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U Up? is the definitive modern dating podcast presented by Betches co-founder Jordana Abraham and comedian Jared Freid, where they discuss their take on the ebbs and flows of the crazy dating world we live in. From interpreting dating app interactions and weird sexual encounters, to defining the relationship and everything in between - they’re here to make sure you don’t die alone. For more fun dating commentary, polls, and bonus content, follow @u.up.podcast on Instagram. Become a friend (with benefits) of the podcast and subscribe to receive early release and ad-free versions of all our new...

Is It Inflation Or Is He Just Not That Into Me?

68 hours 38 mins; June 29, 2022

How To Spot A Guy Who’s Just Telling You What You Want To Hear

24 mins; June 25, 2022

How To Block Someone In An Empowering Way

77 hours 5 mins; June 21, 2022

Should You Pre-Qualify Your First Dates?

41 mins; June 18, 2022

Can You Wait TOO Long To Have Sex?

87 hours 32 mins; June 14, 2022

Should I Call Out A Vibe Shift In My Relationship?

31 mins; June 11, 2022

What’s More Important, Chemistry Or Connection?

86 hours 49 mins; June 07, 2022

Vague Questions Get Vague Answers

31 mins; June 04, 2022

How To Do A Mini Reveal

76 hours 13 mins; May 31, 2022

How Should I Interpret Confusing Communication From My Ex?

24 mins; May 28, 2022

What’s The Right Answer To “How Are You Still Single?”

90 hours 4 mins; May 24, 2022

How Do I Stop Comparing Myself To My Boyfriend’s Ex?

43 mins; May 22, 2022

Is The Saying “When You Know You Know” Actually True?

75 hours 50 mins; May 17, 2022

Is This A Red Flag Or Am I The As*hole?

30 mins; May 14, 2022

When Does A White Lie Become A Regular Lie? Ft. Rebel Wilson

91 hours 19 mins; May 10, 2022

How To Take The Hint After Shooting Your Shot

27 mins; May 07, 2022

Dating Before & After College

83 hours 59 mins; May 03, 2022

“The Ultimatum” Review

47 mins; April 30, 2022

How To Weed People Out On The First Date

85 hours 26 mins; April 26, 2022

You Can’t Hack The Dating Apps

33 mins; April 23, 2022

The Key To A Better Dating Life Is Your Life Outside Of Dating

90 hours 54 mins; April 19, 2022

Does Being "Adventurous" Mean Putting Up With No Effort?

45 mins; April 16, 2022

Is It A Good Sign If A First Date Lasts a Long Time?

88 hours 28 mins; April 12, 2022

Are Men Intimidated By Women’s Success?

38 mins; April 10, 2022

Better App Conversations Come From Better Prompts

91 hours 45 mins; April 05, 2022

Men Picture The Breakup, Women Picture The Wedding

31 mins; April 02, 2022

The Upside Of A “Failed” 3-Monther

61 hours 12 mins; March 29, 2022

Is Ghosting Ever Okay?

28 mins; March 26, 2022

The Only Dating Rules That Matter Are Your Own

74 hours 33 mins; March 22, 2022

Temporary Relationships: Every Man’s Dream?

33 mins; March 19, 2022

Is Instagram The Ultimate Relationship Test?

78 hours 25 mins; March 15, 2022

Is Sliding Into The DMs Less Creepy When Women Do It? Ft. Taylor Tomlinson

46 mins; March 12, 2022

Is Going On Dates The Same As Dating? Ft. Sebastian Stan & Daisy Edgar-Jones

82 hours 53 mins; March 08, 2022

Is Timing a BS Excuse?

31 mins; March 05, 2022

Closing The Sexting Gap

80 hours 58 mins; March 01, 2022

Is The Instagram Follow A Big Deal In Dating?

32 mins; February 26, 2022

How Do I Stop Being A “Cool Girl”?

97 hours 7 mins; February 22, 2022

Does Acting “Coupley” Actually Mean Anything?

32 mins; February 19, 2022

Winter Dating Pep Talk

63 hours 31 mins; February 15, 2022

Can We Still Be Friends If He Wants To Hook Up With Me?

31 mins; February 12, 2022

Valentine’s Day Lightning Round: Embrace The Cliché

67 hours 59 mins; February 08, 2022

“And Just Like That...” Season Review

59 mins; February 05, 2022

Will Men Settle Down With Literally Anyone If The Timing Is Right?

96 hours 29 mins; February 01, 2022

Does Anything Justify Not Texting Back For Over A Week?

23 mins; January 29, 2022

How NOT To Do Long Distance Relationships

88 hours 1 min; January 25, 2022

West Elm Caleb Is Everything That’s Wrong With Modern Dating

44 mins; January 22, 2022

Stop Judging Yourself So Much When Dating

92 hours 4 mins; January 18, 2022

Can Awkward Sex Be A Deal Breaker?

30 mins; January 15, 2022

Is It Normal To Have FOMO When You’re In A Relationship?

80 hours 6 mins; January 11, 2022

It’s Okay To Admit You Don’t Want Something Casual

23 mins; January 08, 2022

Is It A Red Flag If My Boyfriend Stays In Touch With His Ex?

58 mins; January 04, 2022

Is It Possible To Separate A Potential Love Interest From Their Income?

44 mins; January 01, 2022

What Does “Settling” Actually Mean?

66 hours 12 mins; December 28, 2021

Why Do Some Women Reject “Sweet” Guys?

24 mins; December 25, 2021

Jordana’s Wedding: A Dramatic Reading (U Up? With Benefits Excerpt)

9 mins; December 23, 2021

Does Every Situationship Deserve A Breakup?

82 hours 42 mins; December 21, 2021

Why Does He Keep Texting Me Without Planning A Date?

28 mins; December 18, 2021

Does It Matter How Many People They’ve Slept With Before You?

67 hours 39 mins; December 14, 2021

All Too Well (Taylor’s Version) (J&J’s Version)

32 mins; December 11, 2021

Jared Reviews Jordana’s Wedding

73 hours 13 mins; December 07, 2021

Do I Really Need My Stuff Back From My Ex?

29 mins; December 04, 2021

You Are Your Explore Page

64 hours 19 mins; November 30, 2021

When To Take The Loss In Dating

29 mins; November 27, 2021

The Pros & Cons Of Meeting On The Apps

82 hours 58 mins; November 23, 2021

How To Handle A Breakup With A Coworker

28 mins; November 20, 2021

Lightning Round: Thanksgiving Invites, Holiday Gifts, And Nosey Family Members

57 mins; November 16, 2021

How To Stop Wasting Time On People Who Aren’t Making You A Priority

36 mins; November 13, 2021

Do Exes Always Come Back? Ft. Ricky Velez

70 hours 18 mins; November 09, 2021

When Should Couples Start Mixing Finances? Ft. Berna Anat

44 mins; November 06, 2021

Is Dating Easier For Men?

91 hours 57 mins; November 02, 2021

The Best Way To Approach Failed Situationships

30 mins; October 30, 2021

What Is “The Reveal”?

86 hours 58 mins; October 26, 2021

How To Cut Ties With The Guy In Your DMs

23 mins; October 23, 2021

How To Talk To Your S.O. About Sex

72 hours 52 mins; October 19, 2021

How To Write An Effective Standard-Setting Text

36 mins; October 16, 2021

What Are The Signs That You’re In Love?

87 hours 45 mins; October 12, 2021

When Is It Okay To Have A Serious Conversation Over Text?

26 mins; October 09, 2021

How Dating Buzzwords Might Be Hurting Your Love Life

82 hours 46 mins; October 05, 2021

Am I The F*ckboy?

14 mins; October 02, 2021

Would You Really Want To Know Why Someone Broke Up With You?

60 hours 9 mins; September 28, 2021

How To Confront Your S.O. About Sketchy Texts

16 mins; September 25, 2021

How To Know If You’re A Rebound

73 hours 50 mins; September 21, 2021

Are Different Political Views A Deal Breaker?

32 mins; September 18, 2021

Can I Be Confident And Insecure At The Same Time? Ft. Violet Benson

75 hours 15 mins; September 14, 2021

What Does A F*ckboy Get Out Of Being Friends?

30 mins; September 11, 2021

What To Do When You Let Your “Crazy” Show Too Soon Ft. Giannina Gibelli

76 hours 39 mins; September 07, 2021

How Long Is Too Long To Wait For A Text Back?

26 mins; September 04, 2021

Should I Accept A “Hangout” Date?

70 hours 30 mins; August 31, 2021

What You Should Ask Yourself Before You Break Up Ft. Logan Ury

45 mins; August 28, 2021

Lightning Round: Dating In The Age Of Social Media

66 hours 29 mins; August 24, 2021

Does Playing Games Ever Work?

20 mins; August 21, 2021

Why Would He Act Like My Boyfriend But Not Want To Date?

69 hours 7 mins; August 17, 2021

Can You Set Your Standard Too Low?

23 mins; August 14, 2021

How To Date Multiple People At Once

71 hours 28 mins; August 10, 2021

When Is It Time To Block Someone?

20 mins; August 07, 2021

What Does Being A F*ckboy Actually Mean?

71 hours 47 mins; August 03, 2021

Your Love Language Is Whatever You’re Getting The Least

22 mins; July 31, 2021

Is Cheating Always A Deal Breaker?

82 hours 9 mins; July 27, 2021

How To Date In Your Twenties Ft. Dr. Meg Jay

47 mins; July 24, 2021

Why Am I Offended If I Don't Even Like Him?

57 mins; July 20, 2021

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