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U Up?

U Up? is the definitive modern dating podcast presented by Betches co-founder Jordana Abraham and comedian Jared Freid, where they discuss their take on the ebbs and flows of the crazy dating world we live in. From interpreting dating app interactions and weird sexual encounters, to defining the relationship and everything in between - they’re here to make sure you don’t die alone. For more fun dating commentary, polls, and bonus content, follow @u.up.podcast on Instagram. Become a friend (with benefits) of the podcast and subscribe to receive early release and ad-free versions of all our new...

Scandoval And The Audacity Of Men

90 hours 30 mins; May 30, 2023

Heather McMahan’s Guide To Relationships

52 mins; May 27, 2023

How Do I Know If I'm Ready To Date Again?

78 hours 54 mins; May 23, 2023

Is He Self-Sabotaging Or Does He Just Not Like Me?

28 mins; May 20, 2023

Why Can’t I Make It Past A 3rd Date?

97 hours 22 mins; May 16, 2023

Is Lust Worth Risking A Friendship?

33 mins; May 13, 2023

Is Being Exclusive Different Than A Relationship?

88 hours 54 mins; May 09, 2023

Is He That Busy Or Am I A Benchwarmer?

39 mins; May 06, 2023

Getting Your Situationship To The Next Level

74 hours 44 mins; May 02, 2023

Is It Okay To Play Games In Some Dating Scenarios?

38 mins; April 29, 2023

Why Do I Keep Getting Textzoned?

63 hours 44 mins; April 25, 2023

We Matched, We Connected, He Canceled

32 mins; April 22, 2023

Does Your Parents’ Opinion Of Your S.O. Actually Matter?

79 hours 33 mins; April 18, 2023

Behind The Scenes Of A Set Up By Jordana

65 hours 54 mins; April 15, 2023

Am I A Rebound Or Is He Ready To Move On?

64 hours 39 mins; April 11, 2023

How Much Does Your Resume Matter On The Apps? Ft. Jesse Metcalfe

37 mins; April 08, 2023

Am I Insecure Or Is He Being Inappropriate?

73 hours 37 mins; April 04, 2023

The Dating Mistakes Everyone Makes

51 mins; April 01, 2023

Blindsiding Is A Spectrum Ft. Rebel Wilson

91 hours 14 mins; March 28, 2023

SOS: Can We Be Just Friends If We Made Out?

45 mins; March 25, 2023

The Betchelor Crossover: Love Is Blind Eps. 1-2: The Beginning

64 hours 51 mins; March 24, 2023

Am I More Invested In The Relationship Than My BF?

66 hours 1 min; March 21, 2023

Does Swiping Count As Cheating? Ft. Adam Pally

52 mins; March 18, 2023

Why Are Situationship Breakups So Painful?

106 hours 19 mins; March 14, 2023

Why You Should Have A Roster Ft. Violet Benson

56 mins; March 11, 2023

The Problem With #DatingTok

85 hours 45 mins; March 07, 2023

SOS: How To Make First Dates Feel Less Like Interviews

36 mins; March 04, 2023

Breadcrumbing, Cookie-Jarring, & Cobwebbing: Dating In 2023

91 hours 12 mins; February 28, 2023

Is It “Limerence” Or True Love? (Oversharing Sneak Peak)

21 mins; February 27, 2023

So Jared, Why Do Men Say Things They Don’t Mean?

40 mins; February 25, 2023

Lightning Round: Do Men Hate Situationships As Much As Women?

89 hours 31 mins; February 21, 2023

SOS: Husband Or F*ck Off

35 mins; February 18, 2023

How Much Can You Embellish On Your Dating App Profile?

79 hours 24 mins; February 14, 2023

Valentine's Day Dates: The Archive Dive

42 mins; February 13, 2023

Nothing Happens When You Least Expect It Ft. Jay Shetty

59 mins; February 11, 2023

Was Your DTR Talk Too Vague?

63 hours 46 mins; February 07, 2023

Do You Need To Be Single To Work On Yourself?

37 mins; February 04, 2023

What Counts As Cheating?

84 hours 10 mins; January 31, 2023

SOS: Blindsided By A Breakup

38 mins; January 28, 2023

Is Ambition A Valid Reason For A Breakup?

84 hours 22 mins; January 24, 2023

Why Can't I Commit To A Fifth Date? (Jared's Oversharing Therapy Session)

32 mins; January 23, 2023

The Problem With Being Comfy

40 mins; January 21, 2023

How To Revive A Dating App Match

84 hours 10 mins; January 17, 2023

Don’t Fall For A Selfish Apology

29 mins; January 14, 2023

How Much Does Sexual Chemistry Matter?

79 hours 8 mins; January 10, 2023

Playing It Cool Is Overrated

31 mins; January 07, 2023

How To Be More Charming

74 hours 17 mins; January 03, 2023

You’re Not Annoying, He’s Just An Asshole

42 mins; December 31, 2022

Make Your Dating Life About You

66 hours 31 mins; December 27, 2022

What Does Emotional Availability Actually Look Like?

29 mins; December 24, 2022

Does Splitting The Check On The First Date Mean He’s Not Into It?

66 hours 38 mins; December 20, 2022

To Play Games Or Not To Play Games

36 mins; December 17, 2022

How To Ask For More Romance In A Relationship

85 hours 9 mins; December 13, 2022

Was He Using Me Or Did He Just Change His Mind?

31 mins; December 10, 2022

Are You Too Picky Or Not Picky Enough?

88 hours 4 mins; December 06, 2022

How Gender Norms Are Hurting Your Sex Life Ft. Emily Nagoski

67 hours 58 mins; December 03, 2022

Do I Need To Live In A City To Date?

80 hours 32 mins; November 29, 2022

How To Deal With Weird Texts From An Ex

25 mins; November 26, 2022

Sliding Vs. Deciding

82 hours 5 mins; November 22, 2022

Do You Have To Like Your S.O.’s Friends?

50 mins; November 19, 2022

The Anniversary Episode

103 hours 59 mins; November 15, 2022

Can Family Dynamics Be A Deal Breaker?

32 mins; November 12, 2022

Why Won’t My Friends Set Me Up? Ft. Fortune Feimster

109 hours 53 mins; November 08, 2022

Do You Have To Reply To A Breakup Text?

49 mins; November 05, 2022

Why Doesn’t He Ask Me Any Questions?

80 hours 49 mins; November 01, 2022

Why Do Men Make Promises They Can’t Keep? Ft. Delaney Rowe

48 mins; October 29, 2022

Is “He’s Just Not That Into You” Still Accurate?

85 hours 33 mins; October 25, 2022

How To Talk About Money With Your S.O. Ft. Ramit Sethi

63 hours 25 mins; October 22, 2022

Am I Giving Up If I’m Not On The Apps?

74 hours 37 mins; October 18, 2022

Stop Romanticizing Your Ex

34 mins; October 15, 2022

Do Guys Care Less Once It’s Official?

91 hours 5 mins; October 11, 2022

Should I Reach Out Again If The Timing Wasn’t Right?

30 mins; October 08, 2022

Lightning Round Part 2: Embracing Disappointment, The World’s Saddest Pep Talk, and Romantic Coffee Dates

57 mins; October 04, 2022

Will Losing Weight Fix My Relationship?

30 mins; October 01, 2022

Lightning Round Part 1: Adam Levine, Standing Out On Dating Apps, & Living With A Disgusting

78 hours 2 mins; September 27, 2022

What Should You Expect When Visiting A Long Distance Fling?

35 mins; September 24, 2022

How Much Time Do You Need Between Relationships?

91 hours 31 mins; September 20, 2022

Are You Dating Like You’re In A Relationship?

33 mins; September 17, 2022

How To Avoid Dating App Burnout

83 hours 11 mins; September 13, 2022

How Secure People Respond To Rejection

37 mins; September 10, 2022

How To Take The Pressure Off Of Your Dating Life

89 hours 20 mins; September 06, 2022

Are Work Crushes Hurting My Love Life?

26 mins; September 03, 2022

“The Rise Of Lonely, Single Men”?

90 hours 25 mins; August 30, 2022

Can You Trust A Drunk Text?

32 mins; August 27, 2022

Should I Join A “Are We Dating The Same Guy?” Facebook Group?

82 hours 39 mins; August 23, 2022

How Much Vetting Is Too Much Before A First Date?

37 mins; August 20, 2022

Would You Want To Be On A Singles List?

92 hours 47 mins; August 16, 2022

Do You Actually Want To Know Why They Ended It?

40 mins; August 13, 2022

Am I Trusting My Gut Or Being Judgemental? Ft. Zoey Deutch

85 hours 25 mins; August 09, 2022

Stop Worrying About The Friend Group

31 mins; August 08, 2022

What’s The Right Texting Ratio?

62 hours 48 mins; August 02, 2022

Can Height Be A Deal Breaker? Ft. Patti Stanger

48 mins; July 30, 2022

Can I Ask My BF To Clean Out His Following List?

74 hours 19 mins; July 26, 2022

Do Men Avoid Hookups To Avoid Blame?

24 mins; July 23, 2022

It’s Not You, It’s Your Explore Page

69 hours 51 mins; July 19, 2022

Are Men Really Intimidated By Me?

33 mins; July 16, 2022

What Do Men Actually Mean When They Say They’re Not Ready?

91 hours 40 mins; July 12, 2022

How Is He Not Thinking About The Future?

34 mins; July 09, 2022

Does The “Crazy/Hot Scale” Still Hold Up?

81 hours 5 mins; July 05, 2022

“Better Than Nothing” Relationships Are Actually Worse Than Nothing

24 mins; July 02, 2022

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