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U Up? is the definitive modern dating podcast presented by Betches co-founder Jordana Abraham and comedian Jared Freid, where they discuss their take on the ebbs and flows of the crazy dating world we live in. From interpreting dating app interactions and weird sexual encounters, to defining the relationship and everything in between - they’re here to make sure you don’t die alone. For more fun dating commentary, polls, and bonus content, follow @u.up.podcast on Instagram. Become a friend (with benefits) of the podcast and subscribe to receive early release and ad-free versions of all our new...

How To Know If The Timing Is Off Or If They're Just Not That Into You

23 mins; July 17, 2021

Lightning Round: Your Summer Dating Questions Answered

80 hours 14 mins; July 13, 2021

What To Do When You Catch Feelings And They Don’t

19 mins; July 10, 2021

Why Don’t My Friends Like The Guy I’m Seeing? Ft. Iliza Shlesinger & Margaret Cho

84 hours 44 mins; July 06, 2021

Am I Settling Or Did I Just Find The Right Person Early? Ft. Lori Gottlieb

32 mins; July 03, 2021

How To Tell If A F*ckboy Has Actually Changed

81 hours 10 mins; June 29, 2021

Am I Being Avoidant Or Do I Just Not Like Him?

23 mins; June 26, 2021

How To Keep Your Summer Fling From Fizzling Ft. Jared’s College Ex, Ashley Bisman

73 hours 44 mins; June 22, 2021

Should I Call Out A Breadcrumber?

18 mins; June 19, 2021

Is It Weird To DM Someone If You Didn’t Match On The Apps?

77 hours 34 mins; June 15, 2021

Is Infidelity Inevitable? Ft. Dan Savage

52 mins; June 12, 2021

Do I Have What It Takes To Have A Hot Girl Summer?

77 hours 42 mins; June 08, 2021

Why Do Exes Come Back Pretending To Want Friendship

20 mins; June 05, 2021

Lightning Round: Dating App Pictures, Bad Kissers, And Emotionally Slutty Boyfriends

105 hours 7 mins; June 01, 2021

Are Personality Types Relevant In Dating?

16 mins; May 29, 2021

How To Hit On Someone Without Being Creepy Ft. Camille Kostek

71 hours 10 mins; May 25, 2021

Is Alcohol F*cking Up My Dating Life?

27 mins; May 22, 2021

Dealing With A Breakup

93 hours 15 mins; May 18, 2021

How To Tell Your Best Friend You Have Feelings For Them Ft. Tinx

51 mins; May 15, 2021

Will My Relationship Survive After The Pandemic?

63 hours 12 mins; May 11, 2021

A Matchmaker’s Guide To Finding Love Ft. Matchmaker Maria

54 mins; May 08, 2021

Is Faking An Orgasm Anti-Feminist?

70 hours 15 mins; May 04, 2021

Not Everyone Who Doesn’t Want To Date You Is A F*ckboy

25 mins; May 01, 2021

How To Have Casual Hookups Without Feeling Disrespected

77 hours 44 mins; April 27, 2021

Is My Coworker Flirting Or Just Being Friendly?

33 mins; April 24, 2021

What You Should Know Before You Pay For Dating App Features

74 hours 14 mins; April 20, 2021

Is He Bad At Planning Or Does He Just Not Care?

25 mins; April 17, 2021

Are You Setting Your Standards Or Avoiding Rejection?

62 hours 56 mins; April 13, 2021

How To Spot a Lazy Dater Before You Get In Too Deep

23 mins; April 10, 2021

Lightning Round: Dating App Tips, F*ckboy Streaks, And Running Into Exes

71 hours 26 mins; April 06, 2021

Why Do People Still Get Married?

27 mins; April 03, 2021

How Long Should It Take For Them To Say “I Love You”?

69 hours 17 mins; March 30, 2021

Am I An As*hole If I Keep Hooking Up With Someone Who Has Feelings For Me?

23 mins; March 27, 2021

Can You Call Dibs On A Dating App Match?

78 hours 1 min; March 23, 2021

How Many White Lies Make A Red Flag?

23 mins; March 20, 2021

Do I Really Want To DTR Or Is It Just Relationship Anxiety? Ft. Victoria Justice

70 hours 45 mins; March 16, 2021

How To Ask For What You Want In Bed Without Offending Your Partner Ft. Dr. Emily Morse

54 mins; March 13, 2021

Should I Wait To Break Up Until It’s More Convenient To Move Out?

61 hours 55 mins; March 09, 2021

How Do I Know If The Person I'm Dating Is Ready To Move On From Their Ex?

31 mins; March 06, 2021

How To Apologize To An Ex You Treated Poorly

78 hours 15 mins; March 02, 2021

Is It Ever Worth Trying To Make It Work With a Bad Communicator?

16 mins; February 27, 2021

How To Set The Expectation That You Won’t Be Hooking Up Before A Date

82 hours 35 mins; February 23, 2021

How To Get A Straight Answer About Why Your Fling Suddenly Ended

26 mins; February 20, 2021

Can I Ask My Partner To Pay More If They Make More? Ft. Mike Johnson

83 hours 56 mins; February 16, 2021

How Do I Tell My New Partner About My Food Issues? Ft. Aleen Dreksler

47 mins; February 13, 2021

What Are The Valentine’s Day Expectations In A New Relationship?

64 hours 5 mins; February 09, 2021

How To Not Die Alone Ft. Logan Ury

62 hours 28 mins; February 06, 2021

Is There A Way To Salvage A Relationship With Very Different Marriage Timelines?

63 hours 28 mins; February 02, 2021

How Many FaceTime Dates Equal One IRL Date?

34 mins; January 30, 2021

How To Get Your Parents To Stop Pressuring You To Date

76 hours 17 mins; January 26, 2021

Everything You Need To Know About Dating With Herpes Ft. Erica Spera

60 hours 48 mins; January 23, 2021

Should I Tell Him I Snooped On His Phone If I Didn't Like What I Saw? Ft. Stephen Colletti & James Lafferty

82 hours 47 mins; January 19, 2021

Does An Expensive Date Imply That He Wants A Relationship Or Sex?

30 mins; January 16, 2021

Is It Normal To Keep Track Of Every Date You’ve Been On?

69 hours 20 mins; January 12, 2021

How To Spot An A*shole Who’s Pretending He’s a Nice Guy

18 mins; January 09, 2021

Is There Ever A Chance A Long Term Hook Up Can Turn Into A Relationship?

67 hours 18 mins; January 05, 2021

Is It a Bad Sign if He’s Saying He Doesn’t Want to See Me Until the Pandemic is Over?

16 mins; January 02, 2021

How To Move On In The Midst Of A Pandemic

79 hours 16 mins; December 29, 2020

How To Get A Guy Who Won't Date You To Stop Looking At Your Instagram Story

19 mins; December 26, 2020

How Do I Get Over An Ex Moving On Too Quickly? Ft. Bo Burnham

98 hours 30 mins; December 22, 2020

Is It Possible To Turn An Out-Of-Town Fling Into Something Real?

22 mins; December 19, 2020

Here Are The Signs That Your Boyfriend Is Trying To Break Up With You

70 hours 16 mins; December 15, 2020

Does A Random “How Are You?” Text Mean They’re Looking To Hookup?

20 mins; December 12, 2020

How Do I Relay That I Want An Expensive Engagement Ring Without Seeming Shallow?

91 hours 30 mins; December 08, 2020

Why Would An Ex Swipe Right On My Dating Profile?

22 mins; December 05, 2020

Is It Okay To Judge Someone You're Dating By Their Friend Group?

82 hours 34 mins; December 01, 2020

These Are The Signs You Shouldn’t Go On That First Date

17 mins; November 28, 2020

Do I Have a Right To Ask The Guy I'm Seeing Why He's Following Girls On Instagram?

65 hours 33 mins; November 24, 2020

Is It Worse To Be A Cynical Dater Or A Naive Dater?

21 mins; November 21, 2020

How Soon Should You Expect To Get Daily Messages From A Person You Started Dating?

80 hours 18 mins; November 17, 2020

Does It Count As Cheating If He's Getting Nudes From Someone He Never Met?

28 mins; November 14, 2020

Is It a Dealbreaker If Your Significant Other Won’t Get a Dog?

74 hours 49 mins; November 10, 2020

Should I Keep Talking To Someone Who's In An Open Relationship?

18 mins; November 07, 2020

Where's the Line Between Being Shady and Wanting Privacy?

84 hours 24 mins; November 03, 2020

Is It Ever Too Early To Tell a Guy You’re Really Into Him?

24 mins; October 31, 2020

Is It Time to Start Accepting That Closure Isn’t A Real Thing?

86 hours 30 mins; October 27, 2020

Is It Possible To Wait Too Long To Have Sex With Someone?

18 mins; October 24, 2020

Can I Improve My Dating Life By Moving to a New City?

86 hours 2 mins; October 20, 2020

Is It Worse To Do The Slow Fade Or Ghost Someone Completely?

21 mins; October 17, 2020

Should I Stop Seeing A Guy That Won’t Call Me His Girlfriend?

80 hours 55 mins; October 13, 2020

How Do I Get My Boyfriend To Talk About His Erectile Dysfunction?

31 mins; October 10, 2020

Is It Fair To Judge My Partner For Not Being Ambitious Enough?

66 hours 39 mins; October 06, 2020

What's the Best Way to Handle Rejection?

22 mins; October 03, 2020

Should We Stop Asking People What They’re “Looking For” On A Dating App?

90 hours 50 mins; September 29, 2020

Should I Reach Back Out To Someone Who Ghosted Me?

16 mins; September 26, 2020

Can You Ask Someone To Delete Your Nudes After You Break Up?

73 hours 33 mins; September 22, 2020

How Detailed Should A Breakup Text Be After Just A Few Dates?

21 mins; September 19, 2020

Can You Ever Assume You’re In A Relationship With Someone Without Having “The Talk”?

70 hours 59 mins; September 15, 2020

How Do I Get My Boyfriend To Spend More Time With Me? Ft. Dr. Naomi Bernstein (Jordana’s Sister)

54 mins; September 12, 2020

Why Does He Keep Texting Me If He Won’t Make A Date?

64 hours 17 mins; September 08, 2020

How Do You Signal To A Guy That It’s Okay To Approach You In Public? Ft. Girls Gotta Eat

50 mins; September 05, 2020

Is It A Red Flag If Someone Expresses Strong Feelings Right Away?

66 hours 6 mins; September 01, 2020

The One Where We Talk About Indian Matchmaking Ft. Aparna Shewakramani

46 mins; August 29, 2020

Should I Be Worried That My Boyfriend Won’t Talk About Marriage?

74 hours 4 mins; August 25, 2020

Is It Normal To Obsess Over My Boyfriend’s Ex?

20 mins; August 22, 2020

How To Interpret An Ex's Viewing Of Your Instagram Stories

92 hours 34 mins; August 18, 2020

Do You Deserve An Explanation If Someone Ends Things After the Third Date?

30 mins; August 15, 2020

Is It Possible To Go From Sexting To Dating?

64 hours 59 mins; August 11, 2020

The One Where Jordana Got Engaged

41 mins; August 08, 2020

Why Do People Keep Cancelling On Me Before Dates?

76 hours 13 mins; August 04, 2020

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