episode 174: Self-Differentiated Leaders Know How to Ask for Help
13 mins; May 09, 2022
Episode 173: Five Science Insights that Show Why Leadership through Self-Differentiation Works
13 mins; May 02, 2022
Episode 172: Six Ways to Manage Anxiety (rebroadcast)
18 mins; April 25, 2022
Episode 171: Change, Fear, Uncertainty and Hope-An Easter Message (rebroadcast)
15 mins; April 18, 2022
Episode 170: Mirror Neurons and the Non-Anxious Presence
8 mins; April 11, 2022
Episode 169: The Leverage of the Dependent
12 mins; April 04, 2022
Episode 168: Self-Compassion is Essential to Self-Differentiation
12 mins; March 28, 2022
Episode 167: Interlocking Triangles - A Case Study
16 mins; March 21, 2022
Episode 166: Paradox and Playfulness - A Case Study
18 mins; March 14, 2022
Episode 165: A Family Systems Take on Burnout
15 mins; March 07, 2022
Episode 164: Balancing the Tension between Desire and Fear
15 mins; February 28, 2022
Episode 163: Attachment - The Pros and Cons of Emotional Connection
18 mins; February 21, 2022
Episode 162: Non-Anxious Leaders Nurture Disciples, Not Clones
11 mins; February 14, 2022
Episode 161: Five Steps to Leading with Compassion
11 mins; February 07, 2022
Episode 160: Four Steps to Using Emotional Intelligence to Self-Differentiate
12 mins; January 31, 2022
Episode 159: Edwin Friedman's 11 Tensions in Leadership
18 mins; January 24, 2022
Episode 158: The Long-Term Cost of Surrounding Togetherness Pressure (and What You Can Do about It)
12 mins; January 17, 2022
Episode 157: Your Brain on Anxiety
12 mins; January 10, 2022
Episode 156: How to Break the Cycle of Chronic Emotional Patterns
14 mins; January 03, 2022
Episode 155: Understanding Chronic Emotional Patterns
11 mins; December 27, 2021
Episode 154: How to Stand Up for Yourself during the Holidays (or Anytime)
15 mins; December 20, 2021
Episode 153: Managing Family Estrangements during the Holidays
11 mins; December 13, 2021
Episode 152: How to Deal with Annoying Family Members during the Holidays (or anytime)
12 mins; December 06, 2021
Episode 151: Six Steps to Being an Authentic Leader (rebroadcast)
16 mins; November 29, 2021
Episode 150: Five Steps to Deeper Emotional Connection
13 mins; November 22, 2021
Episode 149: More Tools to Help You Self-Regulate
17 mins; November 15, 2021
Episode 148: The Difference between Narcissism and Self-Differentiation
12 mins; November 08, 2021
Episode 147: How to Be a Better Parent (and Leader)
16 mins; November 01, 2021
Episode 146: The Positive Side of Anxiety (and How to Make It Work for You)
12 mins; October 25, 2021
Episode 145: Family Systems Theory - A Practical Overview
20 mins; October 18, 2021
Episode 144: 7 Ways to Handle a Conflict of Wills
12 mins; October 11, 2021
Episode 143: A Family Systems Model of Burnout - Part 2 of 2
10 mins; October 04, 2021
Episode 142: A Family Systems Model of Burnout - Part 1 of 2
15 mins; September 27, 2021
Episode 141: Society Wants a Scapegoat. Does it Need One?
10 mins; September 20, 2021
Episode 140: Being a Self Is Not Selfishness
16 mins; September 13, 2021
Episode 139: Authenticity and Leadership through Self-Differentiation
17 mins; September 06, 2021
Episode 138: Effective Leaders Understand the Difference Between Emotional Process and Content
18 mins; August 29, 2021
Episode 137: Triangles - What They Are, How They Work and How to Manage Them
14 mins; August 23, 2021
Episode 136: Want to Be Happy? Embrace Challenge as an Opportunity for Growth
13 mins; August 16, 2021
Episode 135: Emotional Cutoff - What It Is and How to Deal with It
15 mins; August 09, 2021
Episode 134: Surrounding Togetherness Pressure - A Personal Story
13 mins; August 02, 2021
Episode 133: Emotions Are Contagious - Here's What You Need to Know
18 mins; July 26, 2021
Episode 132: How to Deal with a Frustrated Person - A Case Study
13 mins; July 19, 2021
Episode 131: What to Do When You Make a Mistake - A Case Study
13 mins; July 12, 2021
Episode 130: Servant Leadership and Self-Differentiation - Part 2 of 2
13 mins; July 05, 2021
Episode 129: Servant Leadership and Self-Differentiation - Part 1 of 2
14 mins; June 28, 2021
Episode 128: How to Grow Stronger Emotionally
12 mins; June 21, 2021
Episode 127: Five Characteristics of Self-Differentiation
15 mins; June 14, 2021
Episode 126: What to Do When Your Congregation's a Hot Mess - A Case Study
19 mins; June 07, 2021
Episode 125: Another Look at Differentiation of Self (Part 2 of 2)
18 mins; May 31, 2021
Episode 124: Another Look at Differentiation of Self (Part 1 of 2)
17 mins; May 24, 2021
Episode 123: How Emotional Intelligence Helps You to Be a Non-Anxious Presence (Part 2 of 2)
17 mins; May 17, 2021
Episode 122: How Emotional Intelligence Helps You to Be a Non-Anxious Presence (Part 1 of 2)
13 mins; May 10, 2021
Episode 121: Storytime - How to Motivate the Unmotivated
18 mins; May 03, 2021
Episode 120: Storytime - Understanding Projection and its Leadership Implications
18 mins; April 26, 2021
Episode 119: Four Automatic Responses to System Anxiety (and How to Deal with Them)
17 mins; April 19, 2021
Episode 118: How to Build Resilience (a Family Systems Take)
18 mins; April 12, 2021
Episode 117: Mindfulness Can Help You Better Self-Regulate
18 mins; April 05, 2021
Episode 116: How to Talk with a Child (or Someone Who Acts Like One)
16 mins; March 29, 2021
Episode 115: Storytime-Recognizing a Conflict of Wills
20 mins; March 22, 2021
Episode 114: Storytime-Put Your Own Oxygen Mask on First
14 mins; March 15, 2021
Episode 113: Storytime-How to Deal with Hypersensitive People
16 mins; March 08, 2021
Episode 112: Storytime-To Avoid Resistance Stay in Your Lane
14 mins; March 01, 2021
Episode 111: Storytime-The Power of the Dependent
16 mins; February 22, 2021
Episode 110: Not All Conflicts Are Equal
12 mins; February 15, 2021
Episode 109: Self-Differentiation Is Not Selfishness
14 mins; February 08, 2021
Episode 108: Five Steps to Better Self-Regulation
16 mins; February 01, 2021
Episode 107: The Power of a Creative Minority
14 mins; January 25, 2021
Episode 106: The Importance of a Loyal Opposition
11 mins; January 18, 2021
Episode 105: Is Society Regressing?
17 mins; January 11, 2021
Episode 104: How to Make Your Habits Work for You
18 mins; January 04, 2021
Episode 103: The Magnet Theory of Emotional Distance
15 mins; December 28, 2020
Episode 102: The Problem with Emotional Intensity
17 mins; December 21, 2020
Episode 101: Family Systems in a Nutshell - A Children's Story
23 mins; December 14, 2020
Episode 100: A Family Systems Take on Non-Violent (or Compassionate) Communication - Part 2
19 mins; December 07, 2020
Episode 99: A Family Systems Take on Non-Violent (or Compassionate) Communication - Part 1
14 mins; November 30, 2020
Episode 98: Non-Anxious Leaders Understand Paradox and Playfulness
14 mins; November 23, 2020
Episode 97: Your Most Important Role as a Leader
14 mins; November 16, 2020
Episode 96: Five Characteristics of Resilience (and How They Help the Non-Anxious Leader)
12 mins; November 09, 2020
Episode 95: The Problem with Moral Convictions
15 mins; November 02, 2020
Episode 94: How Fusion Results in a Herd Mentality
14 mins; October 26, 2020
Episode 93: A Family Systems Perspective on Imposter Syndrome
17 mins; October 19, 2020
Episode 92: You Can Change Your Environment or You Can Change Yourself - A Look at Edwin Friedman's Take on Toxicity and Response
13 mins; October 12, 2020
Episode 91: The Characteristics of an Authentic Leader
16 mins; October 05, 2020
Episode 90: How Self-Awareness and Intentionality Foster Self-Differentiation
20 mins; September 28, 2020
Episode 89: Mimetic Theory and Self-Differentiation - Why Being Yourself Is So Hard
16 mins; September 21, 2020
Episode 88: Goal Direction and Self-Differentiation
20 mins; September 14, 2020
Episode 87: Three Ways Donald Trump's Leadership Style Increases Anxiety in America
11 mins; September 07, 2020
Episode 86: Worry, Stress, Anxiety, Excitement and the Non-Anxious Leader
18 mins; August 31, 2020
Episode 85: Facts, Beliefs and the Non-Anxious Leader
20 mins; August 24, 2020
Episode 84: Edwin Friedman's Tensions in Leadership
18 mins; August 17, 2020
Episode 83: Rites of Passage - A Personal Case Study
19 mins; August 10, 2020
Episode 82: Perspective Is Everything for the Non-Anxious Leader
14 mins; August 03, 2020
Episode 81: Understanding Intergenerational Transmission Can Help You Maintain a Non-Anxious Presence
15 mins; July 27, 2020
Episode 80: A Persistent, Low-Level Anxiety
14 mins; July 20, 2020
Episode 79: Balancing the Tension between Self-Definition and Emotional Connection
12 mins; July 13, 2020
Episode 78: Hamilton, Burr and Self-Differentiation
20 mins; July 06, 2020
Episode 77: Leadership through Self-Differentiation in a Polarized Society-A Case Study
19 mins; June 29, 2020