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U Up?

U Up? is the definitive modern dating podcast presented by Betches co-founder Jordana Abraham and comedian Jared Freid, where they discuss their take on the ebbs and flows of the crazy dating world we live in. From interpreting dating app interactions and weird sexual encounters, to defining the relationship and everything in between - they’re here to make sure you don’t die alone. For more fun dating commentary, polls, and bonus content, follow @u.up.podcast on Instagram. Become a friend (with benefits) of the podcast and subscribe to receive early release and ad-free versions of all our new...

Can I Turn My Friend-To-Lover Back Into A Friend?

67 hours 43 mins; May 07, 2024

Why The “When You Know, You Know” Spark Might Be Missing ft. Matthew Hussey

73 hours 35 mins; May 04, 2024

Could A 'Certified Lover Boy' Ever Commit?

76 hours 51 mins; April 30, 2024

The Situationship Cycle ft. Dulcé Sloan

38 mins; April 27, 2024

Where Does A Digital Affair Fall On The Cheating Scale?

99 hours 6 mins; April 23, 2024

Can I Force A Closure Conversation After A Breakup?

41 mins; April 20, 2024

I Took My Ex Back and He Dumped Me—Again!

98 hours 9 mins; April 16, 2024

Should It Matter That My BF’s Mom Dislikes Me?

35 mins; April 13, 2024

Are Some Women Doomed To Be Alone Forever?

88 hours 36 mins; April 09, 2024

Can You Be Partners In Love And Business? ft. Nick and Elyse Oleksak

43 mins; April 06, 2024

Is It Just Me Or Is The Dating Pool Polluted?

94 hours 6 mins; April 02, 2024

Feng Shui, Dating Intentions, & Jared’s Sh*tty Energy ft. Jeannette Cieszykowski

52 mins; March 30, 2024

What Is The Right Way To Compliment A Man?

91 hours 13 mins; March 26, 2024

Erotic Energy, Rethinking Infidelity, And Psychotherapy ft. Esther Perel

64 hours 1 min; March 23, 2024

The Worst Kind Of Rematch on Hinge

65 hours 42 mins; March 19, 2024

A Message To Cheaters

41 mins; March 16, 2024

AITA For Thinking You’re Full Of Sh*t?

88 hours 1 min; March 12, 2024

SOS: I've Invested Too Much In A Dead-End Situationship To Walk Away

49 mins; March 09, 2024

If It’s Giving Boyfriend, Just Say That

83 hours 29 mins; March 05, 2024

Is Jared Just Like The Bachelor? ft. Joey Graziadei

58 mins; March 02, 2024

When To Walk Away From The Person You’re Dating

82 hours 23 mins; February 27, 2024

How To Break Up Like A Gentleman

29 mins; February 24, 2024

Was This A Red Flag Or Is My Internalized Homophobia Showing?

71 hours 21 mins; February 20, 2024

I Hate My BF’s Therapist

30 mins; February 17, 2024

V-Day, TikTok Backlash, And Where The Single Men Are

98 hours 18 mins; February 13, 2024

Bland DMs: Why You Might Be The Problem

44 mins; February 10, 2024

Get Pookie TikTok Away From Us

74 hours 44 mins; February 06, 2024

Icks Are Ruining Dating ft. Jay Shetty

49 mins; February 03, 2024

Failures Make You A Better Dater

85 hours 0 mins; January 30, 2024

SOS: Does My Ex Want Me Back Or Is She Messing Around?

52 mins; January 27, 2024

What’s Wrong With Settling?

78 hours 31 mins; January 23, 2024

The Hard Truth About Getting “The Ick”

39 mins; January 20, 2024

How Much Does Your Past Impact Your Dating Future?

101 hours 17 mins; January 16, 2024

Beware Of Breakup January

34 mins; January 13, 2024

Are You Dating An Aidan Or A Mr. Big?

80 hours 50 mins; January 09, 2024

How I Got Engaged After 6 Months Of Dating ft. Rosebud Baker

45 mins; January 06, 2024

Did Jared Find Love On His Blind Date?

90 hours 44 mins; January 02, 2024

Rizz, Sober Dates, And Dating In 2024

47 mins; December 30, 2023

It’s The Week Of Nothingness

69 hours 47 mins; December 26, 2023

Toxic Exes, Moms, And Ruining Christmas

36 mins; December 23, 2023

Who Won The Date With Jared?

87 hours 34 mins; December 19, 2023

Rejections Are Good For You

35 mins; December 16, 2023

The Problem With Playing It Cool

99 hours 48 mins; December 12, 2023

Should I Be Cleaning My Boyfriend’s Apartment?

46 mins; December 09, 2023

You Want To Be The Prize, Not The Pick Me

88 hours 31 mins; December 05, 2023

Crystals, Spells, And WTF Is Up With Jared ft. Kelley Knight

62 hours 50 mins; December 02, 2023

Your Words Are Like Spells: Cheating, Standards, and Situationships

76 hours 42 mins; November 28, 2023

The Love Of Your Life Is A Teammate, Not A Goalpost Ft. Vir Das

40 mins; November 25, 2023

‘Tis The Season For Hometown Hookups

81 hours 53 mins; November 21, 2023

SOS: Insecurities Are Cockblocking My Dating Life

30 mins; November 18, 2023

Thanksgiving Prep: Is It Too Early To Invite My SO?

86 hours 53 mins; November 14, 2023

6 Years, 500 Episodes, And More Dating To Solve

57 mins; November 11, 2023

When The Honeymoon Phase Ends, What’s The Next Step?

93 hours 21 mins; November 07, 2023

Jared VS Jorge: Is Jared Really 10% Away From All Men?

55 mins; November 04, 2023

Is Caspering The New Ghosting? (Debating This Year’s Spookiest New Dating Terms)

81 hours 34 mins; October 31, 2023

How Honest Should You Be During A Breakup? Ft. Sam Morril

56 mins; October 28, 2023

Dating Is So Much Easier Now That I’m Married

69 hours 21 mins; October 24, 2023

Dating When You Don’t Want Kids ft. Girls Gotta Eat

45 mins; October 21, 2023

The Problem With Dating Dog People

59 mins; October 17, 2023

It’s Not Your ADHD, You’ve Got Dating App Fatigue

27 mins; October 14, 2023

Bumble’s New Update: Isn't This Just “Love Is Blind”?

76 hours 30 mins; October 10, 2023

37, Single & Gay ft. Emma Willmann

46 mins; October 07, 2023

Why Does My BF Keep Backing Out Of Plans?

69 hours 12 mins; October 03, 2023

My Interracial Relationship Isn’t An Insult ft. Nimesh Patel

46 mins; September 30, 2023

Introducing: Ask Men Anything with Emma Willmann (Ft. Jared Freid)

27 mins; September 28, 2023

Can You Be Old-Fashioned In A Modern Dating World? Ft. The Golden Bachelor

81 hours 32 mins; September 26, 2023

And Just Like That, We’re In A New Season Of Love

39 mins; September 23, 2023

You Can’t Find A Date Because You’re Missing The Point

61 hours 33 mins; September 19, 2023

Surviving Your Family Trip As “The Single One”

29 mins; September 16, 2023

How To Tell If It’s A One-Sided Setup

80 hours 29 mins; September 12, 2023

Nothing Good Comes From Keeping Your Ex Around

33 mins; September 09, 2023

My Boyfriend Doesn’t Want Kids, But He’s A Father

69 hours 45 mins; September 05, 2023

Sometimes, You’ve Got To Take The “L”

31 mins; September 02, 2023

Lightning Round: How Do I Know If They’re “The One”

80 hours 9 mins; August 29, 2023

Does Cheating Once Make You A Cheater For Life?

29 mins; August 26, 2023

Who’s Responsible For Texting After The Date?

70 hours 23 mins; August 22, 2023

My Exes Don’t Exist To Me Ft. Sasheer Zamata

40 mins; August 19, 2023

The Unspoken Rules Of Arguing With Your SO

77 hours 44 mins; August 15, 2023

Should I End My Situationship Before It Gets Serious?

33 mins; August 12, 2023

Does A Small Age Gap Still Make Me A Cougar?

76 hours 58 mins; August 08, 2023

How Petty Are Exes Allowed To Be?

28 mins; August 05, 2023

Can A Relationship Ever Survive A “Break”?

85 hours 26 mins; August 01, 2023

Is It Fair To Ask Your Partner To Subsidize Your Dreams?

37 mins; July 29, 2023

How Do I Get Over A Breakup If Nobody Was The Villain?

91 hours 26 mins; July 25, 2023

Can You Really Be Friends With An Ex? Ft. Robyn Schall

36 mins; July 22, 2023

How Bad Were Jonah Hill's Texts Really?

78 hours 9 mins; July 18, 2023

Some Dishonesties Are More Dangerous Than Others Ft. Dr. Drew

58 mins; July 15, 2023

I’m Single And Happy, But Should I Try Dating Anyway?

67 hours 41 mins; July 11, 2023

Enough With The Beige Flags

27 mins; July 08, 2023

Your Issue Isn’t Your Baggage, It’s How You Address It

68 hours 32 mins; July 04, 2023

You’re Putting Too Much Pressure On The Penis Ft. Dr. Emily Morse

52 mins; July 01, 2023

What’s An Appropriate Age Gap?

80 hours 30 mins; June 27, 2023

Husband Or F*ck Off: What Happened Next?

42 mins; June 24, 2023

How Long Should I Wait For Him To Propose?

69 hours 36 mins; June 20, 2023

You’re Wearing The Wrong First Date Outfit Ft. Liza Lieberman

73 hours 3 mins; June 17, 2023

Announcement: Subscription Update!

2 mins; June 16, 2023

What’s A Socially Acceptable Way To Ghost?

69 hours 1 min; June 13, 2023

Rejection Isn’t Always As Deep As It Feels

29 mins; June 10, 2023

What Are The New “Love Languages?”

86 hours 46 mins; June 06, 2023

What’s The “10-Monther” Timeline?

32 mins; June 03, 2023

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